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In fact......the next time you see him don't say a word......just tackle him to the ground and pummel him until he loves you!
NEVER settle for being someeone's second best!
........and just for future reference.......when MOST guys tell you that they just want to be friends......it means, stay available for me in case things don't work out with this other woman or I just want to get me some on the side!
I would just have to ask you why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you???? It doesn't make sense.....value yourself....and move on.
You have been seeing this guy and its amazing. You have alot in common and the chemistry is unbeliveable but he has met someone eles and he doesnt want to date more than one woman at a time. So now he just wants to be "friends". You really like this guy. What do you do? Suck it up and be freinds or fight for what you want?
It's amazing what guys will do when they are completely into a girl.
You, feelling that unbeliveable chemistry could just be one-sided, he obviously doesn't feel the same about you! There could be a number of reasons why he has not chosen you, who cares what they are!! Don't sweat it!! Move on with your life, there are seriously a million guys waiting in that line-up to date you...he just wasn't the one.
AND GRRL, whatever you do...don't take a call from him again!!
What is wrong with waiting around for him? A lot of people posting in this thread act as if the guy needs to chose either you or this other girl instantaneously. I have seen a million girls do the same thing. They have more than one guy that they are interested in and when they find the person that best fits with their personality/needs/wants, etc, then they stay with that person. My advice if you think there is something there then it would be worth the wait.