Is it me, or is it the women? Free Dating, Singles and Personals

Is it me, or is it the women? Posted: 3/15/2005 5:16:05 AM
I gotta ask ya dude... You say that throughout the entire 2 weeks you dated her, she used you for free parties and free drinks... If she was that intense that could allow her to milk you out of all that cash in just 2 weeks time, didn't you SEE it coming? Didn't you SEE that in her demeanour when you started dating you? Didn't alarm bells start ringing for YOU once you took her out on a date, and she DIDN'T devote all of her attention to you and ONLY you? Darlin..for as much as she is at fault here..you too share the blame in all of this (I know, who wants to hear that the one who was hurt was also responsible for how bad things got) but...for whatever reason you have, you enabled this girl to use you (maybe you didn't want to believe that this person would screw you out of money, she was so nice, she would never do that, etc) Maybe this is just a big lesson learned.