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 amazing80s
Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 101
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?Page 5 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

Often times being that we are sitting behind a computer screen... rejection causes people to lash out like they never would in real life...

Many many times I have said "sorry not interested" to have an slew of disgusting insults thrown in my sudden direction...


Yeah, that's kind of the sad part... if it wasn't so scary to be honest people wouldn't get ignored like the OP is talking about. You can only hope that someone finds an easy way to say no-thanks. Anyone that can't take that kind of simple, honest rejection needs to build they're own confidence a little. Even being turned down, if you don't give up, can build character. If the person rejecting you isn't a total goof about it.

There's all kinds of reasons to be or not be attracted to someone. Everyone has a slightly diff. opinion. I personally like a lady that looks sweet, kind.

Body image plays a part for most people too. I don't have a problem with that either. Even knowing that with my size I'll have a few strikes against me from the start. But I'm gonna lose the weight one day,and when I do,I'm gonna remember who y 'all were
mmmmmhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm.
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 coruja
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 102
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/17/2006 5:45:59 PM
I'll admit, I've done it, though on another site, not this one. I didn't feel particularly good about it, but couldn't think of anything positive to tell that person. Would "sorry but having seen you I don't fancy you" have helped them? I don't think so. I could've lied, but I won't do that. Maybe silence was the cowards way out, or maybe it's really the lesser of two evils? If you're confident and brave enough to post a pic, then it won't happen. That's what I do, and I suggest your friend does the same.
 BB Man
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 103
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/19/2006 10:01:25 PM
Hey "Only Friends", I'd love to share my love handles and witty conversations with you! If you weren't such a younster, that is!
 Prudance
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 104
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 8/15/2006 10:58:22 AM
We can't all apeal to everyone, that's what makes us unique......
 mrflynn
Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 105
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 8/15/2006 12:04:09 PM
Well, I was on Friends Reunited Dating last year, and the same thing happened to me. The moment she saw my photo she split, and was very aggressive when I challenged her on it.

Its no use complaining about blokes behaviour when many of you women do exactly the same things yourselves, alright I'm not Brad Pitt but I still have a heart and I still need companionship - so all this stuff about hunks, and muscles, and 'must be solvent' (which rules me out seeing as I'm a student) - its just crap

The reason why many women don't find decent blokes, is basically because in your eyes decent blokes are boring.

So what was all that stuff about equality then? We're having to do the same old shitty hero thing in order to attract a mate

Grrr!

Robin
 Realism320
Joined: 4/12/2012
Msg: 106
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 6/16/2012 5:00:40 PM
while it is good to post a up to date photo of yourself

It would also be good to actually look nice in it and most men don't put down no specific type there just hoping a model will fall in there lap same with women
Some women on here are just hoping for unreachable dreams on here

If your trying to score a date on a website what makes you think you will score a great man off

If you look on here long enough you have to ask why are some of these people single or why are they even here
simple they are here to play games

Women will start a conversation and disapear like then wind with or without pics and i narrow it down to there either hiding something or there just there to kill time

I pretty much look at this site is for people to waste time at work on on breaks just to see what they can land with a glamour shot
 Newport_Beach_Boy
Joined: 6/5/2012
Msg: 107
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 6/16/2012 5:31:34 PM
I don't do that. I live in one of the most plastic towns in America. Personality and depth trump looks any day.
 MT_Breez
Joined: 5/9/2012
Msg: 108
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 6/16/2012 6:20:28 PM
This has happened to me more than onece here. you take interest in someone, malle or female, and they don't even have the common nerve to say "no thanx, not interested" or worse, as I HAVE found here...the idiots are looking for one thing, and that's all. PLEASE.....that's not "looking for an honest" relationship...lol People online can be very superficial and phoney. Good Luck!!
 loveItaly7619
Joined: 7/5/2012
Msg: 109
You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/11/2012 6:53:37 AM
This happens to me all the time. Women like my profile but as soon as they see what I look like they stop responding. Very frustrating.
 firefly416
Joined: 1/27/2009
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You see her picture, you dont like and you ignore, she's upset ..why do men do this ?
Posted: 7/13/2012 12:48:13 PM
I have 8 photos of me on here and never respond at all to anyone without pictures. I am a little bit (30 pounds) overweight and would much prefer to be rejected by someone at their computer than in person! And I will not go out with anyone at all unless I think I could stand to look at them through dinner.
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