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Posted: 8/24/2006 4:17:32 AM | Aren't you a arrogant jerk. I can't say I would even look twice at you if you passed me in the street. I have never heard a man write so much about himself, someone should pop your head it's getting pretty inflated . You certainly aren't any ken doll ..... that is for sure.
By the sounds of it you have a serious drinking problem . You must be one sad soul to have to brag about yourself so much , I guess you must have been excited when you re read your profile. I can honestly say , you are not much to look at and I think many woman would agree with me.The fact that you have been alone for 4 years should tell you something. It sounds like you are fishing way out of your league. You have to face the fact you aren't the most handsome fish in the sea. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 10:57:54 PM |
Hmmmm is it a teenie weenie issue or is it that you just have this false image of yourself. I certainly wouldn't take a second glance of you.Heck I dont' make my second home a bar either.
False image of myself?...Well at least there is a picture of me on here....or is that just what you look like in the morning? Don't want these poor guys to be overwhelmed with fear eh? Second glance, you obviously took one since you had the time to read over my profile...and as for the "drinking pics", as you can see, they're at the same place, a wedding in fact...remember those, back in the day, oh wait, you must remember yours..happiest day off your like i bet......i'm assuming he got sick of you too..anyway, i'm done with you...good luck on here, must suck having high hopes, have you relaized its almost too late...better settle soon | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 9:24:00 AM | | Depends what kind of individual you are. Lot's of us men go out with that on our mind for sure. The women who attract me the most have a bit of class and self-worth. I like to think it means something, and having a long-term relationship with a "loose" woman does not appeal to me-I would have lost some respect for her. I do realize we are all searching for different things. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 9:54:00 AM | | Not until I've seen her house, car, 401k and Roth IRA balances. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2006 10:05:48 AM | | Where are these women? And what kind of restaurants do they like? | |
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Posted: 8/26/2006 4:10:18 AM | | As far as not posting a picture.......hmmmmmm I don't need to brag about my looks. I am out of your league and I only send pictures to those who interest me.Those who brag about themselves make me want to vomit especially when they aren't anything to look at. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.As I said before , you must have a real false image about yourself. I actually feel sorry for you because it sounds like you are the one with high hopes . I don't need to settle with anything or anyone .And for your information I am the one that ended my marriage and he was the one crying at my feet.I did have to read your profile 2 times because I couldn't believe what I was reading. At least I was married , owned my own home a great job at the age of 29. Not only do you spend your nights in a bar trying to get laid , your on here looking for the same. Now who is the sad case here? I would say if you looked in the mirror you would know the answer to that question. Good luck to you and watch out to those women you have on your hook. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2006 8:18:53 AM | | A little piece of advice, Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo!!! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2006 11:00:11 AM | | Most guys like the idea of sex on a first date... but get right down to it they are thinking " do I want to take this home to mom if she is this easy" Sex by far is not a bad thing but , I would suggest to put up a little bit more of a fight. It makes it more interesting and more memorable. We tend to remember the struggle and acheivement more than the actual sex itself. | |
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Posted: 8/27/2006 11:50:06 AM | It depends on the girl.
The bottom line is that AT BEST you break even and he doesn't think less of you for it... or, more likely, you hurt your long term chances with him. Hardly any men out there (I'm sure there are some) are going to think more highly of you for it.
Why? Because even a girl who's a "3" has a million more offers for sex than an equivalently attractive guy. Most guys want to date a girl they can trust not to cheat on them, and it's a lot harder to earn that trust if you slept with him on the first date. We're smart enough to know we're not special... we're not the first guys that have wanted to have sex with you.
If you don't want a relationship, go ahead I guess, but keep in mind that "upping your sleep count" isn't making you more attractive to most men. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 8:12:32 PM | | I have a question....why is it we never ask what women would think of a guy that would sleep with us on a first date? | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 8:54:53 PM | Us men have you women preconditioned a certain way, and we like to keep it that way.
But if you look at it from a survival point of view, men would love to spread their seed all over the place making babies left right and center, cause that would ensure survival or their line. Women need reassurance that they will be looked after in the cave after they are knocked up, and that the man will kill food and drag it back to them, so they need to assure themselves that the man is attached to them. :P | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 9:24:08 PM | | lol....good lord!....you need another shovel or is yours large enough? | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 9:26:27 PM | | i dig my holes with dyno-mite | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 10:19:03 PM |
Now guys....honestly, what is your opinion on girls who sleep with you on the first date?
Totally depends on the chemistry, in my opinion. There are some first dates that I've had were we just hit it off, and went with it. Others reqired a slower pace. It just depends.
There nothing wrong with enjoying some good 'ol "Swingin' from the chandilier & Waking the neighbors" sex, though! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 9:48:11 PM | If she drives a Porsche, Lambo, ferrari, or Maserati, I would likely sleep with her on a first date.....otherwise she would likely have to get me drunk and take advantage of me.  | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 10:14:47 PM | So really then, you're saying that you're easy? *takes notes*
the things I learn in this place amaze me at times. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 8:48:20 AM | I think much differently now then when I was younger. Sex is much much better if you wait a bit to get to know each other. For me, the ease of being myself is better when I know I'm not going to sleep with a girl on the first or 2nd encounter. Takes the pressure off of me. Sleeping with someone on a third date or later is not unreasonable. By then a relative ease and trust should be established. Getting a girl slightly aroused in the first two dates and not going further makes for further intensity later on. It also shows you can control yourself and that is not a bad quality for a guy to possess.
But we all have our limits (or lack of self control) and after a while if u plant a tree and it doesnt bear fruit u will eventually chop it down and use it for firewood so to speak. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 8:53:37 AM | well depends how things work out on the date ... you just dont wanna meet and within next half hour in bed lol ....
but if things builds up I would not complain if she was up for it!!! | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 8:56:10 AM | | spoken like a true 22-year old LOL | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 9:01:14 AM | | tell you the truth I know many in my university who are 22 but will have sex with just about any1 .... and they dont need that time to chat ... they in there whenever they find a girl up for it lol | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 12:26:54 PM | If a woman jumps in the sack with me on the first date, I think wow this is bold, however this relationship isn't going anywhere because you can't base a relationship on sex. At somepoint the passion wears off and you have nothing to fall back on because you didn't take the time to get to know each other.
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Posted: 8/30/2006 3:35:55 PM | | If a woman sleeps with me on the first date,no matter what she says,I would naturally assume she sleeps with everybody on the first date.I wouldn't even think about a relationship with a woman like that. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 3:38:43 PM | | If you can sleep with a woman on the first date then Im quite sure you wouldnt need to waste your money on a restraunt...lol.You can usually tell the women you can sleep with in an hour from the women you can't.Save your money man | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 3:43:37 PM | As a rule I never have sex on the first date - not only does it strip away alot of the mystery that is required for building a lasting relationship, but also because I don't know anything about her (and there are TONS of STDs that a simple condom won't protect you from.)
Mind you, I also tend to think before I act (even if it's not a long thought process ;)
Hormones are fleeting but Herpes is forever... | |
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Posted: 9/1/2006 11:38:34 AM |  apparently i don't see anything with it whatsoever if they knew each other before they went on their date it would actually be ok it depends how things get rolling. who knows might end the night very well you can also get to know some one even better it is only their opion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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