| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 11:02:11 AM | I think what you experienced could be put down to the girls being very young! and in a group... would they have said that when they were on their own with you I highly doubt...
Unsurprisingly in general the more attractive you feel the more confident you are!
and yes I would date a hot girl.... but I'd equally date someone who wasn't considered hot. The best part though about it is that I think they are stunning inside so what matters!? | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 1:18:29 PM | From My Experience, Hot girls tend to be big headed and seem to think they are gods' gift to men and think they are better then everyone else and i tend to avoid them as best as i can.
I am more into bigger women anyway, much more cuddily. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 1:50:45 PM | Dear Mr. Nick,
I believe you would have less critiscm if you had just said, would you date a hot girl who also happened to be shallow/rude/a ****.
On the side of the Devil's Advocate, I could say you missed a golden opportunity to have an "experience" in life that could have proved rewarding. Life is made up of the little moments. If you'd given it half a chance, who knows? Maybe one of those girls liked you, and they were looking for an excuse to talk to you (I dare say 95% of men would not have walked away!).
Of course, even if this was the case, by walking away and having these perfect strangers utter such hateful things deliberately so that you could hear, to humiliate you (and yes, that's exactly what it was), they proved that they were definitely not quality women.
A loving spirit will not deliberately be mean to someone else. You can tell so much about a person by the way they treat strangers. Beware or Delight - it's how YOU will eventually be treated.
Best Wishes,
Wendy | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:20:39 PM | | As I was told before, never trust hot girls that much. Cause they tend to be users and cheaters. But then again, that all really depends on the person. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 7:26:29 PM | Would you date someone who was "hot"? someone who was "sexy"? who most people would find attractive?
NOPE, NOT, NAA.
Have not got time for them, got more important, and better things to do, instead.
Like dating a good looking Plain Jane woman that both her and I have something in common. Like common goals, interests, tastes, values and such, for example. 
Dating hot chicks, I will say, PASS, thank you.
WHY?
NO interest in, or time for them. PERIOD. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 8:59:37 PM | | Tell ya what, (poster of this thread) Send the hot gals my way, and I'll send the.....well.....not so hot ones your way. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/19/2006 9:12:34 PM | Sounds to me like you have the real problem. Socializing is being outgoing and happy not trying to get every guy in the place to notice you. If your with someone who's hot why not show them off, after all they're with you right.
Are you that insecure?
Maybe you should take time out and analyze yourself.
Also you say they don't have anything to talk about that makes sense, This sounds like an inside joke. I know plenty of beautiful women who has alot of sense. My nieces so to speak are models and they are very into the world and what's going on in life.
Just my thoughts. Good luck on your search. Hope you find someone ugly!
Sweet whatever! Morningdove | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 6:28:39 PM | I need a little clarification.
Like dating a good looking Plain Jane woman
What exactly is a good looking Plain Jane or do looks have nothing to do with being hot or sexy? 
I better have another | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 6:43:56 PM | | I've been told im a cool as a cucumber, and I kinda have a rule that I will only sleep with "fit" girls but "fit" depends on what I class a "fit" person to be, my "fit" is prob someone else's "ugly" right? Does that make me arrogant? | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:08:51 PM | No offence to the OP but good lord.. this all seems like some self esteem issues. If you dont find them attractive then why do you refer to them as hot? Obviously you enjoy looking but cant quite get up the nerve to strike up a conversation... Im a courier and I meet about 50 women a day.. of varying degrees of 'hotness'... I talk to them all and if im interested then i turn on the charm as much as I can. Im by no means a hot or rich guy but Ive found that very beautifull women are just as nice as average looking women. Maybe you need to look inside of yourself instead of trying to look inside of them. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:14:43 PM | Yuppers, to a certain, I said a CERTAIN degree, looks do have something to do with it.
Also, in my opinion, I said in MY OPINION, a good looking Plain Jane, is still a good looking woman, yet, she is not HOT LOOKING, she is the type of woman, that looks good, yet, with a little dressing up, and a little face over, WHICH SOME WOMAN have done before.
She, will looks like a diamond in the rough with a little polishing.
So giver her that, and WALAH, oooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh M-A-M-A, does she LOOK HOT, and SEXY to boot.
I am NOT, talking about totally changing her, I am talking about giving her a little dressup, to help her SHINE, like a good looking Plain Jane DIAMOND. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:23:17 PM | Yes I would.
I no longer prejudge based on looks. They all get a fair shake.
You cannot stereotype over looks, sorry.
I have met beautiful and average girls (to me) who were either wonderful people or the opposite.
If you treat a pretty girl with EQUAL respect to everyone else, she will show her best qualities.
What if a beautiful woman wants to date you and you filter her for looks? That may have been the "one" and you changed your whole life off of a prejudgement.
Seems pretty silly to me. Yes I have been made to look foolish for prejudging and I have learned from it. NEVER again.
Bring on the hotties. I am ready if they are | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:44:54 PM | Honey, I am a "hot girl". Or more accurately, a "hot woman". I'm also a university educated professional. I'm passionate about certain issues, active in my community, and I resent the OP's, and other's, assertions that "hot girls" are shallow, materialistic, and mean. The expression "don't judge a book by it's cover" has a wider application than most people think. I'm tired of apologizing for how I look. This is also the main reason why I don't have a face shot on my profile; because people make assumptions about me based on what I look like.
OP, if you screwed your courage to the sticking post and spoke to some of these "hot girls", you might find them (OK, some of them) far less shallow than you anticipate. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 7:50:24 PM | | Of course. It is stupid to assume every hot looking girl is arrogant and rude. There are some very good ladies with a good heart who are drop dead gorgues where their inner beauty is what would attract me so much more than their physical beauty. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/20/2006 9:15:19 PM | Well, to each their own choice!
Correct.
Therefore, I am sticking to what appeals to me.
Some may like the HOT CHICK look, that is fine.
However, HOWEVER, it does not interest, or appeal to me.
What I feind appeals to me, may not to someone else.
I find that one, who appeals to me, and I appeal to her even if she is NOT, DROP DEAD GORGOUS, then that is what I GO WITH.
Another words, I am NOT, interested in the HOTTIE Barbie Doll Type.
Further more, I call it, CHOICES, NOT, lack of self-esteem, thank you very much. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 3:04:57 PM | whats hot to me, might not be hot to you...
most guys who say they wouldnt date a hot girl say that becuase they know they could never get one.  | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:21:21 PM | most guys who say they wouldnt date a hot girl say that becuase they know they could never get one.
Ahhh motleygrrl:
I am saying that, (and this is directly, straight from my mouth) as said before, and I will say it AGAIN, I DO NOT, want a hot girl.
WHY!
Well, I am going to probably take some heat for this, but up comes the TRUTH again.
Have you ever heard of "High Maintainance"?
Hot Girls = "High Maintainance".
Deny it all you want or what ever, but you cannot fool me. I was not born yesterday, and I am old enough to know better, and I am NOT, that nieive to beleive that they are not
"High Maintainance" either.
Therefore, I am NOT, into "High Maintainance", Hot Girls, thank you kindly. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:47:10 PM | Well I dated few hot girls and lasted us few years you have to remember they are females after all and getting to know them and be yourself that what it matter.
I did have few fights with men about them when we were dancing at night clubs.
I usually ply the hard to get to them, one of them threatens me with a knife if I ever leave her, and I managed to leave peacefully after few years.
These days I am looking for hot dancing lady who can dance all night long at clubs with lots of stamina and none smoking, drinking, or other subs taking.
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 8:55:30 PM | You must be young because as you gain experience.... you will find it is in the person's character as to how they act ...not how they look.
When young I dated guys who I consider outright ugly and I assumed they would be grateful instead they cheated and lied just like the good looking guys. So don't judge a book by it's cover. Maybe good looking people should be together but this all speaks to your insercurities. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 9:21:55 PM |
would you date someone who was "hot"? someone who was "sexy"? who most people would find attractive?
I will ONLY date someone who is "hot". If I can't find "hot", I will stay single the rest of my life and die that way. I will never lower my standards because I set a high standard myself, and I will never settle for less than the best.
In the subway, in the stations, they have seats designed for 2 people. I sat in one. a "hot" girl came in and sat beside me. Of course, right behind her, were her friends (as though a hot girl would ever be without her friends) one of whom slid in between me and her. I got up, right away, and started to walk away.
WTF is up with that??? I would have offered to have her sit on my lap if she wanted to.
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 10:09:52 PM | | Lets face it why more attractive women that we are calling "HOT" are stared at a lot, asked out a lot and generally harrassed a lot by many jerks. If they have a somewhat cold attitude it may be for good reason. You just have to get beyonfd that to see the real them. The inner beauty is only going to be seen to someoone they find appealing not the average jerk on the street. YES I WOULD AND HAVE DATED HOT WOMEN!!! | |
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