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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/26/2006 6:03:04 PM |
Just think of it as accelerated selection..if there's negativity that you don't like in a profile...SKIP. Saves you much time and energy! Not much point in spending any time getting to know someone that projects negativity right from the get-go....
The forums alone should tell you that definitely, there are men out there that do the same
Thanks §püngl䧧 !
Making lemonaide out of lemons i like your attitude.
Eric48 also had a good point with his "beware of dog" anology
Thanks for pointing out th sunny side guys
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/26/2006 6:30:53 PM | I've seen it on men's profiles, too. I don't have anything negative on my profile, and I don't think a profile is the place for it. If you are that angry/hurt/jaded, join a support group.lol.
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/26/2006 11:54:19 PM | I think we would be speaking in general terms... that negative profiles are passed over pretty quick by most men of the type you might be looking for.
However, it doesn't hurt to look good and be in a good demographic. You are very straightforward and explanatory as well, but I would have to agree with the next fellow, that said he passed it up because thats what you said to do. That and the length of it.
The kicker here is the 1000 favourites list. I'm sure I sound like Mr. Spock from Star Trek here, but what the hay, have you thought that it is your profile wording or image that is attracting these guys... in droves I see?
Change the kind of bait you are using and you might get a different kind of fish.
Peace & love sister. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:09:21 AM | awww solar......
 i like using caviar for the king fish 
if i gotta go for less then i gonna find the suckers or bottom feeders
  
jk 
but seriously....even guy/girls i giggle over...are leary of very open profiles....a few guys i talked to...asked why i dont say more..like i am kind or a b!tch or many other normal things you see in most profiles...
its easy..i not normal and cant follow as others do on routine..... | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:56:01 AM | What also gets to me is when women show a sexual picture of themselves in a profile and than say they don’t want any guy approaching them for sex or cyber or what ever. Is it just to****tease guys and piss them off or something?
I think a large majority of women in western society are misandrist. If you don’t like what I say, too bad, just look at women's behavior towards men.
They enjoy humiliating men,****teasing men, and breaking a mans ego in general. If a man did these types of acts to a woman, he would be labeled as a jerk that’s not worthy to any women. Sadly a lot of women are hypocrites at this day and age. They can degrade the other gender in any way. If males try to degrade females in the same way, we are absolute jerks or ***holes.
Something else I can ever understand also. Why do most bi sexual females state out in their profile that they are bi sexual in a proud manner and than say, no single men. They say they want single women or couples. If that’s not chauvinism, what is. It is pure male hatred. The more idiot men who accept this, the more its going to happen. Too many western men are **** whipped. Its sad. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:11:46 AM | What also gets to me is when women show a sexual picture of themselves in a profile and than say they don’t want any guy approaching them for sex or cyber or what ever. Is it just to****tease guys and piss them off or something?
Yeah, keep on blaming her for your perception that her hottie pic means she wants to cyber or have stranger sex with the masses. That'll go far. And while you're at it, try wrapping your mind aroud this: she's not holding a gun to your head and making you write her to ask for a lil sexing up. Have you no self control?
If males try to degrade females in the same way, we are absolute jerks or ***holes.
Anyone attempting to degrade is an a$$.
And this priceless lil doozie blew up my brain!
Why do most bi sexual females state out in their profile that they are bi sexual in a proud manner and than say, no single men. They say they want single women or couples. If that’s not chauvinism, what is. It is pure male hatred.
Umm..it's called a preference. You have no sexual or lifestyle preferences? If she hates mens as you claim, then wouldn't she also be hating the male half of the couple that she's preferring? | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:41:10 AM |
Now lets think of males in their profile, if they say something like "no women only wanting money".
A lot of women would probably think he is negative and he has a problem with women or something. But thats maybe false. I seem to be more influenced on the first assumption i made sadly.
Technically he is very negative to women who are only ater money. He should be.
Oh women do there best to belittle the man, in their profiles and yet read everything which doesn't.
I don't understand profiles like this.. whoever they come from.. men OR women. The majority (yes, I know not ALL) are looking for a date, relationship... so why oh why come off as a bitter stain? Something I will never understand. Best foot forward, yada yada... guess they forgot. I mean, you shouldn't be a fake, but you shouldn't appear to be a bundle of rage either.
They say it 100 times easier for a women to get a man then a man get a woman and this is so true yet it never seems that way cause of what they forget to mention in their profiles.
You are approximately the 3rd guy who's said this (or something along those lines) this week. I have probably said this about 3 times so far this week: "I wish that were true".
Women that do this kinda thing just make themselves an easy target for the next a**hole because they've told the world they fell for it before.
BINGO!
Would a male get many females interested in a dating site if he stated out that he was a men's rights activist in his profile?
How is that any different than being a feminist though? Dunno that I'd want a guy who doesn't believe in or fight for his own rights. Or do what he can to further his cause.
Isn't this thread in itself a rant?
Well, yes.. but it's not a profile rant. Heh.
I just LOVE it when a guy mentions how he doesn't want "no gold diggers" because obviously, that's all we women are. *rolls eyes*
More often than not, it's probably there because that's why the last few women he was with left him or wouldn't give him the time of day. The threads in this forum can lead one to conclude that MANY MANY men think all women are gold-diggers, but there are always a sect of guys posting that they don't buy that particular theory.
What also gets to me is when women show a sexual picture of themselves in a profile and than say they don’t want any guy approaching them for sex or cyber or what ever. Is it just to****tease guys and piss them off or something?
To me, it's obvious what they want. Attention. They figure that's the quickest route to get it. Secondly, they are proud of their bodies and I can't fault them for that. We all want some sort of attention depending on why we're here. It's only a problem for me when they complain that they're getting what they deem "the wrong kind of attention". Guys like boobs. Not to say that guys don't care who said boobs are attached to in the long run, but still... they like boobs. They may not want to see them in a girl's profile, but I'll never be convinced that guy don't like boobs. Hell.. I think I even like them. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 11:10:42 AM | | Obviously I DID get your attention, otherwise you wouldn't keep coming back to snivel about me...this thread wasn't about me, was it? Please notice I am NOT one of the ones crying because I am single; I am here because I LIKE it here, I have friends here and the forums are cool, not because I am waiting for some big strong man to carry me off into the sunset...if I meet someone, fine, but I am not going to credit/blame a few paragraphs on a website for my success/failure... | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:46:19 PM | Women post pics, provocative or otherwise perceived, for these reasons alone;
1) they think they look good, so that's the one they pick-big deal!
2) most men won't respond or start any kind of communication without a pic, and won't, especially if you don't have your long, supple legs wrapped around a stripper pole *eye roll*... while their profiles state they want a woman, in covered up code language, just like good ol' Mom.
3) they're trying to appeal to the part of men that seems to lead their quest for long lasting relationships... the mighty penis! Men are visual, and yet they complain if there is a pic of her being too revealing. If there isn't a pic, then she's trying to hide the tragic loss of her tongue - uh oh, she's no good for one thing!
C'mon... there are gold diggers, there are women beaters, there are woman who are making on their own, and there are gentlemen...let's get past the pics, and yes the profiles, and get to know one another! ~S | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:33:32 PM | "I've seen it on men's profiles, too. I don't have anything negative on my profile, and I don't think a profile is the place for it. If you are that angry/hurt/jaded, join a support group.lol."
Personally I think if you are that jaded you should not be looking to date until you have those issues dealt with first. A person can never be truly happy with another as long as they are carrying that kind of baggage. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 8:29:50 PM | Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
I've seen MORE females rant about men and on men profiles then the men do on womens profiles or fourms women have posted i dont see why we have such bitter/selfish women on this site/fourms some of you women are kewl to talk to, but SOME of yall need a real attitude adjustment in LIFE and in LOVE. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:33:22 PM | Why the rants? What do you call it when a man says..."NO BAGGAGE"
One day I took it upon myself to ask a man that had it on his profile what exactly it mean't. His response was, "NO BAGGAGE"...If you do the psychology on this, could it be that the men that write this, are the reason that women have the baggage to begin with??....
I'd also like to say that as for women supposedly being gold diggers, they also come in the male brand too. They're called freeloaders. :O
The women that write this stuff on their profiles are attempting to weed out and hopefully avoid those types and it is my opinion that, if those statements offend you, maybe you da one! :O
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:42:21 PM | "NO BAGGAGE"...
means do NOT bring your past realtionship into the new one and do NOT down him for every thing he does/says and do NOT hold grudges over someones head LEAVE the DRAMMA for TEENAGERS! | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:48:37 PM | 1.) Doesn't hurt to try. It beats the other cookie cutter profiles that are out there.
2.) If you really closed it fast you might have missed something. Since you left, they might say their profile worked. You may not be what they are looking for....
3.) I "write" profiles that bash humans often. I don't just stick to one sex. Well, only in having sex. | |
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:11:48 PM |
I've seen just as many female profiles with pictures of cleavage as rants against men.
What's up with that?
How about the cleavage profiles with the big rants about men being shallow yadda yadda yadda
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| Why all the negative male rants on many female profiles?
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:23:53 AM | I just read a random sampling of female profiles:
*My last relationship ended because the guy was too much of a drama queen (shall we say). That really suckd for me because he would always bring soo much drama into the relationship and everytime we were intimate he would close his eyes and talk about bs while we were doing it. What a basturd that f***ing a**hole f*** him.
*It is best if you work your a** off because I want to live an uppr class life. I also want our kids to have what evr they want..but not to the point that they r spoiled brats!
*I find that serious relationships are for ugly people and I'm hott, therefore I won't waste my time with one guy or hot sexy female.
*I'm very uncompetitive, simply because I can get things without trying.
Unfortunately, it's all too easy to find people who don't represent either gender very well. Why dwell on it? Be glad that they're so openly bitter and/or superficial. It makes it so much easier to realize that you aren't compatible with them. | |
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