| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:53:07 PM |
To be completely Straight or gay/lesbian would mean you've NEVER even THOUGHT about, dreamt about--ANYTHING--doing something with the same/opposite sex.
gosh, after reading this thread i started to feel like the only straight female freak on earth ( or POF).  | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:09:15 PM | Sorry, Krazy Kar, but that idea is kinda out there. Impossible to be completely straight or gay/lesbian? Sorry, humans are too individual for that to be "impossible." Besides, I'm not sure anybody who's opinion is worth anything would care if somebody else thought or dreamed about such anything.
I already know that's wrong---I'm perfectly straight. To be honest, I couldn't countenance the notion of doing another guy---too many gorgeous women out there to waste my time with guys. That other guys will doesn't bother me---less competition when I'm single, LOL. I really, honestly doubt I'm the only straight person who thinks like this, and I have grave doubts that there aren't gays/lesbians who think like this their own way (i.e. gay men who wouldn't countenance the idea of being with a woman, lesbians who wouldn't countenance being with a man, etc.)
That you're full-blown bi doesn't change that fact, and it's obviously quite possible.
Best 2 U!~Nicebluiz | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:31:30 PM | umm...as long as i can reember ive liked both girls and boys...
so i am bisexual i have dated both, but im more towards guys than girls, but if the right gal came along and we clicked on all levels i would go for it and date her. But yes I agree it seems to be a trend with girls in my generation...and it sucks for a lot of us who are bi, because everyone always asks " are you really bi, or only when you need to be?" and well im really bi. so i hate the fatc that alot of girls saying it and they aren't. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 2:35:38 AM | Bi girls/women .. DISGUSTING and take this from a guy who had a relationship (if I could call it that) with one. A very attratvie women but treated me so badly that I got rid of her in the worst way.
First off if it's genetic, why would any man want a women to bare him defective children, I'm not against Gay People but I sure as heck don't want one as my offspring if I can avoid it.
Our society is overly feminized and has created a Female Patriacrchy. It's gotten way outtah hand. Now women are acting more an more like men, I constantly see lesbianism EVERYWHERE and in the worst places, all those girls at the car shows, playboy magazine, Lesbian, Lesbian, Lesbian.
Here's what irritates my nerves the most, when a Women looks at a man as a potential mate, she's either
1. Looking for broke ass abusive dumb as shit THUG
2. Wuss with a good bank account to take care of her now that the Thugs don't want her anymore, aka used up with kids in tow!
but with a women all she needs is attraction. That's unfair.
Women put a lot more "demands" if the sex partner is going to be a male.
I can' t count how many times a women was clawing all over me but the second I didn't answer her "interrogation" correctly I got the "raped her sister/**** shield" treatment.
Also if you've been with women SO much, most don't have a friggin clue on how to please a man.
Being a single guy in A Feminazi'd society is living hell. Most women treat you like utter Shit just for being a decent human being and only respond to you if your a hard ass d*ck.
whenever I meet a Western women PERIOD, she's no go, she's either a thug luver, gold digger, entitlement queen, or so Lesbianized to the point where she's damaged goods.
Every guy who posts threads like this is bitter about it in the back of his mind, don't waste your time trying to understand it, just move on to Foreign women who haven't been Brainwashed by the Anti-Male agenda. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 2:47:22 AM | | so gay children are defective? foreign women who havent been brain washed by the anti male agenda? are you for real? and btw im pretty sure there have been perfectly straight couples who have created gay children. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 3:30:13 AM | But your forgetting that just because the parents are ok, doesn't mean a defective genome can't resurface
For example there are genetic diseases that only surface under certain conditions. and your also assuming just because the parents say they're straight, doesn't actually mean they are straight, ever hear of the term "denial" if you live in a society that demonizes Homosexuality, everyone will deny being gay and only the hard core /purest gay people will come out. Look back in time, there wasn't any "Bi-trend" going on. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 6:34:50 AM | Gee, dutchman, bitter much? Wow. I've had relationships with 3 bi women (1 knowingly, the other 2 found out the hard way), all 3 cheated on me with women, all 3 gave me the same excuse (i.e. it's no big deal, we were just having fun, it's no threat to our relationship, etc.). Yet, I don't decry them for their lifestyle or "choices" (for lack of a better word) of actions. It just wasn't for me, and I saw it as cheating and left each of them. That I've had such rotten luck with bisexual women doesn't make me think that all bisexuals are horrible---aside from the cheating with another woman, I'd have rated all of them as decent people.
Look, there have always been homo- and bi-sexual people. You're entitled to your opinion of them, but you might try telling us why the bitterness---it seems almost personal. From observing the posts of the bi-sexual women on here, I'd say there's little reason to berate all bisexuals the way you do. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 7:40:34 AM | *sigh* and we wonder why life is so damn shallow!!! (not directed at you per say, I am shaking my head at life in general)
It's only TRENDY because it's hot (or so they say). If someone is going to INTIMATELY do something to their own body out of a TREND then they are the most stupid people i have ever encountered - keep them away from me, I eat them for breakfast!!!! It's okay to TRY SOMETHING ONCE if you feel that in your desires and fantasies that it is there, but I know all too many younger women who have no inclination to be bi or lesbian - and do it to turn the guys on ... that is more to the point. Not being trendy so much as disrespecting yourself, alluding a false face, and playing with fire (as it will be with you for the rest of your life gathered with some confusion as you get older as to how you could have been so stupid in the first place) ... spoken from a TRUE bisexual woman.
If you can't play with the big girls - get the hell out of the sand box!!! I HATE THAT!!!! It's just a way to get hoidy-toidy little girls to get to be the center of attention because it turns the boys on ... makes me want to puke!!! It only takes ONE encounter to find out if this is the lifestyle for you - period. THAT is bi-curious ... and btw, it's usually done privately as the girl is UNSURE of it in the first place. If it is just two chicks rubbing, kissing and touching on each other (like in a bar with a bunch of guys all around) ... you know my answer on that one. Feels fake doesn't it? Attention seekers need all too much attrention - get real to em!!
As far as guys are concerned, i know more than one gay guy and my straight ones don't even go there - so I think your thoughts on the guy thing is your best bet :) ... stay ture to yourself bud! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 5:46:12 PM |
Sorry, Krazy Kar, but that idea is kinda out there. Impossible to be completely straight or gay/lesbian? Sorry, humans are too individual for that to be "impossible." Besides, I'm not sure anybody who's opinion is worth anything would care if somebody else thought or dreamed about such anything.
I already know that's wrong---I'm perfectly straight. To be honest, I couldn't countenance the notion of doing another guy---too many gorgeous women out there to waste my time with guys. That other guys will doesn't bother me---less competition when I'm single, LOL. I really, honestly doubt I'm the only straight person who thinks like this, and I have grave doubts that there aren't gays/lesbians who think like this their own way (i.e. gay men who wouldn't countenance the idea of being with a woman, lesbians who wouldn't countenance being with a man, etc.)
That you're full-blown bi doesn't change that fact, and it's obviously quite possible.
Best 2 U!~Nicebluiz
Saying that it is impossible to be completely straight or completely gay/lesbian does NOT mean that everyone in the world right now knows they're Bi, or thinks about it once a day.
I'm saying that at least once in our life, we've thought about it, mulled over it, etc. The fact that you've chosen to stay witht he "straight" label does not mean that you have never thought about it. Not everyone remembers or chooses to remember their thoughts on it, but everyone has. Everyone has at least .01 % bi in them.
That's all I'm saying. :) | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/11/2008 6:15:33 PM | its funny when people want to do a gay act and not want to admit they are gay.
Oh lets see they want to do it but they just don't want to be called gay .
Lets make up something oh lets see how about Bi | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:53:49 AM | How are you defining bisexual?
I tend to argue that most women are naturally bisexual whilst most men aren't. Here's my logic:
Ask most girls if they'd be okay intimately touching & kissing another girl as part of a girl/girl/guy threesome. Most will say yes. Now ask a guy if he'll give another man head as part of a guy/guy/girl threesome. He will say HELL NO!
Guys just mostly aren't wired that way. We dislike being too near another man's naked body. Women aren't like that. Even if they aren't openly 'bisexual', they still normally quite comfortable with other girls in that way. It seems a very natural thing.
Every bisexual girl I've chatted to has agreed with me that it's natural for girls to be this way, and those that aren't are often a little bit repressed in some way, and not quite honest with themselves. Although the straight ones don't agree 
So when I think of a girl as 'bisexual', I don't assume she wants to have a relationship with another girl. I assume she finds women attractive to some degree. I assume she'd be okay with a far greater level of physical intimacy with another woman than I ever could with a man.
The bisexual women I've dated generally make way better girlfriends than the straight ones, since:
1) They have no hang ups about sexuality. They're open to trying anything.
2) They've always been really chilled out people. They lack the neurotic or insecure behaviour you can get from a lot of girls.
3) They have an awesome sense of humour! Really! They never get offended, they can make jokes, and they always see the light side of things
4) They're warm, friendly, loving people. I haven't met a selfish one yet.
5) They're very open with their emotions. They can fall for someone quite quickly, but it's not out of 'neediness'
Which, looks aside, covers pretty much everything I find attractive.
But I'm sure I'll find an evil one sooner or later, then I can join the rest of the bi-bashers here | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/13/2008 1:35:23 PM | Not all woman are anything, just like not all men are...I have had woman who tried it because they wanted to please me and that is the wrong reason, I have also been with woman who love the taste, touch and feel of a woman, and also love the masculinity of a man...I think the pop thing is taking it to far, Some people are comfortable with sexuality, and open to experimentation, and have therefor tried and like or dislike a variety of things because they are open to it....Kind of like trying different vegetables, when you were a kid....I think life is a buffet, try a little of everything and see what you like....And don't be so judgmental people. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/13/2008 6:47:05 PM | | For as long as i could remember i've always been bisexual i love women but i also love men .Being bisexual doesn't mean that your just going to go around ****ing men and women it just really means you like the best of both worlds.Your attracted to men and women.But i like men more than i like women | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:35:25 PM | | The last f**k buddy I had before she fell in love with someone was bisexual and have to say our sex life was so hot. I was kind of funny when she would go out with her friends she would come over to my place so sexed up it wasn't funny. I haven't found anyone since, that was as sexual in and out of the bed. I guess insatiable would be the word to use to describe her. As far as a guy thinking that way about other guys, Sorry don't see that being normal at all. Of course I am very hetero so it does make it very hard for me to understand gay men. I guess you could say I live with a double stardard on this issue. hahaha | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:12:37 PM | well me personally, watching chicks kiss is a turn on, but i wouldnt date a bisexual period.
im not ashamed to be turned on sexually but not date one, i think its kinda nasty for a chick to actually like or one to be with another women, so naw i wouldnt even date one that has or wants to do one.i guess ive got some nasty turns ons lol. of course i think its a new trend, and there are alot of followers out there who cant get enough attention just being straight. i think a female who considers herself straight but still sleeps with another girl is wrong. if im a guy and i did do that i wouldnt be considered straight, so how does that make u straight if u do? and then most of em are hipporcrits, wouldnt date a guy who has does, or want to experiment ha. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:18:15 PM | Re post 161:
The bisexual women I've dated generally make way better girlfriends than the straight ones, since:
1) They have no hang ups about sexuality. They're open to trying anything.
2) They've always been really chilled out people. They lack the neurotic or insecure behaviour you can get from a lot of girls.
3) They have an awesome sense of humour! Really! They never get offended, they can make jokes, and they always see the light side of things
4) They're warm, friendly, loving people. I haven't met a selfish one yet.
5) They're very open with their emotions. They can fall for someone quite quickly, but it's not out of 'neediness'
As far as I know, I have never dated or was in a rel with a bi woman. So while I am in no position to argue for or against the above 5 points (I am sure they merely reflect a tendency, they are not absolute, ie I have dated straight women who had most if not all of the above 5 "elements"), they certainly do make good food for thought. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/9/2008 12:48:32 PM | | I do consider myself bisexual and yes it does seem to be a very common thing now a days for women to experiment with eachother. I think a big part of it that they believe men find it sexy so when they get drunk they often end up making out with eachother. This in no means makes them bisexual. Then there are some women who have slept with another woman but this doesn't necessarily make them bi they could just be experimenting. Being bisexual means who can see yourself with another women not just physically but emoitionally too. If you can have a real, serious relationship with another woman you are bisexual, but if your just experimenting or having drunken incidents then your most likely straight. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/9/2008 1:01:29 PM | | For most general purposes, I am totally and utterly indifferent to female bisexuality. However, if two beautiful naked girls were laying on my bed together and beckoning to me to join them, I would not be so cruel as to deprive them of my companionship. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/10/2008 12:51:18 AM | | Mmmm being a woman you can have the best of both worlds!!! yup...nothing wrong with a female being bi-sexual if ya ask me...women are BEAUTIFUL!!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/11/2008 4:35:48 AM | how can it be a trend? dont get that bit
its been around forever hasnt it?
maybe the young girls go around holding hands because they perceive it to be a turnon for the boys.thats annoying
but as far as being a trend? dont know
if youre truly bi sexual then thats a need as strong as it is to blow your nose or cough or scratch
if youre bi curious thats one step down and that need may or may not arise again
we cant help our needs and urges. we can choose to act on them or to leave them dormant
maybe what we are seeing is the more permissive modern society is allowing people to come forward and experiment and be more public about it
i am not bisexual at all
i do not enjoy a womans touch
but i do fantasize
put in my a situation with a woman -id run but i dont at all mind if someone found me attractive
( afterall, how could they not? lol jk) | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/16/2008 8:18:28 PM |
Female Bisexuality ~ just check out any night club.
The women grind on themselves while the men stare while holding a beer.
That ain't actual bisexuality, that's nothing more complicated than a couple of dumba$$es looking for.. no.. SCREAMING for male attention. ANY male attention.
Real live gay people or bi people or even straight people, for that matter are gonna do whoever it is they prefer in private. The exceptions to that being porn stars. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/16/2008 9:42:30 PM | I'm bisexual and young...been messing with woman now since i was 13...i believe every female thought about it some actually doing it..u cant knock it until u try it right? now as far as men, i cant say..i have a gay guy friend back in SC he told me he knew u like guys when he was in the 3rd grade, he dated girls even slept with 2 and still couldn't get stri8 lol  | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 3/17/2008 3:16:55 PM | | Female bi's are just hot. there isn't anything better . as for the men, well just leave the bisexuality to the women it just doesn't work for the men. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 8/4/2008 7:17:08 PM |
But your forgetting that just because the parents are ok, doesn't mean a defective genome can't resurface
This certainly seems to be true in your case.
I hate the term "bisexual", because it's so maligned, but I have slept with and do find women attractive. Meh, to each their own. I don't really care to legislate what others do in bed. | |
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