| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:15:00 PM | Let me get my head around this?
Some guy says he loves you, or that you are 'the one' and you give him sex? So sex is something you do when there is a promise of monogomy or being loved? Wow.
Sweetheart how do YOU feel? Do YOU want to have sex with this guy....or not?
How he feels or says belongs to him. Its up to you how YOU feel and what you do. If you want to get into a sexual relationship with someone, it should be because YOU want to and for your own reasons. Then there are no regrets. And no blaming someone else.
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:22:23 AM | Ok SO what about the opposite.
I was seeing a guy who swore from the getgo that he would not DO or SAY anything "too soon". We waited a good while to be intimate, and that was great, as we became friends. As time wore on, sure I fell for him, and he loved that, loved me admitting my feelings,etc., knowing that I really was crazy about him. He never did say that he loved me, though we had talked about many serious things, such as living together, building a house, you name it. So,
Since it was TOO SOON.....lol ..................... after it was over(because I flat out asked him and he had no answer)........we sort of ended it, and now I wonder...........IF he PRETENDED to love me......for sex. I find hard to believe, bc of who he is, and how the relationship was. I think he was just emotionally unavailable, but on the other hand....................I HAVE thought about this......... If someone KNOWS they will never commit , and keeps on keeping up with the pretense that they will/that they are there as you are.
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:25:12 AM | I asked a male friend who is an obvious womanizer...........why would a man stay with a woman who loved him, if he does not love her, wouldn't he run, knowing that she was in love, if he truly did not/could not return those feelings............
He said(remember he is all about sex) ...........................................................
Why would the guy leave a smorgasbord to go look for fast food?
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:45:46 AM | Those of you out there who think that everyone lies will never ever be happy. Yeah, true... many people lie. Sometimes about important things and sometimes about dumb things. Sometimes all the time and sometimes not at all. Everyone is different... if you waste your time assuming someone isn't trust worthy before you know them and always keep your guard up, you just may lose the best relationship you could have ever had due to your defensive position.
Not to mention, when your not focusing on the negative, and your mind is open and clear, it becomes much easier to read people for who they really are. If you really want to know if someone is lying to you or want to know if someone is pretending to be someone else just to fool you, then you need to rely on instinct and perception... not a bad past that has caused you to think negatively.
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:55:23 AM | | Yes gotmail, it is a lie and even worse than the ones who play it quick, this guy spent time with you and played you like a fiddle so to speak which is soooooooo not uncommon for both men and women to do these days in order to get whatever it is they want. your far too classy for an idiot like that | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 11:39:40 AM | Do ya looove me, will ya love me forevah, do ya nnneeeed me.....I gotta know right now.... Prayin for the end of time.  Meatloaf anyone? | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 12:03:12 PM | Noooo.....the song the liars play is
I got you babe, I got you babe
I got you to hold my hand
I got you to understand
I got you to walk with me
I got you to talk with me
I got you to kiss goodnight
I got you to hold me tight
I got you, I won't let go
I got you to love me so
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 1:09:20 PM | | I'm trying to stay on topic but it just reminds me of the time one or the other person is offered the opportunity to "beg" for it. It makes me thing that lying is the default response when begging won't work (and you're out of alcohol). | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:08:16 PM | | Sex is sex. Who cares if a guy says he loves you? I mean it's not like he'd make us be like "omg baby i love you". We'd just get naked and he'd be ready. So hey, if he's hott, who cares what he has to say. That's not what tongues are for anyways. | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:13:08 PM | | well never lol . there is no point to lieing , you can find sex without the i love yous and i care about you crap, but is it as meaningful, nope . | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/18/2007 6:14:04 PM | Obviously you got your heart broken and its not really funny! I think you were mislead by a guy with major committment issues, so you survived it and are still
here to talk about it, so look at it as a learning experience, and don't let that one
bad guy ruin it for all the rest of them. If you think back, you probably saw the red
flags flying and just ignored them because we're older and wiser and we think that people stop playing games by a certain age right? nah.. they don't. | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/18/2007 6:39:31 PM | OP....It seems that men no longer have to lie to get sex as there are more then enough woman putting it out......not saying all.....but lets just say that if one turns you down there is usually another right around the corner willing to accommodate your needs and theirs. Integrity is a lost concept in today's society and it is truly a shame.
Yes we all have needs and desires,...but what ever happened to dating someone and actually getting to know them??????????????? | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:47:45 PM | probably as often as women lie to repress their desires
probably as often as men lie to exhibit their appetites
probably as often as women lie to maintain their status
god help us all to love the truth and to love each other.
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/18/2007 10:26:44 PM | I wouldn't lie. Why bother? It's really not that hard to get laid if you have a clue.
If I tell you something like that you can take it to the bank | |
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| How often do you men lie to just get sex?
Posted: 9/19/2007 12:22:10 AM | All the anger and resentment in this thread is burning pretty bright.
Don't mind me, I'm just here working on my tan...
PS. If you expect honesty... don't ask a man any questions while you've got him naked. | |
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