| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:12:00 PM | I'll tell you what we want sweetheart....
1. laughter(lots of it!)
2.NO CHEATING!!
3.not so much a rich man, but one that works hard for what he wants!
4.to feel needed
5.to feel wanted and desired
*** are any of these suggestions helping you?? The list could go on and on....but good luck to you in your journey to find a good woman!! | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:18:55 PM | who is really stating the facts? figure it out. and there you go being prejudice again. does it make u feel good when u slander me? whats with all the hate in here?
check it out
jealousy leads to anger anger leads to hate hate leads to fear
and fear is the fetter that binds "us" to evil
i know someone gona twist this around and try to make me look a certain way, why?
check it out
jelousy-anger-hate-fear
i dont have to say no more your insecrurities are crystal clear to me(are they to all of you?)
so i give you haters this jewel to take with you and hope u keep it
and if u understand this and what it means to be righteous definatly get in touch | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:21:25 PM | 1. laughter(lots of it!)
2.NO CHEATING!!
3.not so much a rich man, but one that works hard for what he wants!
4.to feel needed
5.to feel wanted and desired
theese seem like things u want in a relationship.
what do u want in a man? | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:29:03 PM | | Not judging you little boy, just stating the facts!!!! Youre just young and unexperienced...we understand.LOL ............................ i agree | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 6/30/2006 6:06:02 PM | I don't know about the younger women, but here's what I want...
CLEAN...clean cut, clean smell, no rotten teeth, no scraggly beard, no dirty fingernails (yes, I know you may work on cars, but when you come home, wash them with a scrub brush and Lava soap). Clean clothes, no holes. You don't have to be gorgeous, but you do have to take pride in how you look.
SMART...you can talk about current events, you can spell, you can string a sentence together. Preferably, college educated, but if not, you keep up on the news and you know what's going on in the world.
FUNNY...you have a good sense of humor that isn't based on gross sex jokes or Southpark. Clever, witty, fun to be around, you just flat out make me laugh.
HONEST...no games, no bullshit.
RELIABLE...you say you'll call and you do. You're on time. You make promises that you keep.
REALISTIC...you know that we're both not kids any more, and that I won't look like Jennifer Lopez, but you don't look like Brad Pitt, either. You accept that I'm a middle aged woman and you're a middle aged man. We all get older. Life sucks that way.
RESPONSIBLE....you pay the bills. You have a good relationship with your kids. You work hard and take pride in it. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:31:07 PM | The dating rules and list of rules have all changed since the seventies. Maybe the lists from the women above were accurate in the seventies but not anymore. Modern media has made the standards of what both sexes look for in a mate completely unobtainable in the modern era. No one is good enough for anyone anymore. The rules that men have to follow are more vague and such for women. Confusion is abound.
Let me tell you from example that I was with a woman for six years. In this period I acquired an education, a good paying job, and catered to her every need. Then I was told it was over because I did not have enough time to have fun. She told me our relationship was one of an old married couple. Now she is not happy screwing around with jerks with no money, no personality, and no sense of humor but that have all the time in the world to tell her one liners. Go figure.
You really can't win anymore. You just have to wait until you are in your late 30s when women are finally ready to settle down and have families. Youth is prolonged in our modern area until around the late 30s when women are forced to settle down do to diminishing looks. By then the men are into womanizing and going after younger more fresh looking women. No one really wins in the modern era of coupling. I hope that helps. Sad but True. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:01:02 PM | Women, Just need the security from a man to love care respect her for good or bad to be dependable... To be a one woman man... To be completely honest...
Men are pshyical and women are emotional.. Men who can show real honest emotions along with alittle romance and alittle quality time would be in good shape in my book... | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 4:43:46 AM | Why ask the question? Half the fun is finding the that right person. Both sexes know what they want in that special person. When you meet them you know it. It is not a matter of trying to determine what the other wants before we meet. Each person is an individual and has his or her own perspective on life, love, and happiness. It does not matter if they want looks, brains, braun, financial gains, or just a night of physical companionship.
What each of us determines to be the perfect man or woman is solely based on our past experiences and our dreams. Think of it as a treasure hunt, have fun in the hunt and eventually you will find the jewel you seek. Be true to yourself and then you can truely find what you want in another.
If you happen to hear something that you like then use it and learn from it. If someone says something that offends you, well sorry, but this is the USA and we all have the right to speak or minds. Just over look what offends you and you will be happier focusing on everything else.
Judge not lest ye be judged. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 6:47:15 AM | 1. Someone who is honest
2. Someone who is trustworthy
3. Someone who is faithful
4. Someone who is committed when we both come to that point
5. Someone who has a sense of humor, but also knows when to be serious
6. Someone who can carry their part of a conversation
7. Someone who has things in common with me, but also has their OWN hobbies
8. Someone who likes to cuddle, but likes their own space as well
9. Someone who likes kids - not necessarily has to have em', but likes em'
10. Someone who values hard work - I don't give a rats *ss about $$, but good work ethic means something to me.
11. Someone who gets along with part of their family (or a great reason why not)
12. Someone who has friends
13. Someone who doesn't have any illegal activities or deadly bad habits.
14. Someone who knows the balance between going out and staying home.
15. Someone who trusts me
16. Someone who knows the meaning of unconditional love
17. Someone who knows that sometimes you have to give in
18. Someone who hasn't screwed half the Northeastern coast
19. Someone who has goals
20. Someone who has some kind of beliefs.
Those are mine - give or take a few. No one is perfect, but hey, you gotta start somewhere LOL | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:48:40 AM | Romance! Adventure! Intrigue! Long Walks on the beach!
Cuddling by the fire. Romantic, candleit dinners. Slow dancing
til the break of dawn!
One that will accept her for who she is.
One that puts the toliet seat down. One that picks up after himself.
One that pitches in with the housework. One that has a great
income, great looks and accepts her children (if she has any).
One that does special things for her "just because". (This is
REALLY important. Most guys fulfill their "special day obigations" by
buying flowers and presents on birthdays, anniversaries, etc., but
she'll think you're REALLY SPECIAL if you send her flowers out of
the blue for no particular reason).
And they want a guy that a gentleman in public and a stud in
the bedroom, one that makes sure that she cums before you do.
Ok, that about does it. Now...back to reality, ladies.... | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:56:07 AM | And, after you do all that I mentioned before...odds are, she'll STILL want more, and
not leave your ass alone long enough on Sunday to watch an entire football game. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 11:32:34 AM | Sigmund Freud
Despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, I have not been able to answer... the great question that has never been answered: what does a woman want?
Now, if Freud couldn't figure it out, you expect US to?? | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:06:33 PM | Hmm maybe the answer to this is the same for women as for men.
Someone who is there for good times or bad.
Someone who realizes that the little things like leaving the toliet seat up shouldn't be allowed to destroy a relationship.
Someone who will laugh with you not at all.
Someone who knows that to make things work you both have to be willing to give, not just take.
Someone who accepts you for who you are, not who they wish you to be.
Someone who knows that spending time with your friends is just as important as spending time with you, because if you isolate each other, then your no longer who you were to begin with.
Im sure if I took the time I could state more but why bore you all. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:23:57 PM | I like what Firewolf said. Everyone has different wants and needs. Just because we've been hurt, we shouldn't paint the opposite sex with the same brush as our ex-es. Mine was a passive-agressive, lazy dreamer who always made promises he wouldn't keep. Hence, my need for somebody "reliable." It's only natural to look for in the next person what you didn't have in the relationship that failed.
Men seem to think that we women will never be satisfied. My ex used to say that about me, yet all I wanted to was to make our lives better. Better as in, "can we paint the living room?" Better as in, "our furniture is all worn out, can we think about buying something new?" or, "think we could go on vacation without your mother this summer?" Sheesh. Asking so little, yet deemed as demanding so much. And yet, if there's something GUYS want...a new truck, tools, tickets to the Phillies...then that's OK.
See, men...it's all in your perspective. We get burned out with your bullshit, too. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/11/2006 8:48:15 AM | No reason to put Johny down he has opinions, we can't put him down. noone is better then anyone. maybe he had some bad life experiences that made him think this way. I'm sorry to hear that you feel this way johny. I prey for Johny. I prey that one day a woman will love you and show you how great it is to be in love and have that person love you unconditionally. Most women aren't like that. Men that have a small package think they lose relationships because of that, well that isn't true. Perhaps you spend too much time watching pornography and comparing yourself to them. I have to what I consider a small to average sized penis and I don't care who knows it but I'll tell you this. I can pleasure a woman more than most. Here's the secret to making a woman happy and satisfied. Listen to them. Most men are complacent with women. Try and read their emotions. Women will tell you in their emotions what they want. Be their best friend. Compliment them. Give them attention. Chose them over a ball game oncein a while. You don't need money or looks just be their friend, and they will love you unconditionally for it.
For the people that did mention that noone has johny on their favorites list, Im not on any favorite lists and I dont consider myself to be any less of a man. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man? Good question!
Posted: 7/13/2006 9:20:45 AM | As long as you respect and treat each other with kindness you will have a decent relationship. That includes in and out of the bedroom. I have heard many women say they lost their respect for their husbands and boyfriends and they knew it was over before they wanted to admit it. Women will tolerate alot usually, but not lack of respect and mean spirited talk from someone they are supposed tp be able to trust. Trust is a big issue too. Of course without good hygiene and self respect it doesn't get to the first date. The biggest turn-on is self confidence. If I can feel safe with a man, that feels really good. How a man was built as far as endowments(size) was never an issue. Its always been technique and consideration for a women needs and feelings. There are some men who really love women and know how to show it!!!! lol    | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/13/2006 9:38:41 AM | I couldnt have said it better...
woman want many things from a man most of which are qualities:
strength (not physical, though that doesnt hurt!) but that which comes from the heart.
courage. I dont mean you will fight and slay dragons but that she feels she can rely on you for support in the challenges she will face and that you will face your challenges "like a man"
compassion. No i dont mean loving puppies and such more that you can empathise either with her or others in a way that demonstrates that you have a heart.
Security. Not really the physical/economic types (but again that dont hurt)..more that she knows you will do whatever is necessary to ensure the "survival" of your family.
If you have these qualities or at least aspire to them you should be alright!
Though again on a superficial level it wont hurt you to be over 6 feet tall, have a good job/car, a giant tallywacker and a great sense of humour.
And at this time of our lives..I want to be HIS HOBBY!!!!!
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/13/2006 3:19:59 PM | Honestly I couldn't deal with any giant Tallywhacker you called it,LOL!!! It would scare me off. How about a little one and alot of consideration,lol.   | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 7/13/2006 7:33:17 PM | | LMAO..@ Talliwacker...I cant take credit for that..I was reposting and agreeing with subotai...But really..I'm not afraid...lolol | |
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