| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 5:11:34 AM | That is real easy my definition of a real women is some one who is down to earth not stuckup or a goldminer not so shy its like pulling teeth to get to her true feelings and not a prude, but some one that is inbetween all that just your average woman that is usually over looked by your average man and the same is true for women you over look the average man. And that is how everyone ends up getting played all around.
Dfnt....I agree one hundred percent!!!!! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:09:02 AM | i am a real woman and i am better looking than barbie but looks dont mean anything if you are lonely | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:35:20 AM | | I do believe there are "real women" on here...it just takes time to find the right one compatible for you...every "real woman" and "every real man" are just not always compatible with each other...its all about similarities and compatibility..."good looks" are ok to want to have with the one you're with, but its not a top priority either....its about the heart, and the mind...and looks is a plus but as I mentioned before they are not top priority either... | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:35:51 AM | | they are here...just do some research and check out their interests...as I mentioned previously | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:45:55 AM | Real women? hmmm.. there are plenty of real women in the world, but most "real" men are chasing barbie and can't see the real women cause real women have a few extra pounds and maybe don't have tits that poke your eyes outs when you stand in front of her..
"these real men" only want a body--then a mind. it seems like anyways. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 8:53:46 AM | Well you are right, many men may want a body then a mind....I prefer the mind...I dont want a "Crissy Snow" on my arm.....Intellect is something I prefer over just a hot body..."What do I have to do all the thinking for the both of us?"...No thanx...dont need a woman I have to do all that with.."2 heads are better then one" | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 9:53:11 AM | Thank you Greeneyzz!!! there's nothing more than meeting a someone in person to see the real man or real woman. Good luck to you all, by the way Greeneyzz? You are so cute and handsome, if I am only younger I would ask you for a date lol  | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 4:35:33 PM |
Real women? hmmm.. there are plenty of real women in the world, but most "real" men are chasing barbie and can't see the real women cause real women have a few extra pounds and maybe don't have tits that poke your eyes outs when you stand in front of her..
"these real men" only want a body--then a mind. it seems like anyways.
BS
real men dont want shallow girls. and if you think they do then you dont know what a real man is | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 7:46:02 PM | To quote Broken Wings...
i always wonder how come some of US women ****/complain about not being able find a MAN/SOMEBODY then when we do find a MAN/SOMEBODY, we complain about every single detail of that person and how they arent "perfect" or "good" enough.
But many women already acknowledge that "perfect" doesn't exist in a man and that PERFECT is NOT what they desire. But a good number of them dissect our flaws either from reading magazines, watching TV sitcoms, soaps and/or their own two eyes to the point they seek perfection and find reason to kill a budding romance before it ever has time to bloom. I think a lot is due to stubbornness and an ego knowing she can have him but there's a better guy around the corner when, in fact, the one she thinks is better turns out to be one of those jerks. Then, when their eyes and brain deceive them, they come to these sorts of venting arenas to bash the hell out of us and generalize a lot of men to be like the last dating encounter.
I heard a saying a few years ago that I'm sure many women have heard. But it bears repeating....
would you rather be RIGHT about everything or HAPPY about many things? | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/1/2006 9:40:46 PM | wellit depend were you are at im in mo and im am blonde hair blue eye girl fo 50 and all women yu jsut doetn no wwere to look at  | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:12:12 PM | I must say that this topic goes both ways (Where are the real Men?) Why not to ask what is a real women and/or men? How do we know this. We all have a tendency of going for the looks of the opposite sex. Why do we do this? Why is this so important? Why must we be so judgemental. Why does the Slim Barbie get the first pick from the fat Barbie? They both have the same body parts. The difference is that one has more to grab on then the other. Who made it this way? Just think about it. We all live in a world where everything has to be perfect. There is a real women in every women and a real men in every men. Unfortunately, we make wrong decisions in choosing the partner by looks first before knowing the person. This is our biggest mistake. We then think we have the right person and in the long run we find out we don't; which is too late then because we have experienced the bad effects now. Now this throws us off and we start to compair every single other individual that we meet and would like to get acquainted with deeper. Stop comparing. Seek love first, love is not hate, hurt, consist of jealousy or pain. Love can be the most desirable thing only if you want it to be that way and of course it takes two not one.
A sexy women or I rather say ithe looks have more control than one that doesnt have the looks and thats because society has portrayed that the appearance is number one. Bull Shit! I'm not saying all fat and ugly women are real women or not. I'm trying to say that we are all real. Just take the time to get to know each and every individual for whom they are first. Find the qualities and the capabilities, likes, dislikes etc. of that other individual and work from there.
If we would stop all the lies and be true to ourselves as to others than we would find what we are so much in quest for.
As the older you get you learn to realize that looks are not everything in finding the real partner. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:15:53 PM | I applaud you because you really hit it on the note. Looks are not everything. Yes you need a little, but it's not all that. You can have the most sexiest women and/or men and he has no heart, warmth, passion, love etc. So what good is the looks? You need to seek further beyond this.
I applaud you! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:27:44 PM | | The real women are everywhere. It's the ones disguised as guys that are the real problem. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 1:54:22 PM | Ahhhhh beautiful, wonderful exquisite women are everwhere!
Find their heart and soul while honoring it.
It will be reciprocated 10 fold and you'll have found your best friend. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:17:05 PM | where are all the real women ? most of them are probaly being overlooked because they have a few extra pounds on them, or have kids, or have a small stain on their shirt.
Pick a reason. any reason. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:47:54 PM | Soul Seductive,
Do they really have interests outside of being man bashers? I've read plenty of profiles that say "you should get to know me because I'm fun" or "I am cool because I'm me" or "ask if you want to know anything about me" or the best "I don't know what else to say, email me" after like one line of detail. But when they start talking, the usual...I like the bars, drinking, music, movies and that's about it. Nothing of substance and interest to say this girl is unique and worth pursuing. But they go out and bash guys to no end. What I'm trying to say is....are some of you ladies kidding yourself, thinking you are interesting when you have little-to-nothing to say in your profile or for that matter in your response email, should you go that far? I always propose questions, but few get answered when I do. If you want to attract someone who sees you beyond your looks, have something to say instead of the aforementioned quotes. I know there are guys who are this way, but I don't see them slaying girls to no end. This is proposed to develop conversation, not get into a gender-bashing argument. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/3/2006 4:08:18 PM | | HMMMM!!!! Sounds like my ex.Never,for anyone,change who you are!God created us to be different for a reason.My biggest fear in trying to meet someone is finding someone who will put on a show for a while and than show his true colors.I am, who I am and would rather have someone to disagree with me and be honest than have a puppet on a string.There is nothing more attractive than a man or woman who has a mind of their own. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/3/2006 4:22:00 PM | | Exactly! I spoke to a man both on the phone and via email for about 6 months and thought that he was this wonderful man.He came up from GA to Tenn to meet me in person.I had a feeling something about him wasnt right before hand and when I spoke to him in person and spent a few hours with him I decided he was looking for the girl with a perfect body and to boot he wasnt over his ex.He didnt say either but he did make a comment that told me all I needed to know.The strangest thing was ,he likes tall women and yet knew before hand that Im 5'3.He likes bean poles and I have curves.I was completely honest with him but apparently he was so shallow he couldnt be honest with me.I even sent him pictures and told him what you see is what you get! My question is: Wheres the honesty?No relationship can be built on lies. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/3/2006 4:24:26 PM | | Looking for a real woman or a puppet on a string?I know lots of beautiful,strong,loving women.Most men wont give them the time of day. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/3/2006 5:04:41 PM | Instead of bashing and counter bashing I'll give it a try. A real woman is soft and tender, when she loves her man she observes his every move so that he rarely has to ask for anything she knows what he needs.
He's down she there, she's loyal and strong, no matter what happens you can count on her standing beside her man, when she looks at him he feels like a man.
She is a real companion, he can trust her with his life. This is the essence of the female basically. (Abbreviated but the basics)
I think most of us are real women looking for a real man. there are exceptions both ways. | |
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