uballe
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Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 26 | |
| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:58:01 AM | | God, I don't think I would want to get involved with a woman that would be willing to go there. Just a personal preference/belief, but I don't think it is right... Period. I'm no bible thumper, but I just feel deep down inside that some things are just inherently wrong and shouldn't be tampered with and homosexuality (bi, whatever you want to pretty it up with) is just one of those things. Now, I'm not judging you if that's what you like, but I'd want to know ahead of time and would have to say that IT IS a deal-breaker with me. I don't find anything attractive about it. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 8:11:59 AM | Great Topic!
[Women have been sexualized sooooo much in the last years (I know always) but more so now with TV and Magazines... Not only men have been affected by all that sexualization... A whole generation of women have learned to be sexually attracted by women,]
x Shadow x has hit it on the head.... We have been so bombarded with female sexuality and sexual images of other females, our generation and others after us are now appreciating the female form in many ways. Where it had been considered taboo to experiment is now the norm although many ladies will say that they are not lesbians or bisexual.
Now, if this is happening with female sexuality, can we assume the same is happening with violent images from movies, videogames and television even if it is denied by makers?... (off-topic a little) Just a thought... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 8:22:11 AM | | Well let me assure you if the majority of people who enjoy violence or think they enjoy it would experience extreme forms of it (war, seeing people shot, violent fights) the fascination would wear off. At least thats what I believe. I for one am becoming desensitized to female homosexuality. Is it just me or does every second rate comedy show have a gay guy now? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 8:43:39 AM | I do think, for alot its a trend of sorts.. we see it everywhere.. it makes it ok.
I hate that.
seriously.
There is a big misunderstanding between being bisexual.. and being a sexual deviant.
either or is fine.
but realize the difference.
gay.. lesbian.. you fall in love with the same sex.
bisexual.. means you can fall in love with either sex.
sexual deviance means.. you enjoy gettin freakin.. and its all in the fun of the game.. But its no more then sexual fun. big difference.
I think one way or another, people should be allowed to live free in a way that makes them feel complete. Its no one elses buissness.. and It really shouldn't be open for discussion or scrutiny. jmo. | |
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mc71
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Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 30 | |
| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:22:02 AM | | I dont know anyone personally that has tried it but I have seen it on the net a few times, I think it pretty freaky, I mean I like my pet but seroiusly.......Oh, my bad ...thats beastiallity! Lol!!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:28:32 AM | | homoflexible.... I would never date one.. I have no intrest in a relationhip with one...ever...but i could be and have been with women in the past. There is something very intresting in being with another woman...really taught me a bit about myself and was crazy being with some one who also thinks she has physical flaws... flaws i just didnt see....sort of gave me a new perspective... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 12:36:38 PM |
and was crazy being with some one who also thinks she has physical flaws... flaws i just didnt see....sort of gave me a new perspective...
So when a guy tells you he doesn't see the flaws and you think he's just playing dumb and patronizing you, maybe now you'll realise that if we tell you we don't see them, then you're probably making more of something than is necessary. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 12:40:17 PM | | I have been with women before and would do it again. Nothing trendy about it for me, its about sexual attraction and a good time. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 12:41:37 PM | | if you do it again...............can I watch? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 1:49:39 PM | Yep, i think more and more women are BI or "Bi-Curious," and there is nothing wrong with that...
I find women more attractive then men more often then not, but it's a MAN I crave most...so it's BOTH for me, but if I MUST CHOOSE, I'd choose a man...
Luckily I don't have to choose. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 2:01:03 PM | Women are definitely more open to experimentation with the same sex than men.Generally they seem to fall into two different categories..1)experimenters:They either play when they're young,confused or just right after they've had a bad relationship with a man.2)They're basically lesbian but with a tolerance for certain men.
One thing I've never understood is the double standard of why many women in a relationship feel it's not cheating if they play with another woman, but it is cheating if they play with another man.Then again, I've never understood double standards anyway.
I think people in general have a scale where they fit.There are strict homosexual and strict heterosexual and there's the wide gray area in between.
I've definitely seen a rise in women admitting their bisexuality in the last 10 years or so.I usually see this in the under 30 crowd.Media has definitely had much to do with the rise and people,whether they want to admit it or not are influenced by it, so I think there are more women,especially younger women,experimenting with bisexuality. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 2:01:51 PM | my only problem with being with a woman is that it leaves me somwhat unsatisfied.. its just forplay to me
Ocean... yes.. i will try to believe a guy doesnt see the flaws i do lol | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 2:02:08 PM | Let's all be clear and honnest here... I am so TURNED ON by 2 women together and EVERYONE has the right to do what they want... That should not forbid me to use my brain and see things for what they are... If ever anyone brings the point that homosexualilty is a sexual deviance instead of a healthy lifestyle, he gets bashed on and called homophobic... I have worked in the gay community long enough to know that it's one of the most closed minded and unnaccepting community... I walked there with my gf and get so many bad looks like "WTF am I doint there, in THEIR place"... The amount of times I heard that I wasnt gay just coz I didnt know it yet was just unbelievable... If I were to say that they were gay because the just didnt know they were hetero, I'd get bashed on again... And then the example of 1% of the animal world comes in, saying that homosexuality exists in nature therefore it's normal... 1%!!! normal!!! and that is forgetting the specifics of each of those natural situations, no animal is PURELY homosexual, there is always an evolutionnary reason for their behavior : practice, heating themselves, etc... But those that dont reproduce, wont pass on their genes, therefore, wont happen again... Animals that are homosexual are NOT exclusively homosexual, they still reproduce with females... For Fok's sake, geikos have male threesomes, coz they're cold blooded and that serves for them to heat themselves and survive, but their are not exclusively homnosexual... That is the major difference, exclusivity... It what makes it evolutionnnary a bad thing...
This beeing said, everyone can do what they want... And even I have the right to use my brain and see things for what they are and talk about them...
I will be so hated after this... as usual | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 2:02:50 PM | | But why is it okay for a woman to just have sex with a woman for fun but a man would be a player if he did it? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 2:18:14 PM |
my only problem with being with a woman is that it leaves me somwhat unsatisfied.
Interesting.I've been told by bisexual women that female/female sex is "more intimate".Whatever that means.
How do two women know when the sex is done?I mean you ladies can have multiple orgasms, we're only limited to one at a time.You ladies are like diesel engines,takes a while to get started but once you do, you go for a loooonnng time.We guys are more like fourth of July bottle rockets.Launch it,watch it explode and go "ahhhhhh"! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:04:37 PM | | By making the argument that homosexuality is not natural but sexually deviant (and deviance is totally OK in my book) because it does not result in procreation, you are also implying that any heterosexual sex which does not result in procreation is also sexually deviant. Thus the only "normal" sexual practitioners would be those that had only penis-in-vagina, open to conception every time sex. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:19:54 PM | false... Im implying that even if there is no procreation done during heterosexual sex, at least there is a possibility and that your instincts cannot see that difference... You're ****ing someone from the other sex and your instincts see it as ok, they cant feel ur condom... But my instincts can damn well see if Im putting my****in a another guy's a$$... My conscious told me from the moment I met that person that it's not the right sex for procreation and my instincts didnt create any sexual arousal ...
Tolerance, acceptance and embracing are 3 really different things... It's not because you can do certains things that you should... Because if we get into that line of thinking, it becomes really subjective to accept bestiality, rape and pedophilia as deviances too... Remember that YOUR definition of deviance that you came up with for YOUR reality to all fit together, is not THE definition of deviance... You just decided to include what YOU want and what YOU dont want... Not a good way to see reality for what it is nor to evaluate what is what...
It is OBVIOUS that no one that is bi or gay will EVER accept what I'm saying, Im discussing their livelyhood... Their psychological structure will block all valid argumentation in order to preserve their image of themselves and of the world around them... Now, everyone has the right to its opinion but that should NEVER suggest that all opinions are equal... some are based on hard facts and well thought logical argumentation while others are based on pure belief, justification for pre-existing beliefs and lack of information about the REAL world...
Why do ppl avoid seeing reality for what it is? Coz it's really depressing... but it's still reality... Even though the coyote in "RoadRunner" pulls the blinds down as the train is coming torwards him, the trains is still coming... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:34:22 PM | I think it's just a way for chicks who are hard up for male attention to try to get it. "Look at me, guys, I'll kiss a chick! Aren't I sexy?" *eyeroll*
A chick who claims to be bisexual likes men (boys?) & just needs attention.
A guy who claims to be bisexual likes men & is just too scared to come out all the way.
Oh..and when I get laid, I'm not trying to procreate. Nor is it that oh-so-hot *scoff* thought of making a child that excites me. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:44:27 PM | | It's great to be involved with bi-sexual women. Double the action. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:52:38 PM | | I find it is more intimate...but for me oral sex with anyone is....to me its not the same as sex... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:55:02 PM | What part of INSTINCTS dont you ppl understand!?!? They are at the subconscious level!!! Obviously if you're thinking it, it's not the instinct anymore... It might be a thought triggerred by an instinct, but NOT the instinct itself...
Man...ppl will just NOT understand... no wonder why this world in going to crap... ppl come out of school thinking that instincts are decisions!!! They're behavior patterns that have been imprinted in your reptilian brain after many, many years of evolution... behavior patterns that help surviving the specie and your own genes... Not even all the TV brainwashing you could ever get could erase what is so inherently printed there for survival purposes...
I feell like Im taking CRAZY PILLS !!! (yeah I love zoolander, sorry...)
Oral sex is sex... what you call sex is called intercourse... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:55:23 PM | XshadowX I am not even going to touch this one
Deviant unnatural behavior....Good God...
Yet 2 chicks turn you on....hmmmm
Just because you view things one way does not mean you are right. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:57:45 PM | learned behavior vs instincts my dear DS...
I have had some brainwashing done to me too, but Im aware of what is what... I can guarantee you that the reason why 2 girls turn me on are different that the majority's... I can like something and know it's conuter-instinctual... Sometimes I feel like killing ppl, but I dont... I know what is what... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:59:41 PM | Whatever you want to call it.
Call it deviant, call it learned behavior...
I call it desire and fun. You want to read more into then knock yourself out. I am a simple I do what feels good kind of gal. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 4:58:48 PM | When the main thing driving someone's actions is its own pleasure, I call that self-absorption... but yes, I am the type of guy that likes to understand things fully, not just coast thrown life without asking myself any questions in fear that it would break my little world or make me feel bad about my own actions and behavior...
I do believe there is a cause for everything, not a reason (that's fate, which is too close to faith)... I know why the majority of ppl dont question themselves... If you read profiles (especially women profiles) one of the sentences that comes the most often :I have no regrets!!! That is a nice way to say : "I got no introspection and I therefore will NEVER learn from my mistakes" or the person assumes that they NEVER make mistakes or anything that would hurt themselves or others... I dont like that kind of lack of consideration or disconnectedness from reality... but that's me...
Someone's got to think while the sheeple makes mock reproduction sessions with non-compatible sex ;) | |
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