| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 3:49:59 PM | | It would appear that I was the only person who missed the "bisexuals = cheaters who must always practice unsafe sex" memo! My bad. | |
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tekrok
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Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 52 | |
| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 3:56:49 PM | Come on, unless ur into it, being #2- no pun intended.
a openly bi guy is never going to make you his number #1.
its like living with a crane that will CRASH.
Somebody will ultimatly get hurt.
wont you wonder every time you go to a Giants game what he's up to. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:00:15 PM | | The idiotic allegations that bisexual men are more likely to have STDs is a FARCE!!! Stop making up things to support your OPINION. | |
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canali
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Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 54 | |
| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:03:19 PM | well I like what Woody Allen once said,
''You know, I'm a happy heterosexual,
but if I was ever to become bisexual,
then at least my chances for getting
a date on a Saturday night would at least be doubled." 
That said, I'll happily remain a pitcher and not a catcher.
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:05:11 PM | Huh ??????????????
Hes bi. Not a closet gay. He's just as happy with you as with any guy. Sure he my abandond you for a guy. Or a girl. Same as anyone.
It's a bit like the homophobia of ten years ago. It wasn't homophobia at all. It was rape phobia. People were convinced that all the gays were rapists. Legislation didn't stop the fears. The gays themselves did. By leaving their sex lives, and their boyfreinds at home and getting on with the job. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:31:12 PM | Accoding to the World Heath Organization:
Q: How do people get infected with HIV?
A: HIV is transmitted mostly through semen and vaginal fluids during unprotected sex without the use of condoms. Globally, most cases of sexual transmission involve men and women, although in some developed countries homosexual activity remains the primary mode. Besides sexual intercourse, HIV can also be transmitted during drug injection by the sharing of needles contaminated with infected blood; by the transfusion of infected blood or blood products; and from an infected woman to her baby – before birth, during birth or just after delivery.
I think America is a developed country.
This would seem to make the statement that "bi-sexual men are more likely to have std's" more than a farce or idiotic allegation. But what do they know.
It's more idiotic to me to attack someone for their "opinion". If you don't like it fine, yours is no more valid.
JMO | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 4:35:48 PM | | JMO - Please consult the CDC for the definitive statement that there is no statistically significant difference EVER found in the US. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 5:19:26 PM | Whats so wrong with a bisexual man/men i mean people think its HOTT if a woman is bisexual/lesbian but what is the difference between men N women.........i see nothing wrong with a man if he is bisexual/gay because thats HIS life, and how he wants live it is tottaly up to him!
~Broken~ | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 5:25:05 PM | No thanks. I'm not interested. As far as I concerned, straight men are a problem already, why would I want more problems? But to each his own. If you are happy, good for you. Personally speaking, I only want bisexual/gay men as friends not as romantic/sexual interests.
~*Flavia*~ | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 5:29:20 PM | | I understand your view Flavia and yeah i can see it that way but everybody is different and to me i dont see anything wrong with being/dateing a bisexual guy or even being friends with one or liveing, with one i mean women are just as much as a problem as any man is. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 5:46:48 PM | Metabaron
The really depressing thing abouit guys like you...is that there are guys like you..... | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 5:59:21 PM | "I understand your view Flavia and yeah i can see it that way but everybody is different and to me i dont see anything wrong with being/dateing a bisexual guy or even being friends with one or liveing, with one i mean women are just as much as a problem as any man is."
Like I already stated Broken_Wings, those are MY VIEWS. I don't expect anyone to do what I do. Nor do I want to provide a rebuttal to anyone's views. Those are my views for a reason, Broken_Wings. I don't expect you to understand it, so you are better off not trying to make me understand.I won't think like you do no matter what you say or do. We are individuals for a reason and that is why we think, act and reason in different ways. I respect your opinion. I also do respect the OP's opinion. But I won't follow it.
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 6:16:23 PM | ~*Flavia*~
I'm NOT saying i want you to agree with me or see things MY way i am just stateing that NOT everybody thinks/feels same way as other and there ARE people in the REAL world that are not ***holes or abusers or, judgeing everyone on every single thing they do.........
This is how i feel and see it........
Nobody has the right to down size any one because they do NOT know how it is for the other person in REAL life and the way i see it we all make mistakes yes SOME mistakes are NOT to be forgiveing but somethings, people have done are meant to be LEFT in the past........no wonder some women on this site are single N bitter............. (NOTICE I SAID "SOME") not "ALL WOMEN"! | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 6:19:08 PM | ^^^As far as I know I did not say anything mean or hurtful against anyone on the posts that I made on this thread. So I'm not sure what you are referring to. Believe me, I usually know when I'm being mean.
~*Flavia*~ | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/11/2006 7:08:13 PM |
The really depressing thing abouit guys like you...is that there are guys like you.....
The most annoying thing about guys like you... is that there are annoying guys like you...
Really deep words there! | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 9:17:21 AM | | lets see the op posts a thread about living with a bi man, and when others on here post with real concerns about hiv/aids or the possability that a bi man will one day want another man they are automaticlly called homaphobes. this is why its impossible to discuss anything with "open minded" people...right away they want to attack and accuse opposing views as hateful....give me a break. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 2:35:31 PM | Well, if the opposing view is inherently hateful...
And I don't mean hateful in the "CRUCIFY THE GAYS!!!" kind of way...more in the "too biased to realize that bisexual people aren't MORE likely to cheat and they aren't MORE likely to spread hiv/aids (when practicing safe sex)" kind of way. 'Opposing view' is not a code word for 'ignorance.' | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 2:52:48 PM | Look - what does bi-sexual mean: it means that the person likes both men and women. Now, I'd be curious to see how this develops as I know for sure you can't change a bi-sexual person to only like men or to only like women. The concerns we expressed save a few posts were legitimate. At some point in this relationship the man will feel the need to explore his other side. If they work out some deal ok, but it's something this woman will have to deal with. And I'd say it's better to deal with it before than after it happens.
The other thing that bothers me is that although bi-sexual people are bi-sexual, they are then part homosexual and a part heterosexual. Now, how much are they hetero and how much are they homo. It is most definitely not 50-50 (ideal doesn't exist in nature), so one side will always be stronger and the side that is now strong might be weaker in the future (all people change). So you see where I am getting at, this man might one day say that he would really like to marry another man, as his homosexual side might become stronger. Or it might become weaker.
All valid. And I really would like someone to explain to me why open-minded means living with bi-sexual person.
But, here's the real deal which noone mentioned. The OP profile is still there and she is looking for a man. So it means they have worked out something in their relationship and are now looking for a third wheel. Not that's all fine and dandy, but why is this woman then not at least honest and telling interested men what she is after. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 3:22:12 PM | talking about a possible dangerous situation, but its also a double standard, if a man lives with a bi sexual woman wow hes in heaven and is dreaming about her friend if she has one
but living with a man who is bi sexual is another thing, not trying to be a sexist pig but im saying if the guy stays once and is intimate with another guy who has HIV? doesnt make for a happy ending
i dont understand men that are bi sexual? how do you decide which one to meet? hmmmm bush or di*ck? weird | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 3:35:38 PM | | Wow this thread is still going lol You dont have to be bi or gay to be at risk of getting aids/hiv. I know a lot, in fact way to many hetero's who take way too many chances. I am Bi, I am in a relationship with a man. Does he let me play? Yes. If he said no would I still do it? No. No matter what your orientation you are more likely to cheat because you want to, not because of who you are attracted to. Even if he was completely hetero he could still cheat and bring something home. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 3:48:09 PM | | With as many bisexual people in this world around, one needs to be worried about the spread of HIV/AIDS, That disease is not restricted to needle drug users or gay males only. If you have ever watched someone die from HIV/AIDS, it may change your mind about having casual sex with just anyone, man or woman. I certainly hope everyone uses protection or abstinance. Having watched my son at the tender age of 22 die from HIV/AIDS because he was bisexual is not an easy thing. Please for your sake and your families be very selective and use plenty of protection. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 4:08:55 PM | | people do not die from Aids or hiv because they are gay or bi or hetero, it is because you make poor choices, aside from those who have acquired it through no fault of their own. If you choose to use needles, if you choose to have unsafe sex, if you choose to take risks, it is a consequence of your own actions and choices. I have known 5 people in my life with Aids/hiv, 1 acquired it through blood transfusion, 1 through drug abuse, 2 females who were very promiscuous and made bad choices, hetero ones by the way and 1 who was intentionally infected by another. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 6:35:24 PM | sass: i don't know weather a bi man is more prone to cheat or not, but it seems to me that if you choose to live with a man that likes having sex with men then they will eventually give in to that urge. i've read that "safe sex" (using condoms) isn't really safe because the aids virus is smaller than the pores in the condoms, not to mention how many gay/bi men think its ok to go "bareback" because of the drug****ails that have prolonged the lives of so many.
as far as the two women scenerio goes, i'd never get into a relationship with a woman who i new was bi. yeah the fantasy is always there, but what if you fall in love only to have them kick you out of the pic...relationships are hard enough without adding that into the mix.
i had the opportunity to sleep with two girls i used to work with. one was married and moonlighted as a stripper, both were very hot (i was sleeping with the single girl). it was at our xmas party and things were getting pretty wild, anyway i came really close but i decided against it because i didn't trust the married stripper and what other types of people she had slept with. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2006 6:46:43 PM | | LOL, you're living with a "great guy" - BUT - you're looking for another, "great guy" here. (Cue in theme from The Twilight Zone) | |
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