| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/7/2008 1:08:10 PM | An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several years. He had a large pond in the back, nicely fixed up with picnic tables, horseshoe pits and some apple and peach trees. The pond was properly shaped and designed for swimming when it was built.
One evening the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn't been there for a while and look it over. He grabbed his hat and a five-gallon bucket to bring back some fruit.
As he got nearer to the pond, he was amazed to hear the sound of laughter and shouting. When he emerged from behind a peach tree, he saw five gorgeous teenage girls skinny-dipping in his pond. As soon as they saw him, they squealed in alarm and hid themselves in the deep end.
"We're not coming out until you leave!" one of them shouted.
"Nice beaver," chuckled the old man.
"Filthy perve!" shouted another.
"Yeah...don't think you're gonna see my tits ya dirty ol' man!" screamed a third, hastily covering up the magnificent pair the old man's eyes were glued to.
The old man frowned. "Lookee here, girls. I didn't come down here to watch five little cuties swimmin' nekkid as a jaybird in mah pond. I ain't gonna make you git out nekkid neither." Holding the bucket up he said: "I'm jus' here to feed mah 'gator. Don't mind me."
"G-GATOR!!!" The girls screamed in unison. All five shrieked with fright and scrambled out of the pool.
"Here, lemme help ya out," said the old man, putting his arm around the prettiest girl.
Which goes to prove that old men who don't move so quickly can still think faster than a young stud!
You see...................................the real problem is......There just are not enough alligators to go around...................................
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| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:58:13 PM | Dearest Fission
You sound like a very patient man....but i would say honestly there is nothing you can do to make her feel more confident... this has nothing to do with you... she has got to get help for herself...
There could be many reason for the way she feels and i am sure she has an idea .... i used to feel the same way once apon a time..... and had to learn to love myself... and stop thinking about the way my x husband made me feel... now i love being nakked...
So in short you have to make a decison for you... if ur not happy and she does not satisfy what you want ...don't feel guilty.... sex is a very important part of a relationship... i would talk to her again tell her how you feel .... but if she does not change well might be time to move on...
Remember you only have one life so make the best of it and be happy and nakked...lol good luck | |
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| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/10/2008 4:30:11 PM | YEP - GET YOUR ADVICE ON POF.... 
WELL ... LET ME GIVE SOME UPDATE - Not that it will stop the advice flowing in - even after 2 years later!
He has come up with the answer!  An answer no less, nobody else had thought of. 
He married her, and is on here as a married man. He is looking for discreet fun to try new things and truly enjoy
sex as it was intended.   | |
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| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/22/2008 11:09:31 PM | Maybe the reason this thread seems to get "resurrected" is because of it's title ... some are shocked by it, some live it, and it suggests that it may not really be all that uncommon.
I've just read almost the entire thread, and judging by some people's replies ... some men inparticular ... it shouldn't be all that surprising that there are women who don't feel secure enough about their bodies to be naked in front of a man. ^^
It amazes me the faith you all put in "therapy" and counselling. "Therapy" can bring out or expose the underlying causes, but for some women the roots go too deep and are just not changable. You either accept insecurity in a woman you care for and work around it ... or walk away.
(And guys... hanging out at the stripper clubs, watching porn, and having magazines and pictures of naked models is really NOT going to help your gal feel more secure about herself.... | |
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| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/23/2008 11:17:39 PM | | What msg # 8 is saying could very well be true. I dated a lady like that whom I never got to see totally naked,and yes she confided in me to have been molested as a child. maybe you should inquire more and be supportive of her and undersatnding. Maybe with time she get to lossen up. | |
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| 3 Years - Never Seen My Girlfriend Naked
Posted: 5/24/2008 10:09:56 AM | | Three years is along time to be with someone and not be able to trust them with whatever the insecurity is. I am wondering if there is something specific that she does not want you to see. Maybe scars or tatoos or something like that. I have to agree with everyone who recommend therapy, either individual or couples. | |
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