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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/21/2006 11:37:19 PM | I looked through my list of criteria and who I wouldnt date, I just didnt find that on my list. actually the list isnt very big , ok it's blank but regardless, i would date a hot chick.
It's funny how little sympathy 'Hot' people get. Their the least likely to be valued on inner beauty. They are stereo-typed like no one else and they have to listen to how people tell them how beautiful and 'Hot' they are.
They are also the people who will have the biggest fall. Beauty is the most revered quality and society seems to strive to achieve that. It's also a quality that fades and then they are left with only their substance to win people over.
There are some hot people who are rude and arrogant, conceited as you may. I would bet any money that when their looks go, it will be a major pity party. especially the ones who relied on their looks too much.
people like that are easy to pick out and definetly individuals I wouldnt date. I dont think I'd be able to love them nearly as much as they love themselve anyways. I would date a hot chick who wasnt conceited but instead confident in herself.
i just read that back and it sure looks like a pile of BS. LOL. Well I'd like to think I would do the right thing for myself if given the chance. I'm sure there's alot of really nice hot chicks out there and if by some chance one of them went out with me, I wouldnt say no. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 7/29/2006 7:13:12 PM | Actually I find this thread funny. I have an aquaintance that I email, we met on POF and didn't really hit it off romantically. Sometimes when I've really been feeling low I've complained to him about the jerks I've been meeting. His theory is that I'm too sexy to meet nice guys. I will only meet jerks because nice guys don't date sexy women. That hurt me. First of all I don't consider myself particularly "sexy". Second of all it makes me sad that someone would judge me just by looking at me and deem me unworthy. Though I guess that happens all the time. lol
But I think it hurts that he's saying that guys think I deserve to be used because I'm "sexy". | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/4/2006 9:28:16 PM | | Are you kidding?? The girl I would be with I would consider "Hot" no matter what anyone else thought. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/5/2006 2:39:32 AM | | i would date a hot girl with a good soul to me being hot is being earthly buetiful not maafactured beautiful | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/5/2006 2:39:41 AM | | i would date a hot girl with a good soul to me being hot is being earthly buetiful not maafactured beautiful | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/6/2006 10:01:26 AM |
most guys who say they wouldnt date a hot girl say that becuase they know they could never get one.
I like this comment. I mean, realistically, shouldn't we think about it this way, anyway?
I've been burned by "hot" women enough to know that it would be stupid to approach them. Now, I'm really not attracted to them. In fact, now I'm attracted to more the girls who seem to downplay their attractiveness.
So, I'll say I'd never date a "hot" woman, I just don't see me being attracted to one anymore. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/13/2006 2:04:23 PM | | actually what i might consider hot, might not be what someone else considers hot, I kinda perfer someone i find my self thinking about when i should be thinking of other things. I guess looks do kinda matter, but we all get old and ugly some day...hence me !!! | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/13/2006 7:52:22 PM | 1) If the OP had the common decency to give up his seat to the ladies he wouldn't have been squeezed.
2) Not many single men would run off if attractive women offered to share a seat with them, this with other things in the OP posts screams social problems
3) "Hotness" is in the eye of the beholder
4) My experiance has been that most everyone can be a little proud or arrogant when it comes to the thing that sets them apart from the crowd, ......their music, art, looks, style, athletisism ect..... At least until they are snubbed by annother and figure out it's not as cool as it seems
I was a late bloomer socially and I must say it was not the elite or "hot" women that snubbed me ...it was the main stream middle of the road girls. ANd several of these "hot"
girls that I was friends with or dated told me that they were so tired of being objectified and men seldom dated them for who the were but for what their looks represented. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/13/2006 10:55:14 PM | I kind of agree with the OP more with his disapproval of the three girls' attitude - I find the way they acted to be repugnant. But I also definitely have to admit he probably should have moved and let them sat down - I didn't even catch that, and for that, I feel bad.
So that kind of girl? Not a chance, regardless. They have to have the "good soul" as noted earlier - be genuine civil people, not stuck on themselves. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/13/2006 10:59:00 PM | | oh cripes... let this thread die... yes .. all men would date hot girls... yadda yadda... those that say no are liars and cant get hot chicks... yadda yadda... let it go... hot in one persons opinion is not hot in others.... so its all relative... everyone has different points of view... everyone is ok... there! have I covered all the bases? have I offended anyone? let it go! | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/14/2006 1:47:47 PM | I will absolutely date "hot" (or goreous, or sexy, or whatever you want to call) women, but it's not a substitute for liking them as a person, or having basic chemistry.
I find that many guys put attractive women up on some kind of pedestal - it's like being good looking is an open invite for them to be stereotyped and put into some kind of pigeonhole. No matter how good looking you are, you're just a person.
It sounds like you're confusing the person with what the person looks like. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/14/2006 8:14:52 PM | | Would I date a hot guy...heck ya...*kidding*...nah...there's some really hot guys out there that are actually super nice...you shouldn't generalize...although, I can understand that a lot of them may have attitude as well, but not all...this goes for women too...i know some really hot girls that don't have that attitude...they may only appear snobby or stand offish when they get unwanted come ons...not all necessarily like/need/want the attention...the only concern I would have with dating a hot guy are girls coming onto him left right and centre...but I guess that would just be a trust issue. If you can truly trust him, then there wouldn't be a problem. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 8/20/2006 11:21:51 PM | Eh. I've realized that it doesn't matter what you look like. It matters how you were raised as a child and what your personality is like. You can't judge people on how they look. Ok. Sometimes you can but still.
right now I am currently talking to this guy online who I thought would be a complete ass because he's good looking, but then I realized that he's actually a pretty decent guy online. Intelligent too. He's the kind of guy that won't just **** any girl who throws herself all over him when he thinks or knows that he probably has a great chance of getting her.
Speaking of people who have good looks...I'm not into looks. I like guys who have a great personality. Personality is the #1 thing I look for in a guy. Other then that, I could care less about how the person looks.
But these girls are such a waist of time. What dumb ****es. Can't they think of anything else instead of how they look? Besides, the only thing these girls are going to get is treated poorly. Guys won't take them seriously if they act incredibly stupid...instead they'll just want to have sex with them. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:07:57 PM | i would definitely date a "hot" girl if they had the right attitude and personality. just because they are attractive doesn't mean that they are dumb, rude,arrogant, etc. but i will agree with you on the point you made about alot of guys just giving them what they want because of their looks but that kind of stuff has been going on forever. being attractive won't get you anything extra with me and i have received the gay remark myself when i declined to something for them but you just have to let it go. sometimes their outer beauty covers up their rotten inside.  | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 9/11/2006 2:03:03 AM | i would love to have a relationship with a hot woman --- they just dont want a relationship with me  | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 9/11/2006 2:16:01 AM | u knw not everyone is a complete fuker, and plus beauty is in the eye of the beholder, dont u think??????
and im sorry but the same could be said for really fit guys the really hot guys i know are****eads lol, but at the end of the day looks dont last for every and thers only so long you can sit ther and talk to someone one that has nothing to say just cuz they think they r hot lol | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 9/11/2006 3:12:26 AM | | There is a distinction between hot girls and hot women. The hot girls are basking in all the attention and haven't yet learned that most of the attention they get is very superficial. Then they grow up and develop discrimination and poise. If you have inner beauty to back up the natural beauty you'll be beautiful at 80. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 9/11/2006 4:37:10 PM | Some hot girls are arrogant and others have no self-esteem at all. They're harder to find though.
And why should hot chics listen to the news? They're generally not that intelligent and probably can't use a radio (let alone find the AM band where most news is). Men have to be informed and knowledgable to succeed in our careers and make money to attract hot chics. Hot chics can date/marry a smart rich guy to pay her bills.
Eventually these girls will be unattractive, though, and you'll be successful and have money. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 10/11/2006 9:31:21 AM | Boy you surely show your age! Beauty is only skin deep, the real beauty is what's inside.
But with an attitude like you have you'll never get a chance to find that out. You''l be fishing along time .
We woman are smarter than you think sweetie that's why your still single.
Lighten up and maybe you'll hear what we are saying instead of concentrating on other things when your around women.
Live,Learn,Love.
Happy fishing sweetie!
Morningdove  | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:18:44 AM | You know, I actually can relate to your question. Some women have class and some don't. It's as simple as that. They think they can just push you aside like you aren't even there.
I have an example involving holding the door. Sometimes I will open the door to leave a store and a "hot" girl will walk through the door without even grabbing for it, as if I opened it for her. I have learned to open and let go so it hits her. If she tried to grab it then she wouldn't get hit. I mean I didn't do it to hurt her, but this happens all the time. I even say oops, I'm sorry. And then I turn around and giggle.
I'm sorry, but I am a woman! I will only hold the door for older people and someone carrying a baby or a disabled person but not an ego maniac, self centered woman who is too busy checking her phone. I see it at the mall, the gym, anywhere hot girls go. I am cute and sexy but not hot (at least not in my own opinion). I do get told I am hot though. And for those of you who think I lacked class for doing that. Please tell me what I should have done instead. | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 10/11/2006 10:25:14 AM | IMHO it's their frame of mind, the intellect, personality, whit, that makes a person 'Hot' or 'Sexy'.
Not all women that I find attractive are centerfold material.
It's not what you see, it's the intangible that makes a person 'Hot' or 'Not.'
I'm sure we've all known unlikeable people who are extremely physically attractive, it says nothing about them as a person, though.
Never judge a book by it's cover? | |
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| hot girls - would you date them?
Posted: 10/12/2006 7:09:02 AM | My grandfather once said to me," Boy, you ever want to sleep well at night, marry an ugly woman."
Needless to say, havent slept well in 13 years! | |
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