| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/23/2007 6:57:01 AM | Well I think most of us want honesty. (men and women )
Any how here goes ……….
How he presents him self
How he talks to me /treats me.
Be great friends ..can make a long lasting relationship.
Communicate …Try hard not to go to bed when you no I am upset and the next day act like nothing every happened. Because I would not be able to sleep if I knew you were up set. And I would never forget something that is hurting or up setting you. You are important to me so make me feel that way to you.
Appreciat and Respect ...Treat me as you like to be treated. ( don’t forget I may have a long day too)
Trust, if you don’t have that ..what is the point.
Take time out in your day just to tell me you are thinking about me, because I would tell you. But also
Give space … I think we all need are time. but too much space is not good either.
We all need to grow. Don’t forget when I am shooting for something its to only grow w/you.
Likes to joke around and play…….I don’t want to act like a baby but I don’t want to feel old. Laughter in my life is something I need. (for the hard frustrated times)
Try hard not to go to bed when you no I am upset and the next day act like nothing every happened. Because I would not be able to sleep if I knew you were up set. And I would never forget something that is hurting or up setting you.
Don’t try and change me because I would not try and change you…if I am w/u I love you for you.
And last but not least ………..SEX….. Size to me don’t matter so my breast size should not matter to you lol…..anyway sex always gets better when you truly LOVE someone. Its what makes the hot passion burn!!!! | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/23/2007 9:00:37 AM | I'll bet at the end of the day women want just about the same things that men want
Fidelity, Support, Tenderness, Love and teamwork
Just with a little more verbal communication and attention to detail than we demand
Oh and the ability to pick up our own crusty shorts
As to the children that were being "disrespected", You all disrespected yourselves in your respective first posts. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/23/2007 12:02:49 PM | | I can't speak for other women,But I my self look for honesty,not into head games,loving,caring and compassionate,He has to be willing to comunicate well.understanding..this is a two way street.it's what is on the inside that really counts | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/25/2007 6:15:52 PM | what do women honestly want in a man?  someone that don't play head game a man that thinks of more then just sex.and a man that can hold you in his arms and say i love you thats what I want lol have one already but hey whats wrong with dreaming of the kind of man i want | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/25/2007 6:50:02 PM | Hey CC-
I found that as soon as the ink dries on the marriage license, Prince Charming turns into a frog! I finally got fed up with him always giving me warts for 22 years! | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/25/2007 8:42:37 PM | When a man knows exactly the right time to grab ahold and give you a passionate kiss...
When he knows exactly how to touch you.
When he is accountable and does what HE says he will do
When his friends describe him as a kind and gentle spirit
When you see that he is honest, intelligent and humorous
When he shows you in the simplest ways he loves you...
When he greets you with the genuine feeling, I couldn't wait to get home to you...
When the sound of his voice makes you sooo much happier than you ever remember being.
When you are having a bad day and you both can sit back and talk about it.
When all you want to do is be around each other...
When you make time for each other as well as others in caring ways
When he loves your children and helps them, as if they were his own.
When he is your best friend and supporter, when no one else is
When he helps you grow in ways you never thought possible...
When you know you feel 1/2 empty with out him ....
When he feels comfortable enough to cry in front of you.
When sex isn't the only thing that he is looking for, and making love is...
When you tell him you love him....and he doesn't run away....
That's what I want in a man.... | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/26/2007 12:35:41 PM | I found this on the internet, pretty funny, and somewhat true. So girls this is what you'll get regardless of what you want, thank God for booze , ice-cream, and trashy romance novels.
Rules To Be A Man
1. Don't call, ever.
2. If you don't like a girl, don't tell her. It's more fun to let her figure it out by herself.
3. Lie.
4. lie.
5. If you lose something that belongs to someone else, tell them you mailed it to them.
6. Here's a good pickup line, "My girlfriend's pregnant, will you go out with me?"
7. Drink Vernors.
8. Women want to hear all about YOU constantly!
9. Be as ambiguous as possible. If you don't want to answer, a nice grunt will do.
10. Always remember: You are a man. Therefore, no matter what, it isn't your fault.
11. Lie.
12. Girls find it attractive if a man has more friends than baths.
13. Never ask for help. Even if you really, really need help - don't ask.
14. Women like it when you ignore them.
15. Vanity is the most important trait for a man to have. Whenever you pass a reflective surface, check your hair, clothing, etc.
16. If you don't like a girl, but can't think of a good enough reason why, just come up with trite, meaningless explanations like, "I don't know. I just don't like her personality."
17. If, GOD FORBID, you have to talk to a girl on the phone, use only monosyllabic words and noises. Bodily noises are permissible.
18. TWO WORDS: Hack and spit.
19. Everyone finds a man more attractive if he can write his name in urine.
20. One sure way to make a girl like you is to go after her best friend. She will then see what she's missing and love you for not giving up on her.
21. Tell her you will call. Then, refer back to rule #1.
22. Say things like, "Wha...?"
23. Don't wear matching clothes. People will think your girlfriend picked it out, and it will cramp your style on picking up chicks.
24. Lie.
25. Deny everything. Everything.
26. Good break up line, "It's not you, it's me."
27. If you like a girl, tell all your female friends about her. Because if any of your female friends like you, they'll really want to know.
28. Don't have a clue.
29. If you get a clue, pretend you didn't and disregard it.
30. No means yes.
31. Yes means no.
32. Lie.
33. Make up something to lie about to stay in practice. Improvise.
34. Did I mention that you should be able to lie.
35. Feelings? What feelings?
36. Never listen.
37. Life is one big competition. If someone is better than you at anything, either pretend it's not true or kick some ass.
38. Gays are an unacceptable part of our society. Take it upon yourself to personally irradiate all of them from the planet.
39. DO NOT make decisions about relationships. If you are backed into a corner and must make a decision, stall. If you still must come up with an answer, leave yourself a loophole for escape.
40. Every sentence that anyone says can be contorted to have sexual meaning. Do so.
41. This is a good place to mention you should be able to lie.
42. Lie.
43. "Love" is not in your vocabulary. don't even think about saying it.
44. A general rule: If whatever you're doing does not satisfy you completely in 5 minutes, it's really not worth it.
45. Ditch your girlfriend. Beg and plead until you get her back. Ditch her again. Repeat cycle.
46. Lie.
47. ALWAYS apologize. NEVER mean it.
48. If you hurt someone, pretend you care. Don't.
49. Try to have a good memory, but it's OK if you forget trivial things. You know, like your girlfriend's b-day and eye color.
50. Ignorance solves problems. If you can't see them, they can't see you.
51. It is never your duty to take responsibility for your actions.
52. Blame everything on PMS.
53. Complain about not getting any mail. When people FINALLY feel sorry for you and send you mail, ignore it and continue complaining.
54. Lie.
55. Play with your food only if you are in a public place with people you don't know.
56. Automatically assume that she doesn't know a thing about cars or electrical equipment. When she finally gives in and lets you fix something, try your best to completely ruin it.
57. If people express extreme disgust at whatever you are doing, DON'T STOP! This is the desired reaction.
58. When she finally convinces you to take her to Prom, refuse to dance. Besides, you're just there to stand around and look cool, right?
59. You are male, therefore you want quality.
60. Invite your girlfriend to a Pantera concert. When she gets injured in the mosh pit, get your friend to take her to the emergency room.
61. Lie.
62. If you cheat on a girl, but no one finds out, then technically you've done nothing wrong.
63. Crying is not manly. Then again, if you are a man, what do you have to cry about, anyway?
64. If the question begins with "why," the answer is "I don't know."
65. Women are your napkins. Use them, and throw them away.
66. When she gets a cold, to cheer her up, tell her exactly how red her nose is and how bleary her eyes are. Expect her to be grateful that you're staying with her.
67. Lie.
68. Other peoples' pain is strictly for your amusement. Laugh long and loud.
69. Lie.
70. General Rule: Different is BAD.
71. If anyone asks you for a favor... make a big deal about how hard it is for you to do it, remind them of this huge favor you've done for them at least every 5 minutes for the rest of their life.
72. Plan for months ahead to finally go to that wrestling match with all your friends, on your anniversary of course, but neglect to tell your significant other until the day before. When she starts crying, offer to take her along. When she kicks you out of the house, move in with your friends and watch wrestling.
73. Lie. (true story.)
74. If a girl breaks up with you because you're in love with someone else, she has no right to be upset. Because, you know, SHE's the one who wanted to end the relationship.
75. Lie.
76. Practice grunting 5 times a day. While some may find it acceptable to grunt only before the morning coffee, the true male will only answer in monosyllabic form, except for emergencies, i.e.. when some portion of your body is on fire.
77. Never ask for directions. Ever. Even if you find yourself crossing the state line when all you wanted was to go buy some ammo.
78. Never ever show emotion. No exceptions. Including the emergency listed in Rule 1.
79. Refuse to talk about the relationship. Get uptight whenever she mentions "love" or "commitment."
80. Leave your boxers on the dining room table. Several pairs. Pretend they aren't there for as long as you can.
81. Never talk to a female, no matter how long you've known her, when you're with your friends.
82. Watch WWF Wrestling and believe it's real. Attempt to get tickets to the matches.
83. Tell your girlfriend she doesn't kiss as well as your ex.
84. Realize that your phone bill is way too high, and you couldn't possibly call any of your female friends, even if it's local.
85. Be early for everything or don't show up at all. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/26/2007 1:03:53 PM | Well if that is what you are expecting undoubtedly that is what you will recieve.
Hopefully most women would prefer something a little better. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/27/2007 8:59:29 PM | that wasn't supposed to go here...can ya tell I'm new? I like the sarcastic list of things NOT to do, but he wants to know what we DO want. If I can't be myself, quirks, and crazyness , and all, around a guy without any strange looks...he doesn't deserve me. I like this quote "If you can handle me at my worst, then you deserve my best"
unconditional and mutual love, respect, and care
most goes without saying...trust, honesty, faithfulness...blah blah
but none of it means anything if it's not unconditional and mutual | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/27/2007 9:00:15 PM | Been reading through some of the posts in this thread and just felt compelled to throw in my two cents - although it might be overvalued at that price.
This kind of reminds me of that party game where you whisper something in someone's ear and it gets passed around the room. By the time the message gets to the other side of the room, the message is entirely different.
You aren't going to get the same answer from any two people. Everyone's idea of what they want is dependent to some degree on what has happened to them in the past.
You might start out wanting honesty, but even that can be subjective. How brutally honest do you want someone to be? And is someone else's honest opinion necessarily always right? My daughter used to have a saying posted on her website, not certain where she got it, but it went like this: "To the world, you are one person; but to one person, you may be the world."
If I had spent 20 years in an abusive relationship with a confirmed alcoholic that continually lied to me and cheated on me, I think my idea of my next companion would be somewhat colored. On the other hand, if I spent a like amount of time with a slowly evolving religious fanatic who judged everything I did against her burgeoning beliefs, my preferences for my next relationship would indeed be jaded.
To some extent, most of us really cannot easily define exactly what it is we want. I'm not sure what I want for dinner tomorrow. There are people here that want someone that makes their heart skip a beat whenever they see or hear them. There are people that want someone to simply be there for them and with them. There are likely people here looking for someone to wait on them hand and foot.
I think it comes down to simply not wanting to feel so all alone. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/30/2007 2:39:19 PM | | True, How can we know what we want, when we havn't met the person yet? A partner, someone who can talk with you, not just look at you like they have no idea what you are saying. Someone with common interests to enjoy what you and they like. If you are affectionate you don't want to be with someone who never or will never be. Someone who likes your quirky side or your silly side. Someone to laugh with, enjoy what little time we have on this Earth. There is no way to really define a perfect mate, because, none of us are perfect we are just us, or I am just me. I want someone who likes to answer my calls and loves my little emails and notes. Looks in my eyes and sees my soul as I do when I look in theirs. Hmmmm I think thats enough to start. :) | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 2/3/2007 8:04:51 AM | I must say... That I am a man, who is not a player, but I found some women who are. I think we are all Old enough, to know waht we want in a partner! Right? If we are on here trying to find that someone, lets not play games with one another? It's hard enough to out our selves out their in " cyber dating "!! To have someone playing games. SO LADIES I'M DIVORCED AND LOOKING!! I NEED NO PLAYERS! JUST AN HONEST WOMEN!!! ING AROUND | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:53:06 PM | | well, i believed that was what our profiles were to contain. i have since learned that mine is somewhat autobiographical. but what i am looking for is pretty much spelled out. to find out from others.....why not just ask the individual you are interested in? am i missing something here? this is fairly new to me. ~smiles, valerie~ | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/6/2008 7:55:14 AM | Everyone has good and bad qualities and what is bad for another may be a turn on for me...I was married to a very handsome man once and he was very shallow...it was not long before I didnt see the outside at all. He left for another woman and now is going through his 4 divorce for cheeting. Money is not the answer cuz I met many women with wealthy men and they were not happy......neursurgeons have miserable wives.
I want a man with a job and who has a kind nature.
I am looking for a big guy who is affectionate and appreciates a good woman. I have a few pounds and I like it (but many men are looking for a barbie.) I am not into trying to stay skinny cuz I like to eat. I love to go to a great steakhouse and get a 14 to 16 ounce steak with a salad!
I like pick ups and cowboy hats too! yee ha! | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/6/2008 8:34:18 AM | | Some of you will think this sounds silly but what I want is to feel secure when he puts his arms around me. Knowing that what ever is wrong you will work it out together. Knowing what ever is right will only get better. | |
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| What do women honestly want in a man?
Posted: 1/6/2008 9:56:38 AM | This is an honest question. A question that has been pondered for atleast a century. Even Albert einstein does not know the answer to this. However I pretty know what makes a female tick and how complex they are. Any men, off the record, are free to ask me there questions they have a bout women.
I can't wait to see the replies I get back on this.... | |
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