mogrl
| | Joined: 5/29/2005
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/2/2006 10:49:41 AM | | Well, I guess it all depends on what people are looking for and their previous experiences. Looks can be very deceiving for one and I believe that way too many people are now so shallow and only foccus on this. No wonder the rate of failure is so great. This being a cause among many others. I lady recently messaged me. She stated that she messaged many men who stated they only wanted friendship. Yet, they asked a pic and once they saw it, they blocked her! I was the only one so far to keep chatting with her and no, I don't care what she looks like. This trigger another question. Is physical attraction a must for friendship only? | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/2/2006 11:46:34 AM | this is another of those reduntant posts, I/E: i got bit by a golden retriever -why do golden retrievers bite people?
sounds like he is a shallow person, but what did he do that wasn't polite? -ok fading away without any more contact wasnt nice, but i dont think its rude. -he could have come back with a mean comment like: "ewwwwww, your ugly, thanks for wasting my time -c-ya"
if your friend had posted a pic on her profile, the whole situation probibly could have been avoided.
women do the disappearing thing too. probibly more than men, since there are more than twice as much men on this site, women have more to choose from here. | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/2/2006 2:57:22 PM | | there has to be an attraction or it won't work.. if thier picture turns you off,, at least say something,, don't be a wussey all your life..i personally like a decent facial picture,,,, but what cuts it with me is a good butt...which i don't get to see till the meeting,,then what do i do???????? ron..... | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/2/2006 3:16:34 PM | | I talked to a man on line this morning for about 10 minutes, and although nothing he did or said really impressed me, i decided to ask for his photo ,which he emailed me. Well, i was sorry to tell him i didnt feel the connection that i am looking for. I told him it was nothing personal , just a preference and i wished him luck in his search. He then sent me the nastiest email, calling me names, and basically saying " how dare you'? What else could i have said? What else could i have done? He just wasnt my type. Should i be sorry for that? | |
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MISS13
| | Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 38 | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/2/2006 7:54:27 PM | | I've done the same thing. I don't feel bad about it, and I don't think anyone else should either. I've done the "honest" thing and said you arent my type, blah, blah, blah and some people have gotten angry or argumentative. Plus I think it hurts someone more if you just say they are ugly. Honesty isnt the best policy when it hurts peoples feelings. | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/3/2006 6:15:08 AM | bloke?
anyways, I did it once. but not exactly the way you described. I slowly broke off contact over a week. I did it for two reasons - I was not attracted to her one bit - and she had lied about other things.
she told me, for example, that she worked full time, but "blurted" out that she only works part time later on, then tried to say that she's "down to part time for a few weeks". as for the pic, she told me that she was "average" weight, adding she was on the "large" side of average. When she sent her pic though it revealed the truth - she was a BBW. not just that, she was a BBBW. she told me after that she was nearly 400lbs. she was shocked that I did not stop talking to her instantly (said other guys did that right away usually) and then, basacally, told me she wanted to have sex with me. talk about desperate! it was all too much for me so I just starting ignoring her after too long. | |
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sally1
| | Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 47 | |
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| You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:57:25 PM | Superficial as it sounds....if you don't like the way a person looks then you are most likely never going to pursue a relationship. It's been said a million times on here....we are visual creatures and from experience you can talk for months but when you see a photo and you don't find that person physically attractive......something happens and its not usually good.
I learned long ago....post a photo....if a guy donsen't like the way you look....don't bother with him....wait for one who does........it will save a ton of heartache! | |
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