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 DavesKuntry

Joined: 8/16/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/11/2007 4:48:31 PM
Here's a knew question: Why do women stare at women's boobs and think we don't notice?"

Sincerely, I feel defrauded and cheated. I mean, I want to be a lez, but that ain't happenin'.

Just my luck, huh!!! And I'm even multi-lingual: english, german, some spanish, and a conni-linguist of anthropological proportions. If "it" can be said, i'll try to talk to "it".
"wink,wink".

And why do females with large boobs believe they are stared at even more than any other female in the room. Try finding Met-art.com and see what men really look at -- females tastefully photographed by professional photograpers.
 wodehousefan2

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/17/2007 4:38:17 PM
Why do you wear: form fitting blouses, falsies, see through blouses with no bras, underwire bras meant to "lift and seperate", etc, if you don't want us looking at the beauties? I notice a nice set of breasts, and appreciate them, but spend more time looking at eyes, and lips, and crotches. Looking from a womans' eyes to her crotch, while she watches, is a good way to wordlessly say that I am an adult male, willing to please her, rather than being a juvenile whose mommy switched him to a bottle too early.
 Krooked Cop

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 228
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/17/2007 5:33:11 PM
Who said we think you don't notice?

If we are making direct eye contact with your nipples...we normally don't care if you notice.
 justinakrfc

Joined: 7/10/2005
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/17/2007 8:37:20 PM
A better question would be, why do women put their boobs out there, then get upset when a guy is staring at them?

If you didn't want them to be seen, you wouldn't wear such open clothing.
 harliegal

Joined: 8/31/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 5:49:50 PM
Did someone say something about boobs and cleavage????
My son's best bud states it this way..."I have legs, and I have an ass...but no matter what I do I won't have DDs!"
Best I've ever heard it explained.
 svansi

Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 231
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/18/2007 6:04:14 PM
Seth: Look at those nipples.

Evan: It's just not fair that they get to flaunt that stuff, you know... and like, I have to hide every erection I get.

Evan: Just imagine if girls weren't weirded out by our boners and stuff, and just like wanted to see them. That's the world I one day want to live in.

Evan: I heard she got breast reduction surgery.

Seth: What? That's like slapping God across the face for giving you a beautiful gift.

Evan: She had back-problems, man.
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/18/2007 7:20:09 PM
If you have them in your pictures ladys... we've looked at them.. I will guarantee that
 9 to 9

Joined: 5/28/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/18/2007 7:52:51 PM
Msg 1

Thats like asking "Why do women wear breast or hip accentuating outfits, and expect men not to notice?"

You just might find what you might be saying to be of worth ladies, if your laungerie wasn't intergrated so cleaverly into your casual or buisness attire.

Sounds like another case of wanting ones cake and eating it too. Especially when a person doesnt want to pay for it.

People choose what they want to wear, but I think most women need to consider what their wearing in public venues. Considering that you might be wearing your outfits and getups to attract a certain type of man, but all men will see you.

Now I understand, ladies, you might be dressing for all those potentially attractive men that may be out there, but you wear your cloathes for your own satisfaction. But the down side, most often complained about, and tiresomely so, is being hit on by guys who are less then desireous or men starin' at ya with no eye discipline about your breasts. And UGG the caveman likes breasts! ;)

Lets try to be realistic for a moment here. Attraction is going to happen regaurdless of what you or he, is wearing. So why wear such sexually charged cloathing? Unless you want a shallow guy, you know like UGG, to stare at your breasts, then of course complain. How very Femm of you. ;)

Anyways, a few thoughts and many more opinions.

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 Keithslegacy

Joined: 6/20/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/18/2007 9:02:43 PM
Well, why do people stare at beautiful paintings? There's something about them that draws the eye.

Most guys like boobs.....it's a fact of life.....it's impolite to stare at them for long periods, but if a guy sneaks a peek now and then.....it's sometimes unavoidable.
 whenyer_strange

Joined: 4/10/2006
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Posted: 9/18/2007 9:05:26 PM

TITS DON'T TALK BACK
ERrmmm....mine do. In fact, when I get bored at work, I make them answer tech calls for me while I step out for a coffee. They're highly useful once they're trained right. Also, mine can shoot laser beams and leap small squirrels in a single bound, provided the squirrel sits still.
 JackelDrew123

Joined: 8/14/2007
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Posted: 9/18/2007 11:37:47 PM
Frankly I think this posts assume more action on the man's behalf than you should give credit for. We do you that you notice us...we just have to do it anyway. IT'S BIOLOGICAL!! Eyes are important, but sometimes you just have to look, its just genes. As a wise man once said "How does a lion know to tackle a gazelle, its in his DNA," of course, he was using that as an explanation about why guys go after drunk chicks...but the theory is sound.
 sweety_pie23

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Posted: 9/19/2007 1:57:42 AM
lol whenyer strange, I think I need to start trainin mine to do that ;) I wear the tight, shape showin, cleavage showin, just let it all show type of clothes, when I want to be noticed. I like it when guys look at me, I just don't like it when I'm not wearing something that shows off my chest, and the guy is still starring anyways. I find it kinda funny though, considering the fact that I don't have much there to flaunt anyways.
 petrarch2

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/19/2007 3:51:32 AM
Breasts are nice, why wouldn't wwe want to look? But to be fair, I think some people (some females) become too sensitive to it, and tend to notice it a lot more often and even when it doesn't happen. For example I have this (bad?) habit, when I'm talking about something, and thinking about it I put my hand on my chin and tilt my head down slightly as I think. You know how it is when you are deep in thought, your eyes are pointed somewhere but you aren't really looking at anything.

Well it just so happens that if I'm talking to a female across the table, or there happens to be one there, or if I'm standing talking to someone I am now facing right into their breasts. Let me tell ya, it can be quite awkward when you are in my position and then realize where your eyes are and begin thinking, "how long have I been looking here?"
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/19/2007 5:20:01 AM
Well, there's no excuse for rudeness, but looking at the OP's pictures, I don't know why she's complaining. She dresses with her chest hanging out, and there's really only one reason to dress like that. So people will notice. So don't get all bent out of shape when you get what you are after.
 popgoestheweasel

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/19/2007 6:41:26 AM
oh, ill try my best not to look and most of the time i win. but every once in a while; be it from the shirt, bra, or they just happen to be perfect; you're eyes just dart down on their own. i'll be in the middle of a conversation and realize two things... wow, i think i just glanced at her breasts and yes, she noticed. i think it embarasses me more than it does her but it's instinctual. if someone walked in with a GIANT mole on thier nose, you'd be breaking out in a sweat trying not to stare and every time they look away, you'd take a peek. you can't help it and the more you try not to look the more you want to. not much difference. it is quite impossible to think about ignoring something.
 harliegal

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/19/2007 6:24:56 PM
I like that giant mole on their nose...lol...I think you may be on to something
 dharmapuppet

Joined: 4/1/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/19/2007 10:13:19 PM
It must be the class of the people you're hanging out with....
 beachchick

Joined: 6/27/2005
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Posted: 9/20/2007 7:24:10 AM
dharmapuppet, I think it's more likely the clothes she's hanging out OF.
 nomadd77

Joined: 5/21/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/20/2007 7:25:07 AM
we dont think its ok , we know we are bad, but sometimes we cant help it.

Ive caught myself doing this before and conciously averted my eyes only to find my self staring at boobs again later in the conversation.

I knew she noticed I was trying not to but everytime I stopped thinking about not staring , there I was staring again. This only happens very rarely when the girl has great boobs tho.

I felt guilty about it as well, and when i noticed my self doing it the last time I said "Oh my god". She was like what? and i said umm nothing, Im pretty sure she was gettin a kick out of watching me squirm
 TimP3843

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Posted: 9/27/2007 7:32:42 PM
Why do women with big boobs wear low cut tops and wonder why we look at them???
 horneschwoggle

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Posted: 9/27/2007 7:50:28 PM
If we didn't notice, then you would think what's wrong with yourself (how come I don't get noticed?) or what's worse, thinking the guy must be gay. Someday when you're old and gray (and those babies are down to your knees), you'll miss those days of glory of guy's eyes poppin', jaws dropping, mouths drooling, and blood draining from head to somewhere else...better enjoy the attention now, life goes fast.
Why do you think some women want boob jobs? Hello
 lonestardaddy

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Posted: 9/27/2007 8:10:48 PM
deb, I'm not a self-professed boob man, but when a woman's might be large enough, and she presents them in such a way ...so as these are hard not to notice, I can get confused as to which of her three 'heads' I'm supposed to address when talking to her.
 Wullis

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Posted: 9/29/2007 8:05:05 AM
ERrmmm....mine do. In fact, when I get bored at work, I make them answer tech calls for me while I step out for a coffee. They're highly useful once they're trained right. Also, mine can shoot laser beams and leap small squirrels in a single bound, provided the squirrel sits still.


Groovy baby........Sounds Shagalicious.....................Wait You aren't one of those dreaded Fembots are You??????????

And PopGoestheWeasel

Its called planetary attraction........like the moon and the earth. When a larger orb (breast)enters into the orbital grid of a smaller orb (eye) the smaller orb will begin an ecliptical orbit (from the face to the breast )caused by the gravitational force of the larger orb. Sometime a smaller "guilty orb' will have an erratic orbit (the breast, the face, the breast, the floor, the painting on the wall the breast) There is also the "slingshot orbit" when the orbs cross orbital grids in passing and gravitational forces whip the smaller orb around causing its surrounding "Asstroid belt momentary neck pain.
 jimi77

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Posted: 9/29/2007 11:05:08 AM
why are you looking at our eyes when we are taking a sneeky peek.. don't you trust us... huff.


if the baker puts Delicious cakes in the window.. Won’t people stop and look.. I think so. It's kind of like that..
 Champagne Chick

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Posted: 9/29/2007 11:08:12 AM
I'm a very "in your face" type person when I'm faced with jerky situations. I stop, look the guy in the eye and ask him what he's looking at. I have yet to hear an answer...I think shock sets in and they are speechless. So, I stare down at their penis and then back into their eyes...expressionless. It's my own personal "survival"...and it makes me laugh afterwards. Spineless....lol
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