| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 8/9/2007 6:55:23 AM | And it has been what 2 days? 6 months? 5 years?
Anyway, I once smashed an animal's skull in with a gold club until his brains were turned to pudding, then I stirred it with a spoon. I am happy today, you should try it!
@rpburnsusa
from wikipedia
""CMV, or cytomegalo virus, hepatitis is AIDS-related according to Sacramento internist Dr. Lou Nishimura. Dr. Nishimura spoke after a report by television station KRBK in Sacramento, where Miss Blake was a longtime resident, quoted her friends as saying now that her death was related to AIDS. He said that she had suffered from AIDS symptoms for about a year but that he did not know how she had contracted the disease."[2]
Miss Blake reportedly believed she was infected by her fifth husband who was reportedly bisexual. He died of the disease shortly after their marriage." | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:05:35 PM | I'm surprised how many women on this topic are bias toward bi men but would probably be completely open to a bi women. Seems like a double standard to me.
The most ignorant post was the one who assumed that all bisexual men are effeminite. LOL! You'd be surprised sometimes on the number of men who you wouldn't think in a million years would be bi but are. Using her logic, I guess I should assume all lesbian women are manly right? | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/17/2007 7:38:47 PM | I think this thread is really humorous. A few things to note:
1) Bisexual men are attracted to men & women. Nothing more than that. They like sex, like you do. They don't miss c*ck.
2) The bisexual men I met, were the most MANLY MEN YOU COULD FIND! They were very desired by women, and were greatly desired for sex and for relationships.
3) Gay men don't like bisexual men any more than straight women do.
4) There are a LOT of "straight" men who have sex with men. A gay guy I worked with, bragged how they were his favourites. He'd had sex with quite a lot of straight men.
5) A lot of married men are gay men who are in the closet, who marry a woman, and secretly have sex with other men on the side.
6) The men you have to worry about, are the men who DON'T tell you they sleep with men.
7) On the STD & HIV side, the stats on gay men, bisexual men and "other" men who have sex with men (yes, you guessed it, straight men), are all lumped together. So you cannot draw anything about bisexual men from statistics.
8) Of the one survey I did find that dealt with bisexual men:
Women are 7 times more likely to catch AIDS from an IV drug user than from a bisexual man.
See http://gateway.nlm.nih.gov/MeetingAbstracts/102182536.html
This sounds just like the people who are afraid of spiders.  | |
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j5rush
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:04:35 PM |
4) There are a LOT of "straight" men who have sex with men. A gay guy I worked with, bragged how they were his favourites. He'd had sex with quite a lot of straight men.
STAIGHT men DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT have sex with other men. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/17/2007 9:01:49 PM | | Nothing wrong with dating bisexual men. I would and i have no biggie. I once told this guy i didnt see anything wrong with gay people and even if my kid was gay i wouldnt care. He said he would disown his kid! I said i wouldnt and would love him/her the same and he disappeared. lol | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/18/2007 6:57:20 AM |
STAIGHT men DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT have sex with other men. Read this article: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=64210
Many 'Straight' Men Have Gay Sex
Nearly 10% of Self-Proclaimed 'Straight' Men Only Have Sex With Men
By Daniel DeNoon WebMD Medical News
Reviewed By Louise Chang, MD on Monday, September 18, 2006
Sept. 18, 2006 -- Nearly one in 10 men who say they're straight have sex only with other men, a New York City survey finds.
And 70% of those straight-identified men having sex with men are married.
In fact, 10% of all married men in this survey report same-sex behavior during the past year.
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The findings appear in the Sept. 19 issue of the Annals of Internal Medicine.
SOURCES: Pathela, P. Annals of Internal Medicine, Sept. 19, 2006; vol 145: pp 416-425.
© 2006 WebMD Inc. All rights reserved. I shortened the article. Read it in full. Quite an eye opener. | |
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j5rush
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/18/2007 10:52:56 AM |
Nearly 10% of Self-Proclaimed 'Straight' Men Only Have Sex With Men
Self-proclaimed straight men are like self-proclaimed nice guys.
Sept. 18, 2006 -- Nearly one in 10 men who say they're straight have sex only with other men, a New York City survey finds.
And 70% of those straight-identified men having sex with men are married.
In fact, 10% of all married men in this survey report same-sex behavior during the past year.
I could say,"I'm a choo-choo train!". The reality? By making that statement, I am either delusional or need to be medicated.
"Real" staight men DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT have sex with other men. Maybe these men who have sex with other men label themselves "straight" to ease their guilt? Who knows? If someone is gay or bi I might not like what they are doing, but I can respect their decision. I have NO respect for self-proclaimed staight men who have sex with other men. Why? Because if they would lie to themselves they would have no problem lieing to others about anything. And who can respect a liar? 
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/18/2007 11:39:41 AM | | Actually, a bi sexual man is much more likely to cheat than either a gay man, or a straight man. They are also much more likely to contract, and pass on, STDs. You won't be happy when he gives you one. He probably leaves you for other men five times a day, only you don't know it. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 5/26/2008 2:34:29 PM | | Although this thread is pretty old, since my boyfriend is bisexual felt i had to say something on this one.. And that is that although i knew he was bi before i went out with him, i did have issues surrounding his sexuality basically the same kind of questions as you i.e would i be enough for him etc and i have to say ive been with him for a year now and ive never had such a trusting relationship with anyone else as i do him. He has opened my eyes to so many things and the fact that he is bi isnt an issue for me anymore its just a shame that, maybe there are other woman out there missing out on some fantastic guys just because they are bisexual!!!! | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 5/26/2008 4:39:32 PM | You never know when his other sexuality will surface again.
Bi people tend to need sex from both sexes sooner or later. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/12/2008 7:38:28 PM | Hetrosexual sexual men, married men, and men that describe themselves as straight certainly have sex with gay men. Look in the personal ads, look on craigslist and your own towns alternative newspaper to find the married, straight acting guy seeking sex with men. In the black community the term is "on the down low"
A bisexual partner can be monogamous. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 7/22/2008 2:29:32 PM | | People who are completely straight know exactly what they are...People who are completely Gay/Lesbian also know exactly what they are whether you agree with them or not...but Bi's in general regardless what sex or those that date them with the belief changes will happen in time are mainly confused individuals that have larger hidden social problems they haven't dealt with and in the end this causes more difficulties for a couple compared to straight/Gay/Lesbian individuals.True Bi's also will never change their stripes and being monogamous is not part of their life-style/addiction when you consider all the psychological issues or why they became attracted to both males/females in the first place that has nothing to do with building solid companionships as many don't even care of the Health factors...further to this it's not a great way to live or establish anything lasting as there is always doubt as you have hinted. | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/16/2008 9:54:00 AM | | Just gotta say that you are AWESOME for sticking with him! Anyone I've come out to becomes insecure, accuses me of cheating, and a bunch of other stuff! It sucks! | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/16/2008 11:57:39 AM | In my most humble opinion:...............Bi or Straight.....a 'cheater' .... is a 'cheater'...... IF they so choose....the level and factors of the consequences of such, can't be predetermined based on one's PERCEIVED knowledge of WHO and HOW the other will ultimately behave.
A "straight" cheats with another perceived "straight"....(unknowingly to the 'cheat'... dangerously ' plays' elsewhere, in all manners of preference)....the "straight" then bringing it on home to you?
(most men I do believe have the fantasy...of watching, better yet participating with two woman)....acting on the 'fantasy' not always a hidden 'desire' being sought. As with a variety of sexual fantasy, for most.....just that a "FANTASY"
If you are living with a 'someone' who "got" there, in a cunning or distasteful manner of dishonesty, misrepresentation of themselves to you OR another, it would be "cheating."
If you knowingly played a part in their demeaning behavior, by being the receiver of their now chosen "affections and loyalty"......YOU too are accepting of such 'behaviors' and more prone to them as well. Pretense of being immune to these 'behaviors'....is dangerously ignorant.
Being "BI".......one has more option and availability, by definition.... if they so choose.
Other individuals....may indulge in areas they CHOOSE NOT to be known, continuing to openly 'identify' and be known as "straight". This applies to both male and female...in choice and behaviors.
Otherwise really.....proven TRUST worthy is and can be achieved by anyone.....no matter their chosen 'preferences' in a partner. Ultimately 'Choice' in whom you trust, with YOU, being YOUR business....may come with a larger or lessor measure of 'consequence' favorable OR not. Being with someone displaying what you might conclude as unacceptable, in the " who and what" within their character...... unfortunately...at times sadly, not always well defined in the beginning, NOT always 'favorable'.....not always without harmful consequence.
If all along the 'journey' in learning and knowing one another....mutually continues to be acceptable.....Well, that is the 'ultimate goal' isn't it?....in "partner/relationship"? AND nobody's business but your own! | |
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| Living with a Bisexual Man
Posted: 9/16/2008 12:03:34 PM | My ex carried on for 22 years plus in sexual relationships with both genders behind my back He disclosed it to me when I confronted him about his drinking behaviors, 12 years into our marriage...he must have wanted the booze more than the dudes. That was his excuse for drinking...but he never changed the behavior that was causing him to drink! I then realized after leaving him..that he had been diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder..and he would rather admit to all of this other stuff than to admit hes got a serious mental disorder. He was so good at making life look so perfect when it wasn't..and he didn't care what his behavior did to others. I hope this is not the case for you..he put me at serious risk. I wouldn't live in the shadow of another woman let alone another man.
Scorpio..I doubt seriously that all bi men are being open and honest about their sexual preference, therefore the statistics are skewed a bit. I think statistics are made to steer people into 'their" way of thinking..manipulated...after living with this man for a huge protion of my life.. and meeting his friends..its quite the network of secrets and they cover each others backs with jobs, friends,spouses ect. There is still the fear of being blackballed. Not all are open and honest... | |
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