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 andrea713

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:07:07 PM
You are right it has been done. I don't remember the name just the theme. I hope that day never comes. I really don't think all women want to be with other women. If they do their choice, not the majority.
 andrea713

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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:12:03 PM
TV & Movies are influential. We all make our own choices at the end it right on. Problem is with young people today is that there are very little boundries. Heck they are trying to outlaw spanking. What is up with that??
The lable "bisexual" has changed throughout history because the rulers who did partake in this behavior would have had you killed for questioning it. Homosexual is common throughout nature as well as human nature. We have just learned how to be discreet because of changing religion and cultural believes.
 andrea713

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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:14:59 PM
I believe you are correct. Being gay is "in". Life styles should be up to the people involved. Our desensitizing of the subjest will hopefully be positive and not a bad thing. Hopefully things will even out and in 10 years we will be discussing the next "in" thing.
 andrea713

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Posted: 12/26/2007 7:20:14 PM
Maybe by discussing issues like this we can all learn a little something. I enjoy hearing what other people think and open my mind to other's opinions. You are a little off by the term "sexual deviant" this turn describes people who get sexual pleasure at the expense of another. Such as child molester, rapists, and people who abuse dead bodies. They are often associated with violence.
Bi-sexual is a term that loosly describes people who find both men and women sexually appealing. Falling in love doesn't really play a part in it. Hopefully when they decide what they want from a partner they make a choice and stick with it.
 islovin1

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 130
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Posted: 12/27/2007 2:43:12 PM
Big Bear 72 said

[I have heard that its now trendy for women to be bisexual.]


ONE CAN ONLY HOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Artistee

Joined: 7/24/2006
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Posted: 12/27/2007 8:30:59 PM
It's OK for a woman to be bi...

It's even BETTER for a woman to be bi...and INCLUDE the man into her girl on girl escapades!

Now come on guys...get real! You all know that's what MOST of you are thinkin' when the terminology of female bisexuality is mentioned...


 blondein_tokyo

Joined: 7/5/2006
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Posted: 12/27/2007 11:07:15 PM
But Artistee, do you really think bi girls CARE what you are thinking? Do you really think that they are bi just for your personal pleasure? Haven't you ever thought that perhaps, just perhaps, that bi girls like girls for themselves, and not just to turn men on?

I get extremely annoyed when a guy thinks it is ok to intrude on me and my date, simply because we are two good-looking women. It's most definitely disrespsectful to use someone else's relationship as masturbation fodder- at least, keep your ideas to yourself- take it home with you.

The bi girls I know, would NOT be interested in "sharing" their girlfriend with a man any more than YOU would be interested in sharing yours with another man.

Threesomes CAN be great, but as you should WELL know, they just aren't for everyone. Being bi doesn't magically pre-dispose one to them.

Big fvcking DUH there.......
 Ineffable Me

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 12/28/2007 6:53:44 AM
Well I for one am bi sexual and have always known it

Yeah men find it kinky (some anyway)

But sex is definitely different with a woman compared to a man

Love both equally but could never be in a full on relationship with a woman

Thats my two pennys worth
 cheerupemokidx

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 134
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Posted: 12/28/2007 7:58:26 AM
I've known I was bi since I was about 12. I would actually love to have a girlfriend OR a boyfriend. No it's not about the sex and I don't give a crap who thinks it's attractive. I'm in support of male bisexuality as well. To say we all do this for the male attention is extremely ignorant. I have never done anything "gay" to attract men.
 Nightwing66

Joined: 8/1/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2007 8:12:01 AM
Hahha- it certainly seems like those overly concerned w/ the sexual practices of others inevitably have some deep-seated issues about their own.
 curious54

Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 136
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Posted: 12/28/2007 12:05:56 PM
I guess my question, and I think it's been alluded to before but not sure it's been answered. Are you Bi if you occasionally enjoy the physical touch of another person of the same sex, if your main desire if for the opposite gender?
 cheerupemokidx

Joined: 12/27/2006
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Posted: 12/28/2007 1:11:35 PM
You are bi if you feel the same romantic feelings for the same sex as you do the opposite.
 FoxyBigRed

Joined: 11/26/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:44:20 PM
I am bisexual in that I am not only attracted sexually to both men and women but would also consider having a serious relationship with both (although not at the same time).

I think that the reason that women can find it easier to get involved with the same sex is because we don't have the same masculin insecurities that men do and aren't afraid that our femininity will be harmed by having intercourse with the same sex.
 Sja1

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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:55:43 PM
I'm straight, but I'm sexually attracted to both. I don't do it to be cool. I do it because it's hot to me.
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2008 7:49:55 PM
their sweet scents of perfume, curls, curves and feminine intrigue...
-who couldn't resist em
 cocytus

Joined: 11/9/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 5:53:30 AM

I have heard that its now trendy for women to be bisexual.

After discussing this with a few close female friends, I was a little surprised when many (but not all) admitted that they either had slept with another woman in the past, or would do so in the right situation.

All the women I spoke to insisted they were not lesbians...or really bisexual, for that matter. They weren't interested in dating other women, or having any kind of serious relationship with them. They considered themselves to be straight (many have boyfriends) who sometimes found other females sexually attractive.

As a straight guy, I would never think of being with another man. I don't think there is anything wrong with that...I'm just not attracted to guys sexually. I'm pretty sure most of my male friends feel the same way.

Do you think many normally heterosexual women are open to being with another female? Think its the same for men?


Female bisexuality is only good when it's in the movies (speaking from experience).

Most bisexuals that I've met are unhappy people w/ a number of issues.
You really have to choose one side of the fence or the other.
It's doubtful that your partners are going to indulge your "preferences" as much as you'd like them to.,if you are bisexual.

When I see someone in Hollywood announce their "bisexuality" I'm always like..."is their career going that badly?"
 El_Mariachi

Joined: 4/21/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 6:12:04 AM


Most bisexuals that I've met are unhappy people w/ a number of issues.
You really have to choose one side of the fence or the other.
It's doubtful that your partners are going to indulge your "preferences" as much as you'd like them to.,if you are bisexual.


First comment. Completely false.
Second comment. No.. actually.. you don't HAVE TO CHOOSE.
Third comment. I'd never ask someone within a relationship to share me. Whomever I happen to be dating at the time is my "preference".
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 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 4:38:15 PM
RE: First post.

Women are sleek and sexy and lithe and just built to be appealing. Men are bulky, hairy, and sweaty. Women only love are bodies cause genetics tells them to. Taking those two things into consideration, its quite logical and normal for women to be straight and still see a woman as attractive. Hetero men on the otherhand liking other men... doesnt quite work out according to that logic.
 taurus516

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Posted: 1/4/2008 8:04:36 AM


Do you think many normally heterosexual women are open to being with another female? Think its the same for men?

Some are some aren't. I know some women who would be open to kissing and touching and such,but not anything more.Then I know some who are just as grossed out by the thought as many of these "insecure" men you speak of.

I'm straight and not open to having anything sexual with another man, not out of insecurity,but penises and hairy rear ends just don't do it for me.Gay guys and all that's associated with them doesn't offend me,it's just not my cup of tea.

Women only love are bodies cause genetics tells them to. Taking those two things into consideration, its quite logical and normal for women to be straight and still see a woman as attractive. Hetero men on the otherhand liking other men... doesnt quite work out according to that logic.


I appreciate the male body,but I look at it differently than a female.When I go to the gym,I may notice how well defined another guy is and admire it,wish I could build up that set of pecs, biceps or glutes,but that's light years away from wanting to kiss another guy or puff his pork.

The thing that puzzles me about some of the bi women I've met,is that they tell me that sex to them is an expression of intimacy and they're not open to casual sex with a man.Yet,they have no problem with one night stands with a woman.What's the difference?
 GeorgeJohnson

Joined: 6/24/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2008 1:11:45 PM

The thing that puzzles me about some of the bi women I've met,is that they tell me that sex to them is an expression of intimacy and they're not open to casual sex with a man.Yet,they have no problem with one night stands with a woman.What's the difference?


A theory -- better answered by a not-all-the-way-straight woman -- Maybe it's ingrained in women to bargain sex for something (emotional, financial, entertainment etc.) when it comes to men but that need to bargain or question "what am I getting out of this in addition to sex" does not apply to other women.
 asteliapuff39

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 1/6/2008 2:37:19 PM
I have to say its not trendy...nowadays people are more open about sexuality!
women ARE beautiful, its impossible to not be bisexual when you are a woman, I love men, dont take me wrong, I would not be able to be all the way lesbian, but theres some women out there that are just hot, pretty legs, full breasts, beautiful face... cant say no to that!
my eyes do wonder in a store...usually they wonder more to women than men.
 taurus516

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Posted: 1/7/2008 12:34:05 PM

I have to say its not trendy...nowadays people are more open about sexuality![/quote

As a lifestyle and as a preference,it's not based on trends.If you look at the way the media portrays it,it's very trendy.Especially in any visual media.It's all over television.Sex is certainly nothing new or "trendy" in media as anyone knows sex sells.Yet TV shows that feature bi women and make out scenes between two women have definitely been on the rise.It's a popular piece of imagery,and don't think it doesn't have an impact on impressionable viewers.This translates to more acceptance plus more curiosity and although I have no empirical data,it's certainly seems to me the number of women and young girls claiming to be bi has gone up,especially in the under 30 crowd.
Back when I was in my 20's,finding a bi girl was rare,or seemed to be anyway,yet now it seems that to me they're all over the place.I was doing a live remote for a TV newscast in a popular sports bar at University of Florida during a very big sporting event.These are usually tough because you have to negotiate the live hits around a sea of rowdy drunks (not one of my favorite assignments) and when the crowd saw the lights from the camera come on and the talent start to speak,two girls suddenly jumped in camera view and began to make out.Now I don't know if these girls were bi or gay or just showing off for attention,but I do know 20 years ago,that probably would not have happened.
 HSJS

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Posted: 1/18/2008 8:29:09 PM
I have been noticing for quite some time in looking at profiles of woman (of all ages), that thier seems to be pictures in some profiles, of woman in suggestive poses with another woman. What is that all about? I am not being naive! I do realize that many woman in our culture today, seem to have freed themselves from fear of being defined as lesbians or bi-sexuals.

I find it a bit distressing, that woman who post suggestive sapphoesque pictures, also say that they are looking for a "long term relationship". Are men to read between the lines, that when a man finds this type of picture with "long term relationship" in the profiles, that it can mean that the relationship can or may include a possibility of a MFM happening?

Does POF have an orientation for "bi-sexual"? I don't think they do! Anyway interested in hearing from the ladies on this. Men (as usual!) chime in if you care to.
 Krazy Kar

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Posted: 2/10/2008 7:25:53 PM
All I have to say is:

The Kinsey Scale.

Everyone is bisexual on SOME level. To be completely Straight or gay/lesbian would mean you've NEVER even THOUGHT about, dreamt about--ANYTHING--doing something with the same/opposite sex.

Impossible.

:)
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