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Posted: 6/30/2006 5:02:52 AM | Are you insane? I've been here for a year and a half, tdhickma has been here since November. How can we be the same person? Yesterday was his first post here EVER. He had never been to the forums before.
There are people here who know me....ask bucs, leafslady and moundpuppy if they know me.
Moundpuppy lives right up the road from me and KNOWS I've been seeing tdhickma since this winter.
BTW, necosino, I also 'ASL'.
I was a vet assistant for 6 years and communicated with the deaf community when they brought their pets into the animal clinic. I translated their situation with their pet to the veterinarian. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2006 1:56:13 PM | well lets say it this way necosino i know the catt personally. she is the one that told me of pof. have been here for over a year if i am correct. now if you want to think she and the guy that you think are one in the same let me say this. I knew catt before she and Tom met. I know when they met. I have been to her home several times along with my family. I won't go into detail on the catt since that is her right to privacy. But I will say that her and TDhickMa are not one in the same. Now I don't care who believes me but I will say this. I have no reason to lie about it. Matter of fact I just finished talking to her and speaking of a POF gathering that they were trying to get together here in SC. Now I haven't had a seccessful relationship from POF but I have not tried to do so either. Most of my time is creating my own line of work I do as does the catt. Not to mention two other jobs but thats neither here nor there. I will say that she and TD are two different people. I just wonder why someone would think that because there is a successful relationship that the people would lie about it. Now I know there are those guys out there that feel rejected when a lovely lady thinks that someother guy is better looking than them but hey thats thier right to think who is for them and what they like. Just like it is us guys right to think which lady is lovely to us. not the other guy and what he thinks but what we think. now I am going to get off my soap box and leave this thread. you people have a lovely day and oh by the way Catt and TD good luck. Oh catt let me know if it goes the distance hun ok. if it does tell Tom I said congradulation as well.
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Posted: 12/10/2006 7:58:31 PM | I met the love of my life on this site.We've been together for 8 months are are really happy.
It took a very long time and a lot of heartache and disappointments to get to this point but
it was totally worth it!When he returns from Ontario we're going to be getting engaged,look
for our own place and start our life together.Thanks to POF,I've finally found the right guy
and if I can find my soulmate then everyone can.My advice is to never give up and just be
yourself.Your soulmate will love you for who you are,not for what you do,how you look,etc.
Don't give up.He/she is out there. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2006 3:36:43 PM | | After 6 years of being single with no relationships or dates during that time (I was enjoying being very single!) I got this email on my birthday and all it said was "Hi, I liked your profile" Well I wrote back and said thank you. We emailed each other every day for about 2 months, we fell in love with each other without even meeting in person. We finally met in person after 3 months online and it was like we were meant for each other. We are planning to get married in the summer. He is from Massachusetts and I am from North Carolina. Talk about bringing the North and South together!!!!! Thanks to POF I will soon be married to the love of my life. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2006 7:48:38 PM | I must say I have no responses BUT at the sametime I also must say that just like looking for the needle in the haystack the harder you look the harder it is to find but once you relax and take a step back and enjoy what it is your doing then all of a sudden it appears out of nowhere and almost gives you a shock because before you were so intently seeking only one thing the needle but once you learned how to enjoy playing in the hay then the world around you gets 10X better and always the needle appears. This is just to say that if we learn to enjoy what life offers us first then everything else will arrive without us having to struggle so hard to look for it. You from the looks of it have already started that journey just by writing this forum and responding to those who have probably asked the same question inwardly. Anyways enjoy the journey and it will take you to amazing places Later!!!  | |
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Posted: 12/11/2006 10:17:01 PM | Now I haven't had a successful relationship from POF but I have not tried to do so either.
I think the reason many people have not had as many successful relationships from this site yet is due to lack of effort. And I am a perfect example. POF is great but it isn't the largest site out there. I had good success in getting responses and lucked out on my very first ever online attempt back in mid September. I sent four emails to one site, got four responses and what ended up being a casual but very good 2 month relationship from one of them!
I also notice quite a few people searching for friendship here. Even those who purportedly seek longterm relationships often don't put enough effort into it and maybe forget for a time what their 'primary' goal is. So in short, any low success rate here I would have to attribute mainly to a lack of effort.
I started seriously making a renewed effort to meet women about a week ago. I have talked to some really cool women and have been on one date. I plan to use online dating a supplement to meeting women in real life. I really think it is best to go at it from all angles. And to make intentions clear. I am interested in a relationship and am going to date women who share that as a primary goal. Many on POF simply don't have that as a primary goal! | |
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