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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:53:20 AM | I am finding this all very funny, because of my experiences.
Men complaining they can't find real women. I have met a few men, that kept complaining about how women manipulate them, only give them "conditional" love, make them jump through hoops, and try to control them. They then tell me that they are amazed that I don't do any of that. Then they leave and later I find out they are with the exact type of woman that they were complaining about.
Usually guys leave me, and never give me any explanation. But those that have given me an explanation usually contains "you are too good". One guy actually did tell me that he felt he had to break up with me because I didn't try to manipulate him, treat him badly, or argue with him, instead I was willing to compromise and discuss things calmly.
I am beggining to think that men actually like being treated badly, so they have something to complain about.
But I will clarify that not all men are like that, and hopefully there are still some single ones out there. So far the only men I know that appreciate a real woman who treats them good, are married. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 9:42:48 AM | | Well I don't think I am bad looking, and I know I am a real woman.. But it seams the guys I aminterested in just want to continue to be players ... And the ones i don't find interesteing are the ones who continue to call..! Kim | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:32:26 PM |
Guys, stop being so nice to women you do not even know and stop letting them treat you bad. You have to put a stop to this crap to make things better. Good hunting!
Drewbond, with that attitude, no wonder you haven't found a real woman. So, what are you saying anyway....that if you treat a woman bad, you will find a good one? I doubt it! A real woman doesn't deserve to be treated badly anymore than a good man does.
As for the "Daddy's Little Girl" sydrome, my dad never did anything for me; but I consider him a real man because he taught me how to take care of myself. Maybe those girls aren't all at fault if their fathers (who I assume were/weren't good men?) always did everything for them; they will expect a man to continue doing that all their lives. Some of us were just lucky and learned early. I had great examples; my father taught me how to take care of my own car, fix whatever needed repaired -- but yet my mother always took care of him. She served him three meals a day, kept his house clean and his children clean and fed. They have been married 58 years and still kiss each other "Good Morning" before coffee each day, and still hold hands in public. It's beautiful. So --- now that we've discussed the shortage of 'real women' where are the real men? | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:41:43 PM | Runs up.........waves hand and signals like a real woman would, and runs off........ Ya gotta be real quick to catch a real woman!!  | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 10:56:09 PM | The question on where are the good men has been addressed long ago. I find it funny that some women think they're innocent or angels. Women are (yes-ARE) more cunning and dangerous than men are. Many men have different views on what a real woman is. For example, to me; a real woman is someone I can communicate with. Thats it. If I could find a woman that can tell me what's on her mind whether she's angry or sad or happy I would treat her like a real woman instead of a......
anyway, an old addage states: "treat others as you would like to be treated." Both genders have forgotten this and do not apply it to their relationships. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 10:56:48 PM | "Have not seen the boat of REAL WOAMN YET, still waiting for it, only have seen boat loads, upon boat loads of Daddy's little girl's, in adult bodies, who have NOT, grown up yet."
Way way way too funny!!
Hey studly23:
To a certain degree, it is kind of funny, yet, from some of my experiences, I find it to be TRUE.
The REAL WOMAN, are the ones that seem to be hidden, amoung Daddy's little girls.
REAL WOMAN, are the kind of woman, who can take the need action, and responsibility for their own actions and their own self, without blaming or making the guy responsible or feel guilty for what the REAL WOMAN does.
Another words, REAL WOMAN, are NOT. totaly reliant upon the guy, for everything that they want, or do.
REAL WOMAN, are self-sufficient, and indepenadant from us guys, which I am fine with.
REAL WOMAN, can also, think for themselves, without having the guy to decide for them.
However, they can still count on the guy, when needed upon, IF and WHEN they are in need of our help.
I am ok with that.
Ya don't see this in Daddy's little girl, oh no, they are at times, or a LOT of times TOO NEEDY, which I find is a major, MAJOR TURNOFF.
It is like, havingt to be the continuation, of her DADDY, NO THANKS.
Give me the REAL WOMAN,  instead of Daddy's Little Girl, ANYDAY.
Sincerely
GLBTH | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:22:09 PM | I know that I am going to take some heat for this one, but, it won't be the first time, however, I am going after the "TRUTH".
I've realized that a lot of girls/ladies don't want to hear the "TRUTH." They want to hear something that sounds great but is close enough to be considered the "TRUTH." If guys always spoke the truth, we would never get laid. And this old saying "honesty is the best policy?" BULL!!!
Hey studly23:
Ok, first up, they may not want to hear the truth, but something that closely resembles the truth.
I think it is more like that some of them want a fantasy, that can become reality.
THAT is NOT POSSIBLE, because, a fantasy, IS JUST THAT, a fantasy and nothing more.
Further more, a fantasy is NOT, reality either, so it will always be a fantasy world,
NO THANKS.
If guys alway spoke the truth, then we may not get laid. However, on the flipside of that coin, of the old saying that honesty is the best policy, is not BULL.
Why, because, if by giving the truth right off the bat, by being straight up front, you can ride a clear concious, of something that won't come back and bite ya in the A**, further down the road.
Because, you have come clean.
Yes, the word "hen pecked" is out there, and it DOES happen, NOT ALL the time, but it DOES happen.
The guy goes from being her boyfriend/lover to being her slave. Slaving away to earn "brownie points" to exchange for what he really wants. But when he gets so fed up and leaves, she goes and bashes us, thinking there are no good guys left. That's what you get for trying to "CHANGE" them. I'm beginning to believe that many ladies/girls love the feeling of a guy suffering at her wrath. Whether it's dating or in a marriage, they seem to get a lot of happiness in patronizing her man/guy and getting him to do what she wants virtually all the time. And then they wonder why these good men they believe to have found turn into jerks. I say to these women........GET A CLUE! Don't try to change us!!!!!
Yes, I TOTALLY AGREE, some of them need to quit trying to CHANGE US. Accept us for who and what we are, and they will have one happy guy on their hands.
I will state this LOUD and CLEAR, ok ladies, QUIT TRYING TO CHANGE US, into something that YOU WANT.
Let US, be OUR selves, and you will have one, loving, and happy guy on your hands.
Try to CHANGE US, and we WILL BE GONE, out of your lives forever.
Sincerely
GLBTH | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:26:04 PM | Gee....I've always been told I'm all woman and now I find out I'm not even real!
What a waste of a lot of great sex I THOUGHT I had.
Oh no...now I don't even know if that was real.
I'm so confused! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:26:37 PM | Rainbowfishh is correct, real women are off the market.
It's like being the last one to walk through the store after a sale......you get
what's left over. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:51:05 PM | Dear Mr. Horns -
Please find your funnybone and don't manipulate my sense of humour.
All the best to you. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:57:31 PM | | They are out there. Just like real men. They all are out there. You just have to be patient. You have to be a real man to attract real women. As simple as that. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:58:18 PM | i wish they start chattin i sent out 50 emails told them all about me and all AND EVEN TOLD A FEW THEY WAS PRETTY AND ALL NOT a 1 reply back THATS IS COLD HEARTED. its starting to show all the truth since 9-11 their attitudes are showin way over rated.
i,m a 100% man seekin and for real | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 1:10:10 AM | Lets face it, people these days have a lack of forgiveness.I have been on here long enough to figure out almost but not all, men and women alike are looking for someone who fits the little box they have created.Even if you even come close to fitting into this box they have the option of changing the dimensions at any given time.So with this in mind, you might have to search outside the box to find something real.I found someone who is real and she has become my best friend in all aspects.When I found her she was no where near a box of any kind or on any dating site.I could not tell she was going to be my best friend just by looking at her.It was only after talking to her that I found out she was the love of my life.Lets face it all of the real people that are not sparkling and have their little box dressed to kill, well you are screwed on this sight.Fake people don't talk to real people.I can count all of the nice women I have talked to on this sight with one hand.Its like looking for gold in a trash dump,It could happpen but not likely.And don't forget most, but not all men want a woman that is equal to or 2 points better looking than them.And most , but not all women want a man that 2 to 4 points better looking than them.Money can change the rules for either on of these predictions.
Real love can change all the rules and you can,t find it without talking to other people.
So for all you people that are so smart that you can judge a person just by looking at them
I hope that you have to drag that empty box you created around for eternity.
The funny part being the nasty rash the chain will leave on your perfectly tanned and sculpted legg! Perfection only exists in the human mind. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:39:25 AM | Well sir,
I would just like to thank you for realizing that outside of this holografic box that people have made is where truth lies. I am not a drop dead georgeous woman but I have a great personality and a heart of gold. I too have been tossed to the dogs and treated like an unworthy piece of trash. Life is dificult enough to just excist in but it would be nice to know that there was a person out there who was willing to just hang out with you and talk to you when times are tough. I am most likely bound by life to be one of many people who are not inside of this makebelieve box that most people have placed around them. Example...you must be this old with this color hair and eyes. you have to have the same hobbies that I do and enjoy the exact same things. Well this is to most the most important things in life. I want to look to a deeper being and search for something deeper. If we have different interest then that is great. Maybe just maybe there is something that I have not tried that you really enjoy that I would love to do. I really am glad to know that people are looking outside the box because this is where I am and plan on staying... I belive that real people are not selfmade they are molded into there life and are always trying to improve and except things the way they are. Life sucks but I deal with it... It just takes one person to put the smile on your face and make life a little more bearable. Thank you for posting. I am glad to hear that you have found that one person and hope that you two have each other for all of time. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 8:36:14 AM | well, I can only speak for myself, (and a few single girlfriends!)  But, here I am! lol! Maybe the reason that you are having trouble finding the "real" women is you are looking at the "wrong" kind of women! Sometimes if you don't like the results you are getting, you have to change what YOU are doing. Try something new. Look at different pics/profiles than you normally do! Good luck! | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 9:56:15 AM | Molenal "Most of the real women are redheads. Not all, but most."
pick me pick me ! I am a redhead and real. "Fire down below" lol . Can anyone point me to the "Real" threads to read?
I am kind of lost on this one  | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 11:01:47 AM | | GBTHorns, If men are hen-pecked it is thier own fault for being that way. A real man would stand up for his beliefs and rights. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 1:11:37 PM | GBTHorns, If men are hen-pecked it is thier own fault for being that way. A real man would stand up for his beliefs and rights.
Correct sassymiss, and good point.
Therefore, more men need to stand up for their BELEIFS and RIGHTS, WITHOUT them being
M-A-N-I-P-U-L-A-T-E-D, in some way, shape or form, to meet her needs.
So, I say this, from now on in, she will be told, (IF, there IS going to be a significant one) once, and ONLY once, to KNOCK it OFF with the manipulation.
If she does not, then she will find herself, PERMANTLY, out of my life with NO recouse.
Unfortunately, it is a tough line to draw, something I don't want to have to do, but, if that is what it takes, then so be it.
I have put up with enough of this manipulation stuff before, so I say, NO MORE.
And I can go on with my life, WITH, or WITHOUT that significant one, and STILL be HAPPY, because, I have done it before, (of at least 20-25 years) and I can contiue to do it again, if need be, for the rest of my life.
Because, I can ALWAYS, find other things to do, that I enjoy doing to occupy my time with.
Plain and simply put, I am NOT desperate, or is it a prerequisite, or a need, that I "HAVE" to have that signifcant other in my life to complete it.
However, if there is that significant someone that wants to enter my life, the door is open, yet, we need to hammer out things that are accepetable, and NOT acceptable to each other, in the EARLY stages of ANY, potential relationship. Otherwise, it JUST won't work.
Therefore, adding yet, another notch to the already high level of divorce, which
I DON'T WANT, thank you kindly.
As stated before, I can, go on, WITH, or WITHOUT that significant other, and still live happly ever after, if need be.
Yes, I realize that is a pretty "BOLD" statement, however, I "CAN" DO IT ALONE, IF I need to.
ENOUGH about me, however, just wanted to give my own personal prospective, and take of it.
That is my 2 cents worth.
Sincerely
GLBTH | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:23:55 PM | | glbth, That is right hang in there till you find the person that accepts you as you are. No one can change another person and should not try to. My husband died in 1987, I'm still looking, but not too hard.I don't want to be changed or have the desire to change anyone else. Like you I can go it alone. Maybe he is out there maybe not. I'll get by either way.I know I am a good,kind loyal person and will go 100%, but he has to too. I never could dig this 50% thing. Its 100% or nothing. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 7:39:00 PM | Hilarious! You couldn't have "real" women locked up, because they would have found a way to get out already... so THERE! We watch "MacGyver" too you know...  | |
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