| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 11/25/2005 8:47:18 AM | Before sleeping together: 'I've just split up with someone and I'm not ready for a relationship - I have to get the house finished first, then maybe.....'
After sleeping together: 'I'm still not ready for a relationship' | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 11/25/2005 9:18:21 AM | "Its not that I dont have good time with you when we are with other girls...I think I just want to be with girls."
Joel<----cant compete with that without major surgery | |
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Joined: 12/13/2005
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:19:17 PM | ok and honestly..
few years back but never forgotten
on a first date none the less
after what seemed to be a great date and what I thought the sparks were flying I got this line
" I had a wonderful time with you.. the best date in a long time, you are such a fun guy to be with and if you had more hair I would really like to see more of you"
that one cut like a knife.. has never been forgotten and taught me a lesson on just how shallow people can be | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:51:38 PM | | I can top all of those.... how about when she takes the engagement ring off after 7 months, and I've sold my house, and moved in with her for 4 months and says "It just isn't the right time for me to be wearing this" ??? | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/16/2005 4:50:26 PM | It was our year anniversary...he had been very busy at his office, but I surprised him with a dozen roses. Guys deserve to get flowers too you know. And I thought it would brighten his day as well. It was a Tues and we had just spent the weekend together, he had seemed a bit grumpy but everyone has their down times. That weekend was a emplyee golf tournament I planned for work on Sat and on the Sunday, we went to a work charity event. At no time when I has asked if he wanted to go to these did he decline or say I'm too busy or say I'd rather not. I just watned to get that out first.
So he finally calls me after his busy day on Tues and decides to tell me "as of today we are no longer dating". Talk about completely out of left field! No clues, no previous discussions, nothing. The three excuses he gave me were, I sent him flower at work when "i should have known he'd be too busy to appreciate them", that I had now become "too controlling" (because I planned things for us two days in a row for the first time in the year we had been together that recently past weekend) and that I wouldn't stop talking about marriage!! First of all number 1 is an extremely lame excuse. #2 some ppl say that guys dont' like having plans made for them and I should have discussed with that with him...Well hello, if it's the first time you do it in your relationship and he doesn't speak up and tell you he was uncomfortable about it, how in the world am I to know. Plus I asked him and he didn't say much aboutit. It's called communication isnt' it? and #3, 3 of his best friends got married that year and at all the wedding showers or jack and jills what question do you think all the women were asking ME? I didnt' bring the subject ever. But I always politely said " I'm not sure at the moment but I know I'd would love to marry him someday" That's not a controlling or demanding statement...I never said I AM going to marry him someday.
At the time of course I was extremely hurt, as it came completely by surprise. But I see now that he obviously had committment problems. After he broke up with me he started dating someone with in a month, and she has already broke up with and he started dating someone else. He can't be alone it seems but doesn't want to committ either.
OK I know, long winded response but hey you need the background to understand it all...LOL | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/16/2005 5:15:24 PM | | Hey Shiloh, I have a gorgeous thre carot ring, and you can make all the plans you like, and believe it or not some guys would love to get roses sent to them for once :) | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/16/2005 8:33:00 PM | My husband told me after I worked and starved to lose 35 pounds to please him.
"I don't love you. I'm only staying with you for the sake of the children." Then he went out and got drunk on New Year's Eve, came home the next day, and tossed pieces of paper on the dresser. Women's phone numbers.
I'd rather have a man tell me that he doesn't feel we would be a good match, then to have him say, "I'll call you. He doesn't." | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 5/20/2007 10:29:53 AM | "I'm taking a walk so i can think about us"
yeah he took a walk alright...straight to his married,pregnant g/f's car one month after proposing to me..then starts calling me a week later wanting to know if we can still eb friends...and WONT stop calling..wtf???..can you say stalker?? | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 12/20/2007 6:33:51 PM | Paul Simon said it best:
"There must be 50 ways to leave your lover."
We've all done it and we've all had it done to us. Life goes on. Funny thing is we say we don't like doing it to someone else but we do it anyway because we feel it's in our own best interests. We have no real concept of the pain we inflict until someone does it to us. The other thing is that no amount of discussion is going to change anything. The person being dumped isn't going to understand any better or find closure any easier if there's a big discussion about the who's and why's. The dumped person doesn't really want to understand or feel good about being dumped. They just want the chance to try to convince the other not to leave. Or even worse to find a billion reasons why the one doing the dumping is a real jerk. You can find fault until the cows come home and it won't change a damned thing. The one thing it does change is how much longer it takes you to get over it the more fault you find in the one who dumped you. The more you think about it the more you feed your pain. What you focus on expands.
I was dumped by a POF member just last week and I've dumped people as well. It's never easy and it ain't supposed to be easy. The best thing is to just leave it be and move on. Nevermind about who said what. Never mind about the best or worst breakup lines.
Make like a New Joisey wise guy and fuggetabowdet | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 4/22/2008 5:06:41 PM | Most of these were said by one Woman, the rest by a second. What gets me is all they had to do was move out rather then be cruel.
Personally I think this is the worst example. Probably because it was said to me oh so seriously like she was doing me a favor coming home with me that day. I should have stopped the car and told her to go home with him. What, was she doing me a favor having sex with me?
Posted by Downriverrose
When my husband said, just because I'm in love with her, I'm here with you and that should be good enough. It wasn't......
Posted by Lioness139
The worst one I ever heard was ITs not you its me!!!!!!!
Posted by smitten2meetu
I know I could love you, but not truly fall in love with you....duhhhh!!!! I am still laughing over that one..i plan to use that one day...
Posted by edster100
"I know you would make the perfect boyfriend, but i'm not ready for a relationship"
This is the biggest mind **** of them all!!
This one is great. It also included girlfriends, coworkers, etc. What did they know of me to make that judgement. What was she saying? I am waiting for someone to say their cat, dog, gerbil doesnt like me... Ha Ha Ha.
Posted by jenzagirl
my mother doesn't like you.
Posted by ~Songbird~
"I'm seeing someone else." haha
I said something similar. I was nasueas thinking that I was ever intimate with her.
Posted by limotheshark
OH WHOOPS sorry worst line I have heard, not worst line I have said:
"I want to kill myself for ever having spent 5 minutes of my time with you"
Basically what all these show is that the person who said them had no repect for their ex partner. And yes when I said that last line myself I had no respect for her, she killed whatever I had left for her by then. | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 4/22/2008 5:17:29 PM | | Not a line really, but seeing his new profile on here obviously searching for someone else. A bad bs breakup line would have been better than that. | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 7/10/2008 11:59:27 PM |
The worst one I ever heard was ITs not you its me!!!!!!!
Hahaha... I remember that great Seinfeld episode where a girl broke up with George Costanza using that line. His reply was priceless: 'You're giving me the "It's not you, it's me" line? I INVENTED the "It's not you, it's me" line!' Lol. So funny!
I've never had a strange breakup line, just the usual 'no chemistry'. In the case of me ex wife it was 'I'm not happy', I remember thinking at the time 'YOU'RE not happy???!!!' After I was killing myself to pay for the house and support the family. | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 7/11/2008 12:40:06 AM | | 'I have a lot of gardening to do at the weekends'.....When you become second fiddle to a pair of secateurs then baby you just know it's time to say 'You missed a bit' and move swiftly on...... | |
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| Whats the worst breakoff line you've heard?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:39:23 AM | I have only been dumped twice. The first time was because of the distance (2000+ miles), but this last time takes the cake. First of all, it was via email. I'm not going to post the entire message, but here's the breakup line:
"You are a great person and I do care for you and wish for the best for you but I
don't think I am the right person for you given all of my current issues and how I
am feeling about myself and my life."
WTF???!!! Who the h*ll breaks up with someone via email? And this is a 44yo guy who called me 2 or 3 times daily. We got along great. We had never even had so much as a disagreement!
Oh well. His loss. | |
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