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 Gorshkov

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 76
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/8/2006 9:02:37 PM

99% of guys small white lies 98% of the time to get in your pants and 98.5% of girls I think know this.

You forgot the most important statistic of them all
Studies have shown that 97.328% of all statistics used in casual conversation were made up on the spot.
 Simply*Enchanted

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 77
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How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/8/2006 9:18:39 PM
Um, I'm sure 100% of men have lied to get sex, and no, honey, women don't have to lie to get laid, we just say, "come here" lol
 niceguy9876

Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 78
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How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 2:37:37 AM
if i thought lieing would help then yes i would lie all the time, thats not true i treat people the way i want to be treated, and me being honest about how horney i am and what my 1st objective is to please my partner and then me cause i love going down on women.
 molonel

Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 79
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 2:40:43 AM
I've never lied to get sex. I don't need to. I've even told the truth when it meant I wasn't going to get laid.

It's not worth the hastle.

I've also found that some women don't know quite what to do with the honesty, and assume that there is some other game afoot.
 Ravin Raven

Joined: 7/7/2006
Msg: 80
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 2:53:32 AM
all the time, not that it gets them anywhere. I can spot a player a mile away
 rushofdarkwings

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 81
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:02:57 AM
lol i am telling you ive never lied to get sex...ive never needed too...the people ive been with have always wanted it as much if not more in some cases than i have...this is not so much that im all that or anything i have just confined my sexual experience to the relationships that i have been in...and when you are in a relationshio you shouldnt need to lie to have sex..you either have it or you dont :P but again ill repeat my earlier point...how great is it if you have to manipulate someone to get it? seriously wouldnt you want to know that the person you are going to be with wants it just as much as you? so why lie? whats the point?
 MomWarnedYouAboutMe

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 82
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:06:16 AM
I'll bite on this one. My second (and most recent) relationship was sort of predicated on this concept. Not in the sense that I said "I love you" to get the sex, but that I said "I love you" to justify not breaking off a bad relationship, thus continuing the sex.
 MomWarnedYouAboutMe

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 83
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:09:12 AM

I've also found that some women don't know quite what to do with the honesty, and assume that there is some other game afoot.


Sadly, I find this too. It's an unfortunate situation, akin to a boxer bracing for the punch that is never thrown. You want to recoil from it regardless, but since the force isn't actively compelling you, you're left with an awkwardness that's even harder to recover from, I'd imagine.
 davesanders2k

Joined: 7/7/2006
Msg: 84
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 5:08:01 AM
NEVER..... I think you've got more chance gettin to know them if you're honest!
And sex aint something to jump straight into... after all, casual sex aint clever! why put yourself at a higher risk of catching something??
 nashawn

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 85
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 6:13:35 AM
Women lie to get sex also. Your hair ain't that long. Your hair ain't that color. You not that tall. Your breast not that big. The visual lie.

If men lie to get sex why do women have sex with us? If you know we are lying? I would not tell a woman I love her. Or, lead her on emotionally. As My man Homer Simpson said "It takes two to lie, one to lie,and one to listen."
 Zain.

Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 86
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 12:31:43 PM
nope never lied, I've always told the truth, probably why I'm still a virgin LOL
 Man In New Hampshire

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 87
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How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 1:49:26 PM
I haven't lied since I was maybe 19. (so long ago I can't remember exactly) I found it was too much trouble trying to remember the lies I told. Got in sooo much trouble.
 keepingit

Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 88
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 2:12:26 PM
Why lie? I say what I want.....at the right time of course. NO need to lie or mislead. No trickery needed.
 robert44143

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 89
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:08:37 PM
I've never lied to have sex. I guess some people are men, and some are boys.
 romannceee

Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 90
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:22:31 PM
well thats a tough one, no matter what a man does ladies usually think that he is only looking to get laid,especially when its a new relationship, or date, whatever you wanna call it, what is that ladies wanna hear really,i love you? no you are lying, i care about you? nah you are a liar,i like you? nah again you lie just to get into my pants.....
 XwildcatX

Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 91
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 3:26:44 PM
I think everybody lies for sex at some point :) I have lol
 luv_to_flirt_91

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 92
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 4:09:00 PM
We all have lied to get sex at least once. Those that said/say they NEVER lie to get some sort of sex is lying to themselves. We as women know better than to believe that lie. And when i say "some sort of sex" i'm also replying to oral.
 shag12357

Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 93
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 4:52:19 PM
well you all can believe what you want , but i have never lied to get sex, if i got to lie to get something , i dont want it in the first place, and this just dont mean sex but anything
 Practically Housebroken

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 94
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/9/2006 4:54:15 PM
I think everybody lies for sex at some point :) I have lol

Nice to know it's a two-way street.
 rushofdarkwings

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 95
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 1:19:55 AM
"We all have lied to get sex at least once. Those that said/say they NEVER lie to get some sort of sex is lying to themselves. We as women know better than to believe that lie. And when i say "some sort of sex" i'm also replying to oral. "

again i will reiterate...i do not lie for sex...oral and/or otherwise...those of you that do fine thats your choice you can deal with the consequences should their be ones...that being said have i never LIED before...of course i have...for something as important as sex...NEVER...its because i consider sex to be so important that i would never lie to get it...as i said..sex isnt JUST sex to me...its expressing your feelings and sharing something with your partner on a deeper level than the every day...i wouldnt taint that with a lie...as for bj's...lol i could take em or leave em i would much rather have sex than get a bj anyway...i only take em if the woman wants to do it :P
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 96
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 1:23:45 AM
Men lie? Hmmm... the things one learns here
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 97
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 4:18:43 AM
Kelly

When I hear your question I have to ask one of my own.

How may women genuinely believe the biggest women s lie of the lot?

That a man who throw away a couple of tickets , to the world cup grand final, for the sake of a hot weekend with you.
 a_playmate

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 98
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 5:06:01 AM
Personally I've always found honesty to be much more effective in the quest for sex.

I'm forward, but never crude, and if I want sex, then I'll simply tell my prospective lover that she looks really sexy and that I'm daydreaming about holding, kissing, and undressing her... (at that point it is 100% true ). Women like to be desired just as much as men..

I dont underestimate a woman's intelligence or her libido.. women are just as smart, (probably smarter !) sensual and lustful as guys. Communication, a sense of humour, and a hint of suggestion, are normally much more effective than lies..
 your_pedestal

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 99
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 5:48:31 AM
whenever it will work LOL
 Mule

Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 100
How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 7/10/2006 8:43:24 AM
It's not so surprising that men lie just to get sex.
What surprises me is the number of women who believe them for the same reason.
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