| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 5/5/2007 1:15:32 PM | why is "female bisexuality" so cool to most men (and women) but "male bisexuality" is "gross" to most of both genders?
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artiex
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 5/5/2007 6:32:55 PM | phine,
A good way of answering your question is to look at the way the sexual liberation movement developed from the 1960's onwards. Rather than being a freedom movement, the sexual liberation movement was actually a male heterosexual fantasy movement that was designed to bisexualize women for the purpose of pleasing straight guys. It was purely a selfish movement that propped up male heterosexual fantasy.
Women went along with it because women see pleasing men as a means of getting ahead. It's ingrained in women from a young age.
The bisexual double standard, however, is coming to an end. I believe the next ten years will see a huge relaxation in attitudes towards male bisexuality. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 5/7/2007 9:13:40 AM | artiex, thanks.
That is sort of the reason I suspected; however it's good to hear it from someone else.
(not just my thinking.) | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 5/7/2007 9:19:36 AM | When I started bouncing at a nightclub a few years back, after having not been in a club for a while, I was SHOCKED at the number of young girls who were engaging in bi sexual behaviour. Mind you, most was bump and grind and kissing, but, still, I didn't SEE that when I was 19 and my friends were out.
It literally took me like a week before I could stop staring at these girls and do my job. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 5/7/2007 1:11:37 PM | It's all in the attention. "bisexuality" is complete and utter bullshit. It exists soley for male benefit (we are sexually visual creatures after all) for women who want male attention.
For example, take Moose's post:
When I started bouncing at a nightclub a few years back, after having not been in a club for a while, I was SHOCKED at the number of young girls who were engaging in bi sexual behaviour. Mind you, most was bump and grind and kissing, but, still, I didn't SEE that when I was 19 and my friends were out.
This is exactly the kind of behavior we're discussing. Now, there are TRUE bi-sexual women, they're usually "lipstick" lesbians. The Anne Heche's of the world. Gay one minute, straight as an arrow the next. Usually a mentally ****ed up female with severe daddy issues.
Here's something to think about:
There has been a rise of "bisexuality" among married women, ages 27 and above. Basically, women who have been in monogamous sexual relationships for 5+ years seem to either openly or secretly want to be with another woman. Why? Are they that bored with their spouses all of a sudden? I see couples all the time wanting to find a 3rd (usually female) for "her" benefit only. "No men allowed", that sort of thing. So she gets to go off and have all the sex she wants, and it's ok because it's not another guy??? Screw that. Personally I'm sick of it. If I'm not playing, nobody is..
Fact is, it's a trend that will go away as soon as women in this country get some self-esteem and feel they are worth more than amusement for men's entertainment. (which, judging by the media's barrage on women in this country, and the younger women, isn't going away anytime soon ) | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 2:29:41 PM | yea bi sexual females are mainly just following fad. the reason i see so many wanna be lesbos these days is simply because of the media. All shows point to naked women & all that jazz about how good they look. so you're 10 yr old is looking at cartoon network or fox and is bombarded with Girls Gone Wild w/ hoes sucking on other hoes breast, asss, etc. U think that kid isnt going to grow up saying "damn, women are HOT! and 'girl on girl action' is COOL!" lol but u see where im going.
bi chics dont really do much for me less another bi chic is around at the time. I could care less. most bi chics are mainly talk & looking for attention  | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 3:00:07 PM |
why is "female bisexuality" so cool to most men (and women) but "male bisexuality" is "gross" to most of both genders?
Just look at the visuals.No explanation is necessary.I once heard a comedian explain it like this:Women are erotic and beautiful when they masturbate,whereas men are like trolls hiding under a bridge,laughing maniacally going,"Make it spit!Make it spit!" | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 6:22:17 PM | According to the direction of this thread, in 200 years straight men will only be used for breeding. Women will play with each other when they just want to get off...
... good basis for a sci-fi story that I'm sure has been done already. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 9:03:51 PM |
This allows you to quote a previous post. Some guys might find the threesome thing a fantasy, but it's not up there on my list of things to do. I'm happy being one on one with my loved one.
This allows you to quote a previous post. , Yeah I dont know how to properly quote so hopefully this works. But you are awesome. More people need to realize this, in my own personal mind threesomes are meant for friends, not lovers. I myself could never share the person I love. I figure that the reason you love em...cause your happy with them! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/30/2007 9:54:18 PM | Uh yeah Cassidy whoever, you said your happily married now and bla bla bla and oh I went and took a looksy at your profile out of boredom and oh boy what did it say?
SINGLE
 
Disclaimer:I ain't gay, but not getting dates anyways so I read this thread out of boredom. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 5:50:14 AM | ^^^^ Has no idea why she isn't getting any dates?
I think female bisexuality is much more accepted in this society than for men. Like others have said, it's more about the culture we live in and how modern media has shaped our mores of what's acceptable, which seems to be much more open now more than ever. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 8:30:10 AM | I think it's rise in popularity partly comes from the fact that Society has become more about "Look at me, self celebrity".
Women are now trying to look like supermodels, with the "check my @ss" message pants, to superlow rise jeans to huge bug-eye "I think I'm either Nicole Ritchie or Audrey Hepburn" sunglasses.
It is not natural for girls to just be who they are. They have to be seen, they have to be somebody.
I don't know how many parties I've been too, meeting hipster women who claim that they are "actresses" because they happened to be an extra in a movie or hoping to be in a friends "music video".
So, now, if acting like a sex-crazed lesbian will attract the attention of a "somebody", then it is just an act to get attention. I agree with a previous poster where he stated that many women who act like lipstick lesbians don't do it for themselves, but to attract the attention of perhaps a man, who is the true visual creature.
Actually, I was hoping that the "Paris Hilton caught again wearing no panties" trend would become popular.... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 8:43:53 AM | | Many females would not consider having a relationship with another female; perhaps that's why they don't consider themselves bi-sexual. Most girls I know however, would be open to kissing a girl as long as it's all in fun. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 1:04:11 PM | I'm all for it!! Nothing like a bit of variety!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 2:19:35 PM | | outta my 10 plus real partnrs i find 8 of them have done a women, ok so thats a fantasy 4 a lot of blokes and maybe even me but it just proves to me the point that a hell of a lot of females find other females sexually attractive | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 7/31/2007 3:42:40 PM | Oh so pointing out the fact that someone says they are married but their profile says they are single means I can't get dates. Oh ha ha. I see other POFer's point that out all the time.
Okay so if I was a homewrecker then my dating odds will go up?
Umm yeah I supposse I could get dates if I returned mail, lol but the heat fried my brain and I have nuttin much to say.
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:08:21 PM | women are different than men, even though some try to say we are equal. we are equal at some things, but sexuality is different, just my opinion.
i have slept with women, but don't even consider myself to be bisexual. i experimented, had fun, whatever. everyone is so serious today, have to put a tag on everything. but women today are more open and yes, it is trendy. I guess i was trendy and didn't even know it. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:48:19 PM | | Honestly it is somewhat "trendy" to be bi. Why?? Part of the culture we live in. The problem is when you get older regreting some of the "bad" decisions we make when we are young and "hip". My 18 year old daughter told me about the girls w/girls in the school. I was shocked to see it in the parking lot before and after school. Are kids are being taught that there are no boundries and experiment all you want. True sexual tendencies are (I believe) given to us at birth. It shouldn't be something we "play" with, there are future consiquences. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:50:36 PM | | Because females w/females are considered "the great sexual experience all guys want". Whether or not that is true is up to the guys. Men are probably "grossed" out by men w/men because "it is gay". Does this make sense?? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:56:04 PM | I agree with you in the statement about the sexual liberation has made some difference. But bi-sexual to me really doesn't exist. I think it is some people's excuse as to why they "occasionaly" have eyes for the same sex. I believe all people are intrigued by the same sex but most don't follow the "taboo" of actually going all the way. We are creatures of nature and curiosity is what makes us all different. It is also the reason we sometimes do things we wouldn't normaly do. How many bi-sexual people are living that lifestyle over the age of 40?? From my experience they usually pick either the same sex or the opposite to pursue a relationship with. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 6:59:32 PM | I mentioned my feelings about this in another post. It is disturbing. My daughter who is 18 opened my eyes to something that I never would have believed. It is "cool" to be BI?? That is just a phase for some and I am sure for some it becomes a life style. We are in a very different time. (as was said by my parents when I was a teenager too) But they change like it or not.
I can only imagine the type of distraction that had for you. I was shocked just picking my kid up at school seeing all the girls in the parking lot. Weird??? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 12/26/2007 7:05:37 PM | I have to say you are pretty right on with what you posted. I have no idea if it is boredom or just looking for a way to live out a fantasy. I have been in medicine for 18 years and have met a lot of people in my career. Women have been portrayed as entertainment for men for centuries. "The oldest profession" still probably holds true today. Sexual curiosity is normal human behavior. But acting on it is a choice.
I would be lying if I said that girl w/girl scenes (when not totally gross) didn't turn me on. I have never had a desire to act on those feelings I just focus them on my man.  | |
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