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 69george69

Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:20:30 PM
yeah i do mistress as it gos, is ymca a sign of bein gaye then. shit if i had nown that a wile ago all these yeers of not nowing.

serously though, i dont fink im gaye but i coud be bisexual cos i like women a lot, but do find men attrractive.
 kez~angel

Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/27/2006 3:40:42 PM
You don't nescesarily have to be gay or bi to find the oposite sex attractive, you may just be bi curious, I am definately straight, but some women are just so damn hot, I have snogged a couple of women, but haven't gone any further and while I don't think I would, never say never
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 28
Is Being Gay Genetically Determind Or A So-Called Lifestyle Choice
Posted: 6/27/2006 3:51:03 PM
Kez shhhhhh don't be telling anyone about us will ya
 kez~angel

Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 6/27/2006 4:41:21 PM
I'm hurt, you said you weren't ashamed of our dirty little secret, thats it, I'm confiscating your favorite whip till you kiss my ass
 Tansi

Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 30
Is Being Gay Genetically Determind Or A So-Called Lifestyle Choice
Posted: 6/27/2006 5:06:26 PM
Two Englishmen mentioning Mary Poppins in their responses to me.
Is this is trend I see? Where is that damned brolly?
Can't leave that little trap door open for puppies.
You know how they like to chew on everything.

~Tansi~
 chemistry_heaven

Joined: 4/18/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2006 8:06:28 AM
My Great Aunt (she's 79) came out with her opinion about my gay mate.....the reason people are gay is that there is nothing wrong with being gay and that, its just a case of that they are born with a odd amount of chromosomes to the heterosexual....It certainly made me think....is she right?
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 32
Is Being Gay Genetically Determind Or A So-Called Lifestyle Choice
Posted: 6/28/2006 8:32:04 AM

I'm hurt, you said you weren't ashamed of our dirty little secret, that's it, I'm confiscating your favorite whip till you kiss my ass


Young lady you've just earned yourself another week in Mistress~H Boot Camp. You know the routine, see ya later *wink w@nk*

I think being gay/ straight is down to chromosomes, i don't think you just grow up and decide to be gay. It's something that's there from been born...
 onthewing

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 33
Is Being Gay Genetically Determind Or A So-Called Lifestyle Choice
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:08:48 AM
Read a book called 'Brainsex' by Ann Moir and David Jessel and you'll be left in little doubt that homosexuality IS genetically determined. Hope this helps.
 Phil538

Joined: 1/9/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/28/2006 10:30:36 AM
Sexuality is predetermined. (not necessarily genetic)
There is no such thing as gay, by, or straight but for the middle and either end. It is a spectrum.
Homosexuality is abundant in nature and therefore the norm.
The boundary’s of sexuality are often a little vague because our survival is not dependant on strict rules.
The dog for example may hump your leg, attempt to sodomize the cat or his brother but when the time is right, there WILL be puppies if you don’t get him snipped.
Ultimately we all make our own decisions on what we do and some are taken for us.

A fact that may be of some interest.
It has been scientifically proven and is widely known that the overtly homophobic are generally secretly harbouring considerable doubt over their own sexuality.

Beware the man who protests too much!

Live and let live, that’s what I say.
 kez~angel

Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2006 5:00:51 PM
^^^Nuff said me thinks


Young lady you've just earned yourself another week in Mistress~H Boot Camp. You know the routine, see ya later *wink w@nk*


Yes My Mistress, I'll assume the possition, ooohhh I can't wait
 Demeter

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 6/28/2006 9:44:39 PM

My Great Aunt (she's 79) came out with her opinion about my gay mate.....the reason people are gay is that there is nothing wrong with being gay and that, its just a case of that they are born with a odd amount of chromosomes to the heterosexual....It certainly made me think....is she right?


Right she may have been but did you ever consider she may have been senile at the time of making that particular statement ?
 chemistry_heaven

Joined: 4/18/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2006 10:50:19 PM
Demeter....
Truse me,she is sane as anyone and she's not ready for the knackers yard yet lol.Hence why I gave it thought about what she said
 pink tigger

Joined: 4/25/2006
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Posted: 6/28/2006 11:43:17 PM
hmm mistress h, well spotted definatley rings true a fair bit, ive always thought that gays are born gay, but how does Dr Bogurts theory work with the feminine side? i mean a few of my freinds that are gay look very butch and similar to a man but then theres a couple who look very feminine indeed. And as with curious bi, i think i fall for the person inside and not what there natural physic is like, but sex with a woman, eww no can do!
 bubblydebs

Joined: 11/2/2005
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Posted: 6/29/2006 6:03:07 PM
I have a 15 yr old son and he has always displayed gay tendancies since he was about
1 yr old from the way he walked and talked, to who he played with, so I feel it is a pre-determinded trait they are born with. He finally came out last year and I have to say he is very confused about it and sometimes angry so if he could made a choice about being gay I dont think he would be.
 At_Fates_Gate™

Joined: 6/9/2005
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Posted: 6/29/2006 7:04:07 PM
I think men are definitely born gay. Its very black and white.

But I'm not sure its quite so straight (pardon the pun) forward for lesbians.
I think about half lesbians are born gay and half become lesbians through choice.


~FATE~
 Phil538

Joined: 1/9/2006
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Posted: 6/30/2006 3:22:31 AM
Lesbians born gay! Whatever next!
 Demeter

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/30/2006 4:04:39 AM
A lot of men have told me that they are lesbians.


Not quite Roger....but I am beginning to get the hints that you keep dropping.
 Roger Les Moutons

Joined: 6/5/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/30/2006 4:08:35 AM
Take Me I'm Yours....Because Dreams Are Made Of This




.....this is the song for today thread , right?
 ReD RiDinG HooD..

Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/3/2006 5:38:50 AM
it is genetically determined.

study psychology and you won't need to ask this question. you will know the answer.

ReD RiDinG HooD..
 mike bradly

Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/3/2006 5:51:37 AM
Perhaps its a by-product of our food and social environment, having HRT flushed down the toilet into our food chain is not a good idea, as is feeding our kids so many chemicals that it is affecting there mental agility. Forcing a self first society on to us is also not good.
What is the ratio of gays per thousand in a so called none civilised society? Are we killing ourselves in all directions?
People should be what they want to be but do we have to have it forced on us at every turn of society, leave them alone and I'm sure they will leave us alone to live our chosen lives.
 smoochiegal

Joined: 5/18/2005
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Posted: 7/3/2006 8:20:09 AM
I think it's a def nature vs nurture thing and can be either such as some ppl are just bad eggs from birth and others turn bad at some point because of the way they have been treated xjx
 Phil538

Joined: 1/9/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2006 8:21:17 AM
The world was flat once.

No doubt a psychologist proved this theory wrong.
 Shangrilah

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/3/2006 10:56:56 AM
If it's a choice then you would have to be attracted to your own gender to choose it - and if you have that attraction to begin with then you must've been born that way
 kez~angel

Joined: 4/5/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2006 11:07:54 AM

some ppl are just bad eggs from birth and others turn bad at some point because of the way they have been treated


OMG What century is this???? Bad eggs from birth???? Others turn bad???? That is even worse than the theory that being gay is a lifestyle choice
 xjoloux

Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 50
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Posted: 7/3/2006 11:56:05 AM
......the age old debate of Nature vs Nurture!

Apparently....... new research now suggests that conditions in a mother's womb largely determine whether her sons will be hetero or homosexual. WHY OH WHY cant they just let it be instead of trying to analyse everything and anything! who cares if being gay is due to genetics or lifestyle?! These people really have too much spare time on their hands
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