LisaD1
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 5:55:17 PM | OK dude...I had to do a double take there becasue I figured in order to speak with such authority on a woman you had to be one....and then I realized you have a penis. Hence the reason there wasn't enough blood rushing to your brain to THINK!
Leave the discussion on women's sexuality to the WOMEN, you have no idea what you're talking about | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certain type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 6:21:01 PM | Steve-4-3 stated: "I truly believe that most men and women would love sex if they learned how to... that it's not just a "quicky"(although sometimes a quicky is exciting). When we are in our teens and 20's,a quicky is usually all we're interested in/all we know. Isn't sex great? We're always watching the time. But as we mature,most of us(hopefully)LEARN that we can make the pleasure last/increase it by taking our time and being concerned with our partner's pleasure,too. 20-30 minutes can very easily be turned into hours of mutual pleasure. I feel that the reason a man or woman doesn't like sex is that they simply havn't learned to experience this. Once one learns this,who would opt for the 20-30min. quicky? "
 HEAR!! HEAR!! Steve! HEAR!! HEAR!! WELL STATED!!
I'm 53 and feel like you can ALWAYS learn something from almost anyone and that if you spend a day without learning at least some little something, then you have wasted that day. If what you learn is something new about how to please a sexual partner, all the better. And when you do learn what he/she likes, for goodness sake, use it. You don't have to have a procedure you follow where you always put the new knowledge into slot #5 and do it exactly 3 times or for one minute; be a little creative. Be open to try new things. Most importantly, let your partner KNOW that you are open to trying things they would like; that you want to please them so they will get as much out of the experience as you do. Not only is every person different, we can complicate matters by throwing in the fact that we don't always enjoy the same things every time. As has been stated earlier, foreplay is usually important (and thank goodness for it, too; the older I get, the more I realize and appreciate this) but at times, a quickie can be VERY exciting and intense for both. Poor communication is where most folks seem to go wrong in a lot of cases. As a survivor of several failed relationships myself, I can state unequivocally that it was a huge factor in almost every case. Also, the poor communication went in both directions at times and there hardly ever seemed to be a time when either one of us was completely blameless in this; a factor that I intend to keep front and formost in my feeble old brain as I venture forth into this strange new world of (OMG) dating again. Hopefully, with age will come at least a wee tad of wisdom in my little area of the world. Hey, there is ALWAYS hope.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/5/2006 8:07:06 PM | O,k, I am going to be the unpopular one here, I am getting good at it, Darakko's point is a very good one, and in time I believe it is true in many ways, the affair I had when I was married that got me in sooooo much trouble was with a very horny woman, but she couldnt stand her husband and didnt like to have sex with him because she lost respect for him, I think when women with strong sex drives lose respect for their husbands they also lose sex drive for them??????? can we agree on that with out getting the pitch forks out???? I believe that is what Darakko was saying, that in general, when a woman respects her man and can have some shine in her eye's about him, she wants to open to him,,,,,,.
I work for behavioral health and I am always saying something stupid on these forums and sounding like a therapist, maybe someone ought to just put me out of my misery.... | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:35:53 PM | | Its a good thing men can't recognize the type of woman that loves sex or just wants a sexual friendship otherwise men would only date those women,lol I've had women ask me straight out "your hot wanna ****?" then I'd ball em all night long.Sometimes its nice to skip the useless dating crap and get down to what its going to come down too eventually.I laugh and smile when a woman asks me out,or asks straight out for sex ect wish there were more. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:45:04 PM | dARAKKO
Which particular rock did you just crawl out under from?? And what planet was that, that you were on?? Women, my dear, desire sex just as much as men do, some even more (present company included). The young men do what they can to make themselves happy, the older ones have realized that to make her happy in turn pleases him as well. And here's a revelation for you...women that are not in relationships with men know that it takes much more than sex to embark on a meaningful relationship. Sure, its a significant factor, but there is much more.
And lastly, now for the encore: I am an "older" woman and I have no "plan" per se. I do what I like, when I like and if I like. Sex is a very very strong desire for me...good sex that is. I'd rather do without than have lousy sex.
Sorry to you bub. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:48:59 PM | oh please! do these stereotypes double standards stil lexist? O F COURSE WE LOVE IT AS MUCH!! and more so!!! often times. gusy we gotta waita round for YOU to 'get ready' agiainwhile we have/anda re capable of consecutive o's in a row
AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH ROSEHIPS!!!! while we wait for him to "rest" we have a couple more and then are ready for round two. then when we gear up for round three he's "not ready yet" or "still resting" . so we do it ourselves again. then when it happens, our ratio is 10 to 1 to his.
but we don't like it. oh no.
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 4:59:20 PM | I have to agree with all in 1. Women are so INCREDIBLE sexualy. All women love sex just like men. But They know they have that Ace up there sleeve. Most guys don't think that they do.90% of men are visual and 90% of woman are emotional when it comes to sex. That other 10% They like sex anyway they can get it as long as they get theirs which I agree with. The women who are in that 10% have figured out that they will use men as toys so they don't have to keep the Energizer Bunny makeing batteries.lol I volunteer to help them out. The women most of the people are talking about Just want it a lot untill they get what they want. Thats not a BASH about women a hole lot of men DO IT. If you don't belive me read half the forums on here. They learned why should guys be the only one to do it. YOU GO LADYS. I know its been do to me but hey I'll jump on the band wagon time and time again till I find the one Thats in that 10%. Or the one who likes makeing mr happy happy as much as I like makeing her Happy. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 5:58:29 PM | To purplestardust
You have expressed this very well. Loving goes 2 ways - that's what makes it intimate. Sex by itself can be scattered in all directions. Sex should be the outward expression of loving, as opposed to a standalone entity. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 6:30:17 PM | Yes Tat, there are women like you have described. I have know a few over my life time and one very recently! Yes they do love sex and all they can get from you, and most that way will allow you do put Mr Happy as you call it, into any office they have, and love the feeling whether it be purley pleasure or a little bit of pain.
What I can tell you from my experiences is the thing all of the women I have met like thathave been abused sexually as a child or teenager!!! They are acting out a counter phobic experience. What a counter phobic experience is? Whatever happened to them earlier in life that made them feel shame, guilt, pain has been turned upside down in their minds as a way to deal with it. They actually seek out the very same use/abuse that when turned upside down gives them great pleasure, because it touches those feeling that made them feel the same/guilt/and pain earlier. They are a lot of fun physically, but quite dangerous as they really aren't very stable. In a few experiences they become very attached, in others they are married and can be dangerous...
The last one of this type of woman I was having uninhibited sex in anyway I wanted it. was very wonderful as there were no limits. But she has been having the same type of affair with her boss for the last four years. I was just an added addition to her sex drive. She is married but not to her boss whom is also married. But she began to want more sex from me than I could deliver do to work and distance. So I finally had to let it end. Hey, if you can find one of these type of women, you definatley will have a wonderful time, but please keep in mind they do have a mental sickness, so don't get in to deep. Always walk away when that time comes!! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/12/2006 6:40:32 PM | Hey lighten up on the guy, he was just asking a question! And I can speak from experience, there really are women out there like that as to the QUESTION he asked.
Allow me to give you a burn like you did to him. I do understand that you have no penis therefore all your blood is in your head. It sure helps warm that emotional empty space though!!!
Leave the sex questions and physical part to we men that understand it!!
Now you can burn me, I could care less. I rarely ever get here on the forms anyway. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/13/2006 10:24:44 PM | msg # 7 Darakko -- nice pic of Wesley as to your post.. sorry bub either you are having us on or are truly sadly informed 
  there are many women of all ages who are not into playing games -- a certain type? No, merely women who are aware of their urges, libido and completely willing to explore those same urges/fantasies.
I recall myself in my twenties and often laugh at the lack of sensuality as well as willingness to fully explore a wide variety of sensations with or without another living being in the same room.
   
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/14/2006 3:53:32 PM | It is indeed a certain type,
I'ts the honest type.
The type who no longer cares how may other women call her a sslut because her sex life is better than theirs.
I'ts the type who stings on the office girls about this hot weekend she's just had with this georgeous man and goes into marrive detail and, at the last moment, lets drop that the guy she's talking abotu is her husband.
Thats the type. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 12/14/2006 4:13:43 PM | | I don't think the love of sex is man or woman, it is an individual thing. You are into sex or you are not. There are those of us that work at making sex the best we can and there are those that can take it or leave it. | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 1/10/2007 6:32:04 AM | | men will tell women they love them in order to gain sex ,,,,,,,,,women will have sex with men in order to be loved ,,,, so true and very sad for sure | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 1/10/2007 7:08:10 AM | Actually I feel sad for anyone who doesnt enjoy it. Whats not to enjoy.
However, I find it so much more enjoyable when I am in a loving relationship, and am so comfortable with my partner. When he knows me and what makes me happy and when I know him and what makes him happy. Ah, that's the best! | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 1/26/2007 12:01:12 AM | Alrighty. I must tell you, I don't consider myself sex craved, but most certainly love sex. I was in a relationship with a guy...my first sexual one as well as his. I wanted sex at least once a day....whilst he only wanted at most...twice a week. We had to comprimise..every other day. And most of the time only if I was the instigator.
I honestly do not think that there is anything wrong with a women with a high sex drive. It just sucks if they get with a guy with a lower sex drive.
Just because a/your woman isn't clawing your pants off as soon as you see each other doesn't mean she doesn't want it right then and there.
Women (women I know, my friends, me) are very sexual creatures. We all have different levels in which we show our sexuality. There are women who do not like sex, or just a little. Most of these types of women are taught that sex is bad and only a loose women would enjoy such an activity. (not all women who are on the lower spectrum are like this, but most I've met.) Yes, they still exist. Or it is only for reproductive purposes.
And to say most women do it just to please who they are with....please. "yes honey, i'll do it if you want, whatever you want. Don't worry, I'll like it if you do."
I'm sure the ratio is close to 50/50 of higher and lower sex drives...but purhaps the ratio is more of the lower spectrum.
I like sex, but I'm not going to give it up to anyone just because they tell me they love me.
Some women do lose interest in sex as they get older....I'm really not sure how to describe them...Only met one or two..lol.
I guess to answer the OP: Yes, I guess it is a 'certain type'. It is the women on the higher end of the sexual awareness spectrum. Not sluts, tramps, or anyother of those words. Men have a higher and lower spectrum....they just seem to have a lot more in the higher range. ^.^
I'm not sure if any of this made sense...Jumbled and such as it is. Sorry... | |
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| Women who love sex just as much as men: Is it a certian type?
Posted: 3/8/2007 1:18:31 AM | lol i love reading the responces in these forums! of course woman love it just as much....sometimes even more so.in a relationship i tend to get greedy because its there on tap.
when im single duracell aint going out of business anytime soon. | |
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