| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/20/2006 4:04:09 PM | Healthy jealous twinges are natural, but if the partner is reasuring to her man and proves that HE is the one she wants ... then it disapates into being healthy.
Men who cant control jealousy are insecure ... simply put | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/20/2006 6:40:04 PM | then the girl.... burst into tears... and said "I just wanted to see if you really cared about me!!"
^^ what the heck she playin head games for...shesh...some kids dont grow up. its the behaviour of a partner....goin to the extreme with the flirting which shows NO RESPECT for how he/she feels.
insecuritites...hmm..all depends....i seen it happen over an over...some dont see a problem wiht the etreme flirting or groping another....they think its harmless..its just fun...well it isnt fun when we are hurting a loved one...maybe they should turn the table an see how it really feels cause sometimes thats what it takes for them to realize how it does hurts. i always believe...treat others exactually how you want to be treated yourself. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:36:06 PM | Everybody gets jealous. If they want to be the unique special person in their lover's life and that person is playing footsy with the bartender, hey what up? | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 2:01:00 PM | | I couldn't agree more with Eman (I think) and Greeneyezz. I've been going through this bullchit for over 3 years. Aman questioning my every move, slandering me, fabricating his own stories of what I've done and needless to say I have not done but he insists that I did. I never really thought of it in the light you mention. Some of the crap that has left his mouth has made my head spin. So in all likely hood I should've been looking at what he was doing not wondering what the hell it is I did to make him think this nonsense. Thanks guys. I will forever have this in the back of my mind. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 2:36:53 PM | If you are in a serious relationship and your partner starts to look around you should be jealous!! If you don't care about the person or the relationship then of course you could not care less let alone be jealous.
I'd like to be jealous and I'd like my partner to be jealous as long as we are together :-) | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 2:40:14 PM | | I think when it comes to picking up a partner women are much more conservative with race than men | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 4:35:11 PM | depends on the guy of course.
one guy got jealous when i masturbated myself instead of him. and also apparently flirting with other guys. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 4:39:50 PM | | Everyone is different. I got jealoous only once and thats when I saw my exs tongue down another guys throat, Lmao Was an easy solution. I just left. Jealousy is not a bad thing if you can talk about it with your partner instead of insults etc. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 4:56:23 PM |
What makes guys jealous?
Other Bulls that wonder into My pasture unannounced and with out asking... | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 5:08:58 PM | | My (very recent) ex was jealous of pretty much everything I did. He didn't like me going to lunch with other guys - even though pretty much all my colleagues are male - he didn't like hearing anything about ex-boyfriends - even in passing - just wanted to pretend I had had no life before him. He couldn't bear another guy talking to me in a bar/restaurant or finding me attractive (Itold him he should be flattered). So guess from all the other posts it must depend on the guy. Me personally, I don't really get jealous, so just couldn't understand where he was coming from....guess that might be why he's now an ex...... | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 6:44:01 PM | | I agree with Greeneyezz.....overly jealous = control freak....been there done that...kicked him to the curb !!! | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:12:16 PM | | women are more prone to becoming jealous. i was dumped recently so i guess i kind of envy couples in a way. it's kind of dumb i know but anyone that has a relationship usually takes it for granted when others like myself haven't had half the experiences as the next person. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:09:21 PM | Men get jealous.....women get jealous.....neither one is "more prone" to
jealousy and neither one gets "more jealous" than the other. I've known
both sexes who are over the top jealous and let it run their lives.
I think we all feel it when given a reason to.......in my opinion, if there's
a reason to be jealous there's a problem, discuss it and solve the problem
or move on. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/16/2006 8:51:06 PM | Lets see...
Basically, anything that involves interaction with another male where I am not there and could have been. It's the uncertainty that bothers me, especially when you're just getting to know each other. If the guy shes out with is a close friend of ours, or someone she's known a couple years then I'm perfectly fine with it. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/16/2006 8:58:33 PM | | Past experience.............when she drives a hotter and faster car than he does... when she gets a birdie her first time out on a golf course.... when she winks at his friend... it was a friggin joke o.k....sheesh!! | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:12:23 PM | | I just talk and hes jealouse,its a low self esteem,i can chat but he is still the most important person in my life.If it doesnt stop then i have to let go.If i cant let him know he is my world then what else can i do. | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:20:19 PM | redd
I had the Exact same in my now ex wife THE EXACT SAME THING!
harr the capn' aint alone in his distrust for control freaks
the capn' | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:41:05 PM | OP.....I think there are two kinds of jealousy
One is when you feel like you may lose someone you really care about ..which is somewhat good ....and the other is where you're pissed off because the girl you're with is making you look like a loser ....which is bad .
I've never been too much the jealous type.....but I think being a bit jealous would be not so bad... because it means you've got something real ....but never to the psycho jealous point...if this happens you might want to get a "check up".... LOL | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/17/2006 2:26:20 AM | complicated one : to put in Bad spelling and grammar terms and all HA! So im warning you now..
what makes us jealous ??
For starters..to skim the topic: Being your smiling, naturally sweet , caring, good natured, chatty, humorous, attentive, affectionate self with other guys in any way shape or form what so ever. We have secret ploys to win your heart or get into your pants with our stupid jokes, conversations whatever, seemingly innocent questions, concerns, gentlemanly gestures etc. all to impress you ( So we think). And we can smell a mile away, another guys frikin ploys and subtle pick up lines. That YOU don get.
We do. Because we KNOW.
That means any good looking guy, what so ever, that talks to you, and you so much as even smile , laugh, touch, or pay attantion to , or acknowledge in anyway. We really deep down - dont like it. .We may not always show it. We may even smile joke, be cool. But deep down. No.
We want you to have all female friends because we think ALL the friends that you have that are male..wanna F.uck you. Just Like we do. The horn dogs that we are.
We know because WE do and think about that with every other hot chick within a 2 - 300 foot radius. Which makes it worse.
So if you laugh at another guys jokes, hold eye conact for more than 2.0945 seconds. even LOOK in is direction. We'll notice. Like radar.
He's looking out before you do. Especailly when he's not Sure how you feel for him. Or you're not the expressive type. In such cases you'd need to be very complimentive, reassuring, loving, etc to SHOW him that he' s the one.
If you're on a bus or something like that for example, and so much as even turn your head sideways to scratch your earings, while coincidently the guy sitting beside you is a hunk..he'll (your jeaulous boyfriend/husband) will most likely notice alright, and may become cold, silent, mean, tired, serious, impatient. all signs he's in is head and his sharp radar has worked overtime. He's jealous. So then he'll get even by trying to flirt with the waitress. Your friend. A female stranger. Or may even take it further and go for the "Revenge ****" with one of Your friends, or maybe sister, or Aunt - whatever. etc. If he feels it's a worth cause. And you hurt him , maybe unbeknownst to you. Payback time. So he may caculate. Later to regret it
Why? Many reasons; Fear of loosing you and his manlyhood .insecurity..sexual incompetance, ego, low self esteem..vivid imaginations....over analysis..plus we validate our whole existense pretty well on how YOU rate us according to YOUR needs and wants, expectations, rather than what we really want to do, be, have, etc. Stuff like that in general. So my male freinds may agree in unicen. But not ALL are like that. Some guys dont mind...even wanna watch othger guys have sex with their wife., Now THAT..I dont get ,,and never will. So the list goes on. But I dont feel like typing too much. Answer any questions? | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/17/2006 2:45:29 AM | msg 75 ^
Everything you typed there is true ....when you're with someone you're not secure with.
But if you know what you have is real ...it's very exagerated.
By the way ....if it was always like you described... wouldn't you get ulcers and die? | |
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/17/2006 3:00:33 AM | I dont beleive they would be a guy if they didnt LOOK. I LOOK myself. Doesnt mean i would touch or would they 
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| What makes guys jealous?
Posted: 9/19/2006 8:17:13 PM | RE: msg 75 ^
For the most part, that is all true, however those who become that jealous should remember that if you want to be shown or reassured love and that you're the only one she wants, you should show the same in return rather than becoming irrational or angry about the situation. Talking about it is good because clearly men and women see things differently, there's no denying that. Where women may see it as okay to be "friends" with a guy, it is very true that about 95% of men (my own statistics that I just made up lol) are "friends" in return in hopes of it turning into something more. When we are constantly reassurred of our partners love and shown it in every way possible, there should be no denying or questionable feelings for one another. If you aren't comfortable with the way someone is around other people and feel you can't trust them, then you should find someone that understands how you feel and will respect and acknowledge your feelings by being aware of what and why you fear the situation. (This goes for both men and women..hope I didn't seem overly one sided there) | |
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