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 Bryantinfl

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 9/28/2006 7:51:14 AM
nipoleon is right! So right that it bears repeating - twice!


Sorry my dear but I'm going to let you in on the secret of men.
To men, WORDS MEAN NOTHING ! ACTIONS MEAN EVERYTHING !
A man doesn't LOVE you unless he ACTS like he loves you.
A man can tell you anything, I mean ANYTHING, and it's all meaningless unless he backs it up with deeds.
It works the opposite way as well.
You can tell a man you love him, but he won't believe it unless you act like it.



Sorry my dear but I'm going to let you in on the secret of men.
To men, WORDS MEAN NOTHING ! ACTIONS MEAN EVERYTHING !
A man doesn't LOVE you unless he ACTS like he loves you.
A man can tell you anything, I mean ANYTHING, and it's all meaningless unless he backs it up with deeds.
It works the opposite way as well.
You can tell a man you love him, but he won't believe it unless you act like it.
 bikerbabii

Joined: 8/5/2006
Msg: 26
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Posted: 9/28/2006 8:59:45 AM
pisces

You say he said he loves you. You haven't even met........

You say you love him. You haven't even met..........

I'm sorry but I think you need to wake up and realize what a lot of people are doing on internet sites these days. I suggest you browse the forums and read similar postings.

You can't fall in love with someone you've never met. That should have been a clue for you but I can see why it wasn't since you obvsiously think you can.

And for the sake of argument, say you had met and had established a relationship and were in love.....if doing what he is doing is harmless fun, I think both of you have a warped idea of what fun is. Fun is NOT being disrespectful to a person you say you love. Fun is NOT staying on a DATING site and have "fun" with other women. It's disrespectful to them as well.

For some of us a DATING site is about finding someone to date. We take it quite seriously.
I whish people who think that their harmless FUN is acceptable would take it somewhere else.

Sorry but you need a dose of reality. This guy is only messing around.

Read throught posts here and wake up to reality.
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/28/2006 9:05:44 AM
Anyone that falls in love with "someone" on this screen in front of us is probably not ready for love in the real world. Just say no to irrational, deluded expectation. Good luck pisces.
 passionfly

Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/28/2006 4:28:00 PM

I laugh at those stupid girls that fall in love online...

Im sick tired of people over using:

"I love you..."

I hate it, people are saying it everywhere to everyone...

You just have one heart, just wait and love only once for the right person.


Brilliant post! I feel the same way. Don't listen to what a guy SAYS, watch what he DOES. This will be more insightful for you.
 worloc

Joined: 10/6/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 10/18/2006 11:54:15 PM
hey aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh
why did you stop so soon cause now your askin questions , that would have answered themselves.......
go with your gut im no expert....
 Subotai

Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 10/19/2006 8:31:19 AM
okay this is both simple and difficult...love is not a word.

Yes we use it as a word like "i love chocolate"..

When a man tells you "i love you"..take it like the chocolate expression above.

Love is a feeling, an emotion a way that we treat each other..

If you dont feel love then it doesnt matter what someone says...

you say he said "i love you" but everything you describe is pretty far from love.

Wait until you feel it and just smile when someone tells you they "love you"..cause more often then not they mean it in the way:

"i love chocolate".
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