| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/9/2006 11:43:01 PM | glbth, That is right hang in there till you find the person that accepts you as you are. No one can change another person and should not try to. My husband died in 1987, I'm still looking, but not too hard.I don't want to be changed or have the desire to change anyone else. Like you I can go it alone. Maybe he is out there maybe not. I'll get by either way.I know I am a good,kind loyal person and will go 100%, but he has to too. I never could dig this 50% thing. Its 100% or nothing.
BINGO, good pointers sassymiss.
Yuppers, it IS, the ONLY way to fly, and why not, even if it means flying solo for the rest of my life, so be it.
Not that I want to, however, if I have to, NO PROBLEMENTO, ok.
Better that, then having to put up with someone, that well, you know.
Sincerely
And
Best Wishes
From
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/10/2006 12:27:59 PM | Studley123,
A real woman will not run away when she meets a real man. The question is --Is the real woman meets her match. 
It goes both ways. There is nothing more miserable than mismatch of a pair. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/10/2006 4:38:38 PM | glbth, You are a smart man!! Last Jan. I could have married a very nice man in all ways except one . Bossy!! Could have had anything I wanted . Home in east Home in west,Plenty of money . Real nice but who can live in peace with a controlling person! I figured I would be living in hell day to day and I would rather be poor than controlled.I do hope that some of these younger people on here will understand that marring or living together for money is not worth it. I get a lot of heat for my posts sometimes but I don't care.I only write what I am thinking . And I never lie about anything, even if it causes me trouble.I hope you find the one you are looking for. Good luck and God bless. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/10/2006 6:39:26 PM | I know what you mean, a few yrs ago I was dating a guy with a million$,investments,stocks, bonds, god I don't know what all. But he would pout if I didn't want to do whatever he wanted to do when he wanted to do it. Sometimes he would rant & rave.
SO I just said, ya know this will never work cause sooner or later I'm going to knock him out just to get him to shut up. So I left. It took 4 yrs to shake him loose, but he's on his own & alone now. I just could see setting myself up for failure. It happens too easily as it is. Hurts too long and I think changes one's perspective of the next possible relationship. Anyway that's my thoughts. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/10/2006 10:11:58 PM | very good question?
well jimmm73 your one to talk.
what bout you. not talling everyone that you been in jail for 4 years.
and that you like to stalk woman??
oh and lets not forget how you enjoy hurting the feelings of 2 of my close friends.
jimmy rogers my only suggestion to you is be very careful who you play with.
as if you mess with any of my friend again. I will get you. I knwo where you live i know allot about you and your 4 years
I have a copy of your criminal record.
so leave them alone and i will leave you alone. got it? | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:28:38 AM | Hey thank you sassymiss:
However, I think you know as well as I do, living as long as we have, these things don't come just over night, or even at a young age.
It takes time, to learn these things from, if I may use the term, called life experiences.
That is the thing about getting well, on in life, you learn, or ususally learn from your mistakes, as you go through life.
Ahhhm yes, I hear you sassymiss, your a smart woman, with smart reasoning, that you didn't marry this nice young man, because, who wants to, or has to live with a bossy and controlling person, even if you could had ALL the nice things in life.
Sassymiss, what you are talking about, is self-respect, opposed to materialistic items. And self-respect, carries far, FAR more value, then ANY, ANY, materialistic items could EVER hold.
That is the thing about it all, a person may get ALL these real nice things, but living in living H*LL with a controlling person, N-O W-A-Y.
Instead of calling it poor, how about, calling it living within your means, and NOT, being controlled by that kind of person.
I do hope that some of these younger people on here will understand that marring or living together for money is not worth it.
Sassymiss, I hope that some of these younger people do to, for at LEAST, T-H-E-I-R own sake.
Sassymiss, I know that well, ya have a few years on me, however, I can still pretty much relate to what you are talking about, cuz, I have lived most of the years that you have, and have similiar life experiences that you do.
I get a lot of heat for my posts sometimes but I don't care. I only write what I am thinking . And I never lie about anything, even if it causes me trouble. I hope you find the one you are looking for. Good luck and God bless.
Sassymiss, yes, we do sometimes catch a lot of heat for some of the posts that are made. But, it shows that you DO, care enough to make the post, even if causes some trouble. Bottom line, if you are writing, and saying what you are thinking, while getting at the TRUTH, then it is WORTHWHILE the risk.
A LOT of people DON'T want to hear the truth, and that is what they are afraid of.
I hope. that I do, find that special someone, and I hope that you to, find that special someone as well. However, if I don't, and it means living on my own, for the rest of my life, then so be it.
Too many times, I have given up, value and integrity before, well, NO MORE.
I will take value and integrity FIRST, over anthing less then that.
Good luck and god bless you to.
I think time to let someone else have a chance at this.
Sincerely
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:35:33 AM | Hey 2TreatUright:
Good pointers, and thank you for your thoughts, and input as well as your life experiences as well.
That is one of the good things about these postings, that we ALL, can learn from each others experiences, and it is learning, and sharing together.
Sincerely
GLBTH | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/11/2006 12:43:58 AM | Look no further, a real woman here. Me,  for a real man. Are you out there? Could this be you? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 10:01:07 AM | | stop lying - I haven't bothered anyone - was with 1 girl for 7 years and we broke up recently but are great friends.. You need some help. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/11/2006 10:28:06 AM | What? You can't find them?!!
Maybe it's that we are not so shiny as all the glistening boob shots and mid-strip pics that the lil hottie's (and sometimes not so hotties) put up to temp all the poor, helpless, and easily distracted men away.
you know, the ones that get disheartened at trying over and over for these ladies, and just end up lowering and lowering standards to get that ego boost they need? To then have it not work and get sent reeling, hurt and dizzy back into the pond?
MWA HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
Maybe it's that we are more mature and not in need of so much attention so we are not out throwing ourselves in your faces?
Maybe we are not in a rush to get involved with you because we are quite alright with our lives and lack nothing that we can't live without. Or we don't need a man to complete us or to boost our esteem.
Hmmmm, I guess we may be the wallflowers, nice girls, independant, or WHATEVER that men pass by for whatever reason.
Just a thought.......
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Posted: 7/11/2006 11:23:41 AM | | 2TreatUright, You were smart to get away. Look for someone who treats you nice. No amount of money can make up for the misery of a controlling person whether male or female. I have found that some guys with money think they can buy you, and if they buy you a nice dinner then you owe them sex. Well they are full of it for I accepted an invitation to dinner not a sex romp. There are still a lot of good single, widowed, or divorced people out there but they are hard to find. Why do guys put pix of everything but them selves on this site? Is it because they are married or have a steady and don't want them to find out. What cowards, if so.I wish you luck in your | |
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Posted: 7/14/2006 12:27:38 PM | it looks like I made a huge mistake.
and I am going to try to walk away with my tail between my legs here.
Jimmm73 isn't the guyI thought he was.
Seams my friends like to make stories and over exagerate things.
so this is a message to all that my prior statement about Jimmm73 was not accurate. and I do wish to send out an apology to him and to all that might of taken offense to any of this.
so Jimmm73 I'm sorry and hope we can both go on in a peacful life and do our own thing. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/14/2006 12:57:59 PM | There are real woman here.., you just can't see them b/c you only write to the girls with their boobs hanging out, or suggestive looks on their faces. LOL!
At least I've noticed that some of the guys who complain are also the ones who tend to want the model face, model body, the cake and eat it too, if that's how you want to look at it.
HOWEVER, I can be accused for the same.
Just get out there and look damn it.., and instead of just seeing a girls picture and e-mailing her right away, take a minute to read her profile. You can usually determine if they are worth chatting with or not.., Just a little unwanted advice from someone who really knows nothing..,  | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:09:46 AM | | Your right im a redhead.............they myself included are truthful and not afraid to say what they really are thinking........... | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:45:46 AM | | Hello there. Don't be discouraged. Real woman are all around, it's just a matter of catching them at the right moment in their lives. You have to catch them when they're willing to show how magnificent they can be, and let their guard down and hearts open enough to accept possible failure...and failure is too scary to most real women for them to feel comfortable enough to lay themselves bare and become vulnerable enough to let bad or good events into their life. It's not about bitterness...It's about protection. | |
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| where are all the real women?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:16:18 AM | Thanks for that sincere apology. Next time learn who the person is before you assume the worst. I'm glad we now know the truth.
enjoy POF.
Cheers. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2006 11:23:12 AM | | lol you guys say the real woman are right here? If a guy sends you a message you read and delete not even replying saying im not interested? And dont lie and ssay uo never have either. Because all the things you girls are saying real woman are my ex was and she ****ed me over just as bad so dont say real woman here if you dont mean it. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2006 7:01:44 PM | GLBTH, Thanks, I don't consider myself poor. I have enough to live on and do what I want.
What I meant was I would rather be poor than be controlled. It would be pretty hard to control me anyway as I am a natural redhead. You know us redheads,sexy,sassy and smart.I relate to all ages. I get along with all ages and I really do understand them. I looked up your profile . I really liked what I read. Some lady will be lucky to get you. I think you would be a loving, fun guy and cute too!! | |
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Posted: 7/25/2006 7:17:27 AM | I believe I can answer this for you "Soulmate4you" since I am a real woman!
A Real Woman...
Delights in her femininity.
Is trustworthy and gains the respect of others.
Restrains herself from gossip, but instead speaks with wisdom and discretion.
Encourages and builds up those around her.
Does not have a nagging, or manipulative manner in which she deals with others.
Does not wallow in self-pity, but rather sacrifices and works hard to accomplish her dreams and goals.
Channels her emotions calmly and constructively.
Has a gentle and quiet spirit.
Rarely relates to members of the opposite sex in a flirtatious or forward manner, but instead saves her sexual expressions for her future husband.
Hope this helps!!!
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Posted: 7/25/2006 12:34:40 PM | | look if ur look ing for the right women .then look in all the right places cause when u say that u can not find a gurl u never they could be right infront of u just waiting to be seen . i can relate to u cause i was trying to hard to fingd a man and all i had to do was wait patiently. and let them come to u . got to be patient ya kno. don't try to hard cause they want come and they know when u are tryin to hard . take it from me i am a gurl . i can tell . take my ad vice and u will go far . and one other thing u haft to love your self before u love someone else . do u love your self email me back and tell me what u think about my advice. | |
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