| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/3/2006 5:37:48 PM | | I'm a guy over 30, in the Washington DC area. If you are a U.S. Citizen, you are welcome to move here! You ever see the movie "The Shipping News"? | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/3/2006 5:56:29 PM | Guys over 30 are everywhere. Maybe most of them are like me , working and trying to keep busy so the lonliness doesn't set in. If by chance there was a beautiful lady that wanted to take me away from my work for a few days and/or spend time with me after work, by all means send me a message. I am right here  | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 12:03:19 AM | Well I hope there are some out West where I am living now.
I am looking for someone who is not divorced, cheating online on their SO or wants just plain sex. Not bitter though, just stating the facts. | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 10:45:01 AM | | i am over 30 and i feal that we men at 30 plus seem to get left out alot becuse of our age i am an honest hard working dad that cares for his kids alot. I am devorcied but that always seems to be a problem for me with dateing . most girls do not want to date a divorced dad with kids . Why? | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 10:55:11 AM | Yes we are out there, hell nice guys too even....
I am in ottawa and i find it to be the hardest place to meet anyone everyone is always on edge say hi and its like whatcha want eh???? lol
well good luck and well if your in ottawa
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 11:10:50 AM | Yeah guys 30+ exist - I'm one of them. Welcome to the enlightened side of the hill. I hope you enjoy your stay  | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 3:38:44 PM | | Apparently they do exist, just not within dating distance! Middle of Nowhere BC, Eastern Canada, the US and Across the pond in England *sighs* | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 6:20:21 PM | Grocery store is perfect.. 9 times out of 10.. if a guy is at the grocery store by himself.. he's single..lol.. join some sports.. slowpitch, volleyball or something where they'll be single guys at.. I know what you mean.. bars are all 19 yr old kids here too..
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/4/2006 11:47:23 PM | Darkonhappy wrote....
[am over 30 and i feal that we men at 30 plus seem to get left out alot becuse of our age i am an honest hard working dad that cares for his kids alot. I am devorcied but that always seems to be a problem for me with dateing . most girls do not want to date a divorced dad with kids . Why?]
Uhhh, maybe its because you cant spell and they think you're dumb??
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/5/2006 6:59:05 AM | | wow, ok, I met a guy on here. He IM'd me, asked if I had a picture (which was obviously on my profile)...we chatted for maybe 2 minutes and then he says we should meet this week! Mind you, the guy didn't know what I even looked like, what my personality was like, anything. I simply closed out the conversation. What the hell?? | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/5/2006 9:02:50 AM | Oh yes, we exist alright.
Some guys are out there pretending not to be 30+ and acting more like 18 year olds by attempting to pull anything that moves.
There are some of us, who are trying to get over a failed relationship or two and are dealing with the family issues that go with that.
Oh dear, now i'm sounding like I am well over 45 (no offence to anyone in the age bracket!!).
I guess on second thoughts, perhaps they don't exist after all!!! | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/5/2006 10:53:24 AM | | I have the same problem with woman! All the attractive woman 25+ that want me are married or somewhere where I can't find them. | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/5/2006 4:22:44 PM | | Yes, they are out there.I met someone on here who was 45.He was great looking he was a great friend,all I couldve hoped for.But it really doesnt depend on their age,although I too find myself looking toward the ones older than me.The guy I met totally took care of himself and had a great head on his shoulders,then again, Ive met some 30 year olds who seemed like they were ready for the retirement home!The one I met, definitely kept me feeling young but I do agree, they are rare. | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/5/2006 4:56:59 PM | there must be a shortage in some areas , what lve noticed is, there are more men on the aussie part of pof. than women ,so if ladys, would like to relocate lolol,give some of us aussies a message. there are quite a few over 30s  | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/6/2006 6:17:24 PM | | Come here to Petawawa. There are a ton of Newfie's here in the military. Some of the 30+ are still single. Get them while they're hot! | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/6/2006 11:54:10 PM | as a 33 y.o aussie guy , i find that most women are already married , i have never been married , and now i have women in their late 30's wanting the toy boy , as they have done the marrige and kids thing and want to finally have fun
in answer to your post about the guy wanting to meet after only 2 minuntes.. your pics are quite good , very attractive.. he prolly only wants one thing..
bars/clubs/pubs are definitely out when wanting to meet people.. you only go there to get sloshed or be with friends.. not a good place in my books to meet a possible long term relationship.. online dating sites ( like this one ) are getting very popular with the aging population , and i find that chat rooms are also a good meeting ground.. i used to use yahoo chat , in my local brisbane rooms , but most of the occupants there only wanted chat , and if they wanted sex , you had to be a fabio looking guy , with a big wallet.. shopping centres/supermarkets are always full of single guys ( like mentioned earlier about man shopping for 1 = single ) and it doesnt hurt to go up and strike a conversation.. the chances of a "bugger off" from a nice male is pretty slim Happy hunting | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/7/2006 12:08:23 AM | Over 30 no kids, never married, i think that scares women a little bit. I love kids, dont mind women with kids......not picky, but im a waiter think that scares women, not giving the Oh is me speech, just putting what i think.....all this and i still date away, dating.....SO much fun!!!!!lol.....
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/7/2006 2:12:03 PM | Us 30 and overs are out there It was mentioned in an earlier thread and 30+ is a kinda in-between age for guys as you are either married around that age or divorced for the "first time"...second or third time for some. Also I think guys are a little more mature (at least they should be) by 30+ so they aren't as aggressive in regards to going out an meeting woman as compared to the teenage and early twenties. They usually have a little more respect for woman by that time....so they probably are not as apparent or make themselves as visible. In my case, my age shoots me in the foot everytime. I look way younger than I am...so woman circa my age (which I prefer) think I am in my early 30's and feel weird about how we look together. Then the younger woman are after me left and right but then they find out my true age and they seem a bit taken aback. So I kinda just stay to myself and let romance/friendships happen as I find it hard to get a grasp on the relationship situation at this age. I do say the best advice for a woman seeking a 30+ man is: If interested, give him a sign/clue. And if he is smart and you are his type.....possibly another Plenty Fish succcess story in the making  | |
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| hi Posted: 7/7/2006 2:44:28 PM | | hi hun im andy im a 43 yr old.im a long distance lorry driver love nites in/out just wanna know would you like a chat hun | |
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| Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/7/2006 4:55:22 PM | Guys over thrity.. theres lots of them. Problem is that women want gentlemen without kids or never married or have this or that. I understand we all have our personal preferences but dont claim guys over 30 are not out there, we are.
So ladies... just fyi... Im over 30.
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