| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 12:53:06 PM | | Hun? I've posted this once! I have no idea what you mean by 'posting this a bunch of times' | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 12:53:13 PM | | Hun? I've posted this once! I have no idea what you mean by 'posting this a bunch of times' | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 12:53:47 PM | | we're sick of snobby women never returning messages, thats why! if your on here, return messages, that is polite | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:00:35 PM | Wow, so many ignoramuses. There's a difference between voicing your opinion and being openly hostile. I am asking a question to seek an answer, because I DON"T KNOW THE ANSWER. Why would i post a question if I already thought I knew the answer? All I'm saying is why is it so hard to just answer the damned questions and not freak out on the person asking them. Wow, i've got better things to do than argue with a bunch of social infants. I was hoping for a DISCUSSION. Why is that so friggin hard for you people to understand????
(obviously this is not directed at those who have contributed without being snarky, regardless of your point).
Get out much?
BTW, I posted this only once. If its here more than that, and my name is one it, there's some mistake. Pick your battles people. Wow. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:00:51 PM |
I have never been on this forum thing (till yesterday). Seems to me the women take the posts seriously and offer real suggestions or replies, yet the men appear hostile. Does anyone else notice this? Do all men feel the need to attack on this thing?
I'm sorry if you thought any of my replies to your posts have been hostile in nature. That is not the way in which they were intended. I've always thought it better to speak my mind then hold my tongue, which doesn't always fit for every situation...
I'm not hostile by nature, as a matter of fact, most people who know me would probably tell you the complete opposite. Some topics just get me fired up is all. Don't get discouraged by anything which ends up in the posts, sometimes it is just meant to be fun...
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:04:40 PM | Hostile! Hostile!
What the heck do you mean hostile?!!!
Why I oughta come over there and ....oops, sorry. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 1:11:31 PM | You mean you haven't noticed all the cattiness between the women on these forums? Only this hostility by the men? You haven't looked very hard. There's many nice men and women here who offer sweet sugary advice sprinkled with "hun" or "sweetie" which makes me want to wretch everytime someone does that.
Then's there's the rest of us, sick of stupid threads started by stupid people who deserve whatever stupidity they got themselves into and are too stupid to do the right thing to fix it. The forums are full of these threads. You get tired of seeing it. I'd never seen such a collection of idiots in one place in my whole life. These people don't need cheap advice from a bunch of other idiots, they need therapy and lots of medication. Either that or a swift kick in the @ss!
It seems that if you tell someone flat out the truth on here, you get accused of being harsh or insensitive. What these people need to hear is the truth, not a bunch of sugar coated niceties even if it does appear harsh at times. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:11:45 PM | OP... You'll find more people here who are hostile than on the street, because they can hide behind the anonymity of their keyboard, however their posts follow them.
I remember a quote from Eastsideeddie on here... "Mean people are mean, nice people are nice" Pretty much says it all.
Good luck to you,
Jack
"Success is learning to deal with plan B"--author unknown | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 1:11:53 PM | Because they need to get laid. Notice, this IS a singles site....
haha I think you definately have a point there...the ones who are the most hostile aren't gettin any!!
OP. you must have hit the button a few times cos there were three threads but the others are deleted now. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:39:58 PM |
I was hoping for a DISCUSSION. Why is that so friggin hard for you people to understand????
Two of your threads you are bashing all men. Are you expecting all men to answer in agreement with you?  | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 1:42:45 PM |
Wow, so many ignoramuses. There's a difference between voicing your opinion and being openly hostile. I am asking a question to seek an answer, because I DON"T KNOW THE ANSWER. Why would i post a question if I already thought I knew the answer? All I'm saying is why is it so hard to just answer the damned questions and not freak out on the person asking them. Wow, i've got better things to do than argue with a bunch of social infants. I was hoping for a DISCUSSION. Why is that so friggin hard for you people to understand????
(obviously this is not directed at those who have contributed without being snarky, regardless of your point). - olive oyle
You seem a little hostile. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 1:58:50 PM | olive oyle
The men are NOT hostlile some MAY be but lately i've been seeing mostly WOMEN (some of them) be the ones who are hostile seems like the men on the threads acturally CARE what happends in ones life and the women, could care less. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:07:55 PM | | discussion?????? more like you came on here to say men are aggressive and hostile. thats not true at all, and i think we all get out, thank god not with you.and you can chalk that up to my hostile nature haha | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 2:09:24 PM | | I think that some are just synical and some are just rude... but most are good at heart... and when your reading it in print it can seem more harsh than it really is.... | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 2:19:59 PM | Sometimes, people thinks that not agreeing with their views is attacking them. It is not so. In fact, I think those people who looks hostile are the ones who will give you the best advice, because they are seeing your problem without the "poor you" filter. Also, some men have already exhausted their patience trying to drill some logic in some of the airheads-with-an-entitlement-sense here, so when the next one appears, they fire a volley.
Personally I have no use for some "my life is crap, all men are to blame" girlies here, and try to avoid their threads. But sometimes they become so delusional that I have to answer. And sometimes, when I use logic to point their multiple faults and contradictions, or to show them that they are the only ones to blame for their problems, I am called rude.
Perhaps a "Please post only answers in agreement" flag would be a good idea. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 2:22:42 PM | | @ Fitness bunny: How do you feel people have been quick to judge? What has been your experience since joining? | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:45:42 PM | i dont think the word attack is correct! how about the truth which is all you women post misleading profiles looking for friends/sex buddies/and much more . than when one of these poor sap's email you you dont reply or if you do it's either mean or a lie .really now how many of you really meet up with people on the site. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 3:04:31 PM | I really wish they would not allow married people on here looking for sex with like minded individuals. Yeah yeah I know. I'm a prude. Who thinks it rude, and people like this should be booooooooooooooooooooooooed.
I thank you. :P | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 4:47:49 PM | Wow, i've got better things to do than argue with a bunch of social infants. I was hoping for a DISCUSSION. Why is that so friggin hard for you people to understand????
If you truly wanted a discussion, you would have stated your question a little differently (maybe you don't realize this). Perhaps something like, "I've only been here a day, so I could be completely wrong, but I've noticed some hostility here - especially from some of the men. Has anyone else noticed this or have I just stumbled onto a few uncommon threads?" This would allow people to treat your question with respect - because you presented it with respect - and left something open for discussion. Coming on here after one day posting "Do all men feel the need to attack on this thing?" isn't a discussion question - it's a rude and unfounded presumption based on a few hours of reading this forum. It seems YOU could be the one who needs to develop some social skills. And I mean this in the nicest way. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 5:43:01 PM | Some people in general get hostile when people tell them things that they don't want to hear.
I dunno. We all want to be loved. People get frustrated when they don't feel that people love or desire them. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 5:48:00 PM | | umm, what does spacemansifter's comment about married people have to do with my post? Did I miss something here? | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 6:10:15 PM | | You're a blond. Of course you missed something. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 6:49:37 PM | "You're a blond. Of course you missed something."
That was so FUNNNNNY!!!!!
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 6:51:12 PM | Because they need to get laid. Notice, this IS a singles site....
Nail on the head, Fry. I ain't had none since Dec 98. Gotta admit I'm getting a tad cranky.
Seriously though, normally we'd be arm wrestling, cussing, throwing each other around or fighting, to show off for the ladies. Kinda hard to do that in a forum. So we just gotta tear eachother apart, like 14 year olds.
Ok I'm still not being serious. I'm trying, really I am. | |
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| Hostile men on here
Posted: 6/30/2006 6:52:37 PM | | yeah we are all bitter angry freaks and now if that's a problem for you go away and don't come back unless you have cookies !!! welcome to the forums. | |
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