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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/30/2006 8:43:22 AM | there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. just because some are against it does not make it wrong for all. people all have different views, not all of which are correct.
serial killers are killers, to compare their minds to the minds of homosexuals is absurd. we get it, you are against homosexuals.
i think i live to be happy, and i am doing a great job of that, so who cares why. if something ain't broke...don't fix it. | |
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Theda
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Joined: 6/28/2006
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/30/2006 10:12:52 AM | 'A marketing plow' - are you kidding me here?
Of course they're trying to make as much as possible - aren't we all? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/30/2006 2:13:55 PM | Fitness Bunny, your answer proved either your inability to read a post properly or to understand concepts more complex than an episode of "Simple Life"...
My understanding of homosexuality in the nature and in the subconscious of ppl has NOTHING to do with my liking it or not... This is what it is to have an objective discussion... I brought arguments, not opinions...
And if you still dont understand what I explained about psychological structures, well, dont make urself look worse by saying what you did... It was well explained, you dont want to understand it, fine with me, but you're not looking too bright with ur answers...
Your last sentence demonstrates really well your superficiality and shallowness... You dont ask yourself too many questions in life hein? I really have a hard time with sheeple... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:31:22 PM | you know what the best part of your post was? while telling Fitness Bunny she looked dumb, you used both the terms "urself" and "ur".
and while you claim not to be posting your (note the spelling;) ) opinions, really, what is an argument but an opinion with some statements to back it up? Just becuase you can find a psychological theory to reinforce your idea that homosexuality and bisexuality are deviant behaviours, it is also possible to find theories that support the idea of sexuality being innate and instinctual. most modern day psychologists take both the biological determinism approach and the social constructionist theory and apply both to explain human behaviour. We are born with a predispostion to certain traits, and our environment shapes the direction that predisposition takes.
While we may be influenced by the media, you cannot say that it is completely responsible for our everyday actions. Different people will be influenced to different degrees, depending on their weakness of mind and susceptability to outside control. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/30/2006 7:54:39 PM | Answer: No. I hate the word normal, and use the word majority in it's place if you don't mind. If they are attracted to other people of the same sex sexually, they are bi or gay, bi definition. In the end it's just a label tho.
I wouldn't even bang a girl with another guy (threesome). Last thing I want to see while fukin is another dude. Hell, I don't care to see myself naked. If I was aroused by men I would be inately bi (keeping my love for women of course). Just because you don't act on it doesn't mean you aren't it. A virgin can be gay, bi, or hetero. They haven't acted on it (foreplay aside). | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 3:26:53 AM | What an interesting topic,
It got me thinking and about my experiences in life etc.
First of all the media will pick up on anything that sells.. and Sex sells.
I have always believed that you can't help the way you feel, if you are attracted to someone its not something you can switch off, of coarse you have a choice wether or not to react to your attraction, I remember how strong my attraction was to my first love..I would have done anything to be with her.. I am very straight and the thought of sex with another guy just does nothing for me at all, I have often wondered how I would react if I felt the same attraction to another guy..scary..That is my point, I think I would crack up.
Now that came from me.. my outlook.. I therefor will never say that it is wrong for anyone to be gay/lesbian. Each to thier own.
I do think there many reasons to why people behave the way they do and there have been many points raised on this thread so I won't go into that but there is a difference between what I mentioned above and just sexual relief, I too like to see two women at it, what a turn on, I also like to watch a man going at it with a woman, two men..Not for me. I dont have a problem with anyone wanting to experiment, female/female, male/male as long as it is two consenting adults.
Back to the original topic, There has always been same gender attraction, it's just today its all out in the open and open for debate, seen as more acceptable now..Trendy, its a matter of opinion. I think that women are more at ease with a sexual relationship with another women and men in general are repulsed at the thought of being with another man, perhaps a man who is more in touch with his feminine side would beg to differ. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 5:19:40 AM | | Bisexual? hmmmmmmm i'm still waiting for someone with that on their resume lol | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 7:16:17 AM | Female that is ! ugh sheese...take care of any of you weirdos thinking otherwise lol  | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 7:37:27 AM | | I think it is a simple as this.....Young peoples brains are mush. They think reality is what they see on tv or what they read that their favorite star is doing is the real world. Before I get flamed, I am not speaking of every young woman and guy out there but there are a bunch who are not using any common sense and are being led around by their nose....following dumba$$es and becoming bigger dumba$$es. It's kinda like Britney kisses Madona so it must be cool......Yea....There are two role models for sure. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 8:08:56 AM | | I've been with other women many times, as well as I have been with men | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 8:27:02 AM | come on if I was a woman I would want to do Selma Hyack or Angelina Jolie?
Hell yeah,
it is less tabo for a women to make out or have sex with another women... that is all
and if they enjoy cool!
it is better for them to get it out of thier system (waiting for flames here) when they are young and decide if they like it or not! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 9:06:57 AM | Hi All, Hope everyone had a nice Christmas.
Now, for my story. I find that alot of women over the age of 30 are more interested in exploring another female.
I know that happened in my case.
Once I reached 40, my desire, shall I say, Blew me away. I don't know why. Maybe hormones,lol?
As a child, we were taught that it was taboo, but seems more socially acceptable now.
If you have a high sex drive and have the nerve to try a female/female, it is wonderful!
Sex is sex, what feels good, feels good. No labels required.
I consider myself bi because I can have serious feelings for another female, not just sexual.
To me, being bi is not just all about being attracted to the same sex for sex, but being able to have an emotional bond with her also. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 10:36:11 AM | if i slept with two girls would that make me Bi? or just lucky...
judging by the bots that email me id say theres an epidemic of 19yr old bisexual and bored chicks out there... i blame MTV | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 1:18:10 PM | I think that in society it is more acceptable for woman to be BI..but i also think it's also a fantasy for the woman with her partner..I've never ever heard a man turn down a 3som where he can watch 2 women go at it..lol.
I have "uhum" been in a 3som, and would again..does that make me Bi? In some peoples books yes, in some others.. no. It depends on the person's openess on sexuality.
k. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 1:46:35 PM | | I think many are fakers, just doing it for the male attention that it gets. Guys love it. Girls love guys. Simple as that. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 3:47:44 PM | Not going to disagree there, Bubbles. Most of us guys think it's cool, at least until the day that we get burned by it.
Me personally? Well, I tend to be a lot more aprehensive about a woman I'm with if I find out she's bi. If I don't know her well when we start (like, if we met online), I'll hold her at arm's length for awhile until I get to know her (make sure she's like one of our more exemplary posters here, and thinks getting in some female/female action on the side is still cheating). If I already know her well enough to know that she's loyal like that, I would go with it, if it's right. Then again, if I find out by catching her---well, I'll treat it the same I would if I caught her with a guy. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 5:01:42 PM | I think woman are hot. I do not think woman are hot because my man tells me to. I like woman because I do. Always have always will.  | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 6:20:13 PM | I read an article in mens health magazine (a while back) that a good amount of women are merely a few drinks away from a girl on girl experience... hmmmm
-then again most fantasies (however well played out in our minds)
seldom do work well in real life and end up being complicated. -perhaps a good reason most fantasies should possibly remain a fantasy. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 7:31:30 PM | | Sadly it is just a trend these days mostly. I should know because I USE to be one of those dumb women. I use to kiss my girlfriends just to get men riled up...luckily, I have grown out of this pathetic attempt to lure guys...now I just use my charm and wit ;) | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 7:42:39 PM | premature intoxication....I am glad to hear a young lady admit the truth......You are definately a minority but you should be proud that you have grown and matured enough to tell it like it is. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 7:52:57 PM | ive been with another women.....i dated one for a few months....but it was an open relationship....with men i mean...we could date other men but not other women....i was fine with that....it was more experimental than anything....but i had fun...
none the less i cant amagin being without a man... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 10:50:53 PM | | Yes, siree bob, I don't know what it is maybe because every time I turn on the tv set it's pushed in my face, the female thing. alot of times when i talk to girls now I wonder if she's into girls. It's like you said every girl is bisexual and if that is the case then I really am going to die alone. I would never have a relationship a bi girl only fun. as afr as the men I don't know I am not into dudes and have never been "curious" I can't speak for men because some men are into the "downlow" lifestyle so I don't know what the hell is going on. then again who gives a F#@$. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/29/2006 11:19:24 PM | sure it the same for men most of us men are lesbians trapped in men's bodies  | |
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