| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:15:20 PM | | gotta add another thing, while i do love the guy being aggressive with me, until i trust him, he can NOT hold down my arms, i was almost raped once, and my ex first time we had sex he held down my arms, and i couldnt handle it, so i love aggression long as i trust the guy | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:16:36 PM | i think itd be fun to be tied up tho, with someone i trust, give up total control....and vice versa..tie the guy up, blind fold him, and have my way with him | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:19:05 PM | | That's true, trust is a huge thing when you play ruff. I heard an urban legend about a guy who went home with this chick, and she asked if she could handcuff him to the bed. After he was restrained, she said, Ok, he's ready, and some guy in a batman mask sodomized him. I'd definately have to know the person really well before I let them "play" | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:21:58 PM | so 7 hours eh? hehehe
ya..definatly gotta have trust...he freaked when i freaked out just cause the almost rape thing was way to fresh of a memory...but long as you know whats ok, and whats not ok, bring on the whips chains handcuffs, toys etc | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:36:14 PM | | And leather, don't forget the leather, nipple clips are where I draw the line Somebody tried to pinch 'em off once, thought it was "sexy" not | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:39:51 PM | That's what I tried to tell her, but she was hell bent on taking 'em home. I think I've still got a little scar tissue, they're not as sensitive as they used to be  | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 5:58:58 PM | voooooooooooooodkaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
ohhh or long island ice teas lol
i got way hammered on them one nite had like 3..usually 2 beers and im drunk...well have them 3 long island teas,i was walking REAL funny the next day hehe | |
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silken
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 3/31/2005 10:47:55 PM | I prefer aggressive but I always seem to meet up with the passive ones so I'm still waiting for a caveman. ;) hehe
I also have to say I LOVE play wrestling (as long as I lose in the end ;) ) but it seems most men I meet are not very playful and that's too bad. ;)
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 4/6/2005 8:29:32 AM | It works if you want it to work.
I make my partner fight for his control, if he wants it, then he's going to have to take it - not expect that I give it to him on a silver platter with my eyes cast downward uttering master. If he wants it, he has to BE it, not just proclaim himself the boss and expect me to readily agree. Then, he enjoys the fight to dominate as much as I do. Sometimes I do top, and I send him to outer space. Other times whoever is leading at the time is whoever is struck by the urge to do - and both of us can certainly "be the boss" during one session, or scene if you prefer. Other times, I'd just as soon lie back and let him do all the work, and other times he would rather do that, and therefore it is that way.
People are often far too ready to lock themselves into one role that they are missing a world and wealth of experience and pleasure in other areas. It's a shame really, all those bdsm people thinking that they are better than all those vanilla people, all the while sticking limits on everything - especially their roles. Silly. | |
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Posted: 4/6/2005 8:33:48 AM | It is fun both ways, you just need to feel safe with the person.
If one is secure, and has the smarts to pick a safe word to use to stop everything instantly before hand the sky is the limit.
You have to respect the person, and know what you are doing at all times. | |
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| Who Loves Aggressive Partners
Posted: 4/7/2005 12:53:55 AM | | oh humbug, prop her a*** in the air, her face in the pillow and tell her to hold on it's going to be a rough night! lmao! | |
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