| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/4/2006 10:02:47 PM |
A real woman is soft and tender, when she loves her man she observes his every move so that he rarely has to ask for anything she knows what he needs.
He's down she there, she's loyal and strong, no matter what happens you can count on her standing beside her man, when she looks at him he feels like a man.
She is a real companion, he can trust her with his life. This is the essence of the female basically. (Abbreviated but the basics)
I think most of us are real women looking for a real man. there are exceptions both ways.
Mimosa . . . that's an awesome description, I know someone like this. And if she wasn't married I would have asked her out a long time ago.
And if that also applies to you, some man down the line is going to find you quite the catch.
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/5/2006 4:53:03 AM | | This site is full of real women. They are living, breathing, loving, caring, giving, affectonate, intelligent, small, large, needing. But most of all they only require just a small amount of love; but just a steady supply. If you cant find a real woman then you need to redefine your requirements. Everone on this singles are looking for just one thing; a soul mate. Its all too natural to want this because after all it started with Adam and Eve and the idea has seemed to catch on and endure for thousand of years. So heres to the "Real Woman" | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/5/2006 5:18:03 AM | | Often when a person can not find a "Real Woman/Man", it is because they are so jaded, they wouldn't recognize a "Real Woman/Man", if they hit you with a baseball bat. Or, ones' ideals are at such a level that no one will ever meet them. Sometimes we have to open ourselves up to new possabilities, different characteristics in a mate. It's good to have standards, but don't turn away every possible mate because they can't check off every box on your check list. Peace and Harmony... | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 4:50:38 PM | I believe that men (and women) actually get scared when they do meet someone who is real and kind (and everything they are looking for). It has been said over and over again, that if it is "too good to be true, it probably is". That is not always true.
I have lost count of how many times, a guy told me that he couldn't believe that I really was who I say I am, and how kind and caring I am, and I am exactly what they have been searching for. They then either disappear without a word, or they actually say that "since nice women don't exist, that they feel that I must be hiding something".
Broken Wings - I am glad you clarified
(SOME WOMEN) do not take the chance and look past apperience's their history(background).
Not all women do this. I always do my best to look past appearances, and look for all the ways we are compatible and I focus on their personalities.
I am starting to think that maybe people are actually intimidated by a person who is actually real. Someone who:
- will give them the space they need when they say they need it
- will communicate
- won't manipulate
- is independent
- don't expect to be supported financially, and don't need to be
- will truly do whatever it takes to make a relationship work
- will love unconditionally
- will treat them with trust and respect
Especially people around my age, have usually been hurt too much, that they don't want to believe someone good exists, or they sabotage things because they don't feel the deserve it.
It is easy to see how this happens, because I have seen a lot of posts where people keep saying "all men/women lie". Some of us truly do our best not to lie or hurt others.
I do know that one day I WILL find that person who appreciate me for who I am. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:03:26 PM | smiles644
No problem lol because there are some Nice women/men on the fourms/site and there are some who are down right rude with the way they put things! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:11:26 PM | | Please define real woman for us. Then tell us if you would know her if you see her. Real women do not alter their behavior to fit a man's ideal of what she should be. A real woman respects herself, mankind and the world. She does not look for a man to control or make her feel like a woman. She has already accepted herself. Barbie does not exisit and if she did, she would probably be looking for the "real men". | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:17:45 PM | Joy,
Read the entire thread and you will see it's been well defined what men considered to be a "real" woman. And yes, I can indentify a real woman when I see her. Problem is she often acts in denial of my observations because she has to be stubborn about her ways and believe there are no good men out there. Either that or she isn't in check with her desires. What I mean is women claim they like a "good" guy who will be caring, compassionate, nurturing, affectionate, romantic, etc. towards her but really her attraction mechanisms are triggered by "JERK" behaviors. Probably because some women have no self worth and these guys re-confirm this lack of self worth. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:38:29 PM | molonel, oh!goody. I'm a real woman as I'm a natural redhead. You know about us redheads senual and smart too!! Colored it blonde for all that fun they say blondes have. Guess I'll have to change it back as they lied. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:43:12 PM |
Most of the real women are redheads. Not all, but most
Thanx Molonel..... I resemble that!!! LOL | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:09:15 PM | we've spent pages and pages looking for the real men, but where are all the real women?
Hey nickjbor:
I have always wondered that to.
Are ALL the "REAL WOMAN" taken, leaving the rest of us guys with, daddy's little girl, to take care of.
Hmmmmm, makes me wonder, like REALLY WONDER.
Will the REAL, REAL WOMAN, step forward, and be counted. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:30:42 PM | I find responses like evolvetoextinction's to be comical because there's no credibility to the argument. That's a way of making an excuse and not defending or being accountable for an action. Something that really irritates me about some people.
Hey studly23:
Kind of funny, however, I think I have heard the same thing as well before.
And it make you wonder why.
As one person told me..many women have castrated men and re-programmed them to say and do things in the interest of her, putting his own interests and beliefs aside. I mean, what about Saturdays and Sundays in the fall when guys want to watch a football game, but the woman wants him to do chores like fix the car or rake leaves? He's suppose to do them or else he won't hear the end of it.
B-I-N-G-O, sounds familiar, and if he does, or does not do EXACTLY, what she wants him to do, he still never hears the end of it.
If she wants these chores done so badly, then SHE, can do them herself.
She IS, an able, and capable person.
Unfortunately, I guess too many guys will say yes dear, and do it, and that is EXACTLY, what she wants.
I say, foooeeee, they should say, hey, you are capable of doing it, woman, so do it yourself.
Hey studly23, I know that I am going to take some heat for this one, but, it won't be the first time, however, I am going after the "TRUTH".
Isn't it not true, that when a guy never, ever hears the end of something from a woman, and when it is constantly repeated, so that she gets what she wants, is also called, being
"HEN PECKED".
I think I just lit the fuse, lets see what happens now. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:38:57 PM | Dear Mr. Horns - a woman that does that isn't a real woman - what I believe you describe is simply a manipulator, someone with a need to control for whatever reason, and if a man endures this, he's not being real either.
And to all my sister redheads, we rule the world. Yes! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:45:19 PM | real women want real men. Don't miss the boats!!
Hey chèri:
Then where are the REAL WOMAN?
Have not seen the boat of REAL WOAMN YET, still waiting for it, only have seen boat loads, upon boat loads of Daddy's little girl's, in adult bodies, who have NOT, grown up yet.
So, have not missed the boat of REAL WOMAN, just still waiting for it to arrive. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:55:44 PM | Ahhh, huh.
Kind of amazing, lady_green_eyes, that you declare a real woman wouldn't do that type of thing. Yet, you think that what I described is a manipulator, and then you turn around and say that readheads rule the worlds.
Isn't THAT, a manipulator, Yes. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/7/2006 11:08:41 PM | | I think people forgot how to be real with the introduction of the internet allowing us to be whomever/whatever we so choose to be or not to bel | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 2:06:20 AM | "Real women? hmmm.. there are plenty of real women in the world, but most "real" men are chasing barbie and can't see the real women cause real women have a few extra pounds and maybe don't have tits that poke your eyes outs when you stand in front of her..
"these real men" only want a body--then a mind. it seems like anyways"
I aim for the people with more pounds and find that despite looking for all the "real man" traits they want someone who sin't skinny. Seems like all the ready to proveit real women live far away from all the real ready to prove it men. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 5:43:43 AM | "Have not seen the boat of REAL WOAMN YET, still waiting for it, only have seen boat loads, upon boat loads of Daddy's little girl's, in adult bodies, who have NOT, grown up yet."
Grab Life By The Horns,
Way way way too funny!! I believe you hit it on the head. Many think they are ladies who feel a sense of entitlement because all daddy ever showed her growing up is how to get her way in any situation. And the moment they don't get their way...the guy is labeled a jerk because she doesn't know any better. This isn't the case for ALL women, so don't go off the deep end now ladies. But more and more are becoming this way. It's a "mind game" to many of them which, oddly enough, they claim to hate having played to them.
I also like how girls come to ask guys what they desire in a girl, you spell it out for her and she blows it off like it means nothing. But when girls spell out what they desire in us....you BETTER LISTEN and be what she wants. I'm really starting to believe that many girls get aroused or an ego boost or an adrenaline rush, etc. at any chance they get to argue. It seems these days that they enjoy arguing and always having to being right, never happy! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 6:05:42 AM | I know that I am going to take some heat for this one, but, it won't be the first time, however, I am going after the "TRUTH".
Grab Life By The Horns,
I've realized that a lot of girls/ladies don't want to hear the "TRUTH." They want to hear something that sounds great but is close enough to be considered the "TRUTH." If guys always spoke the truth, we would never get laid. And this old saying "honesty is the best policy?" BULL!!!
I have not heard of being "hen pecked" but I'm sure it exists. The guy goes from being her boyfriend/lover to being her slave. Slaving away to earn "brownie points" to exchange for what he really wants. But when he gets so fed up and leaves, she goes and bashes us, thinking there are no good guys left. That's what you get for trying to "CHANGE" them. I'm beginning to believe that many ladies/girls love the feeling of a guy suffering at her wrath. Whether it's dating or in a marriage, they seem to get a lot of happiness in patronizing her man/guy and getting him to do what she wants virtually all the time. And then they wonder why these good men they believe to have found turn into jerks. I say to these women........GET A CLUE! Don't try to change us!!!!! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:28:16 AM | | well im from the midwest and now in phoenix and ill tell you the women out here [ that ive found] suck they are fake and inmature and only looking for sex i must admit i cant wait to go back home to find someone with morals | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:35:51 AM | I don't think being ugly and fat is a requirement to be a real woman.
And a real man won't apologize for wanting beauty. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:50:44 AM | Thank you for posting this. A lot of women have this "holier than thou" attitude toward dating. Guess what ladies...enjoy it while it lasts. Around 30 years old, the tide starts to shift (except in rare cases). The best thing to do with a woman with this kind of attitude is to get rid of her. Be a man, tough it out and stand alone.
Women mostly do not respect men. Why? Because they are smarter when it comes to relationships. Most have no problem in leading a man on to USE him. That is right, I said use. Do you want to know why?
I went out on 26 (I counted) dates with women who were not interested before I found one with genuine interest and that did not work out because she had a bad attitude. TWENTY-SIX...and women complain of men not wanting to commit to a relationship or being used...sheesh. On the exception of any good girls reading this, thank you for being a class act at least most of the time.
Now, there are good women out there. The problem is that the BAD women or women who go out with men who do not like them...ruin it for you. Women know a man in around 20 minutes...and you know FROM THE BEGINNING if you like them sincerely or not. You want to complain about being treated badly the stop using men. Haha...like that will never happen for a lot of you. Yes, this may be a little harsh...but reality is reality however you want to sugar coat it.
Guys, stop being so nice to women you do not even know and stop letting them treat you bad. You have to put a stop to this crap to make things better. Good hunting! | |
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