| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/2/2008 12:05:21 PM | They may or may not know they are doing it and yes ^^ it's pretty much second nature.
I've had to train myself to not rubberneck, it's tough to look aloof and indifferent if you're staring at a chicks tits all the time. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/2/2008 1:02:20 PM | | I'm sorry, but if a woman is baring the cleavage, I think it's probably meant to be looked at. Not like I'm gonna wear a stretch shirt to the club and then tell a woman "Hey! Stop checkin me out!" And yes, they do check me out. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:11:57 PM | | Frankly, we don't care if you notice or not. Kinda hard for a guy to look at a woman's face with DDs bouncin around. Not rocket science.......that's part of the reason God gave you the gift he did to assist you in attracting males. Go ahead, complain about it. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/2/2008 2:56:19 PM | I don't normally have this problem but on a recent holiday to Egypt I experienced what it was like. Just walking round the streets in Cairo in fairly conservative clothing I noticed every single guy who walked passed checked out my chest before even looking at my face. They can't have been checking out my cleavage as I don't have one, I had nothing on display yet they still stared at my chest. It made me feel very self conscious and uncomfortable. It does make me quite glad that I don't have a large chest if that's what women have to put up with all the time, at least I know if a guy is talking to me, he's talking to me, not my 'bouncin DD's'.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/2/2008 6:04:36 PM | I have a 40F chest, so I get stared at A LOT.
My theory is that glances happen, and thats ok. I check out guys muscles or a cute behind every now and then, so feel free to take a few quick glances at my chest.
But staring and ogling, or even worse, crude and unneccesary comments are NOT ok.
And for all of you men who say that I must be looking for attention or love it when guys look at me because I wear low cut tank tops or shirts, you try shopping for me, buddy. When your breasts are an F cup and ridiculously (and naturally!) large like mine, shirts that cover up most women's chests are very tight and pull lower on my chest. I even buy clothes a next size bigger just so they will cover my chest more! So please don't assume that because some shirt gives you a great view of my twins that I bought it for you to stare at me! | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/3/2008 5:47:43 AM | Well Babs this is how it is..... Women stare at mens ass after we walk by and then of course we don't notice.. We are attracted by breasts after all it's what kept us alive diring the first few months of out life ... I'm sure it's only a primeval instinct of wanted to live  God forbid if it actually was that men love breasts and are so intrigued by this wonderful mounts of flesh protruding from a womans body with a perfect cleavage running down and hidden to perfection by a thin piece of cloth not allowing us to pear just a bit deeper where a perfect nib would be exposed... 
Awe man getting hot just thinink about it... gotta stop right now...  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/3/2008 7:38:21 AM | Dear OP and Other ladies
I stare into the Eyes of everyone I meet whenever possible. It is polite and the best method to let someone else know you respect them for whomever they are. I can see the body below the eyes and I can glance there when their Eyes waver or I have to scan elsewhere in the area because I am being safe and aware of the area around my zone of influence, From 27 to 314 square feet around me give or take.
I love making eye contact with females they really seem to warm up to the touch of my eyes on them and from my experience I have a following of those ladies that Miss me when I am gone from the area for days or weeks, but I look at your eyes first and only look elsewhere if her eyes off of mine premit or she is the one asking me to look by holding them up for display. Than happened a while ago in Dec, After I had bought two ladies drinks, I was just chatting and she mentioned them as if they could talk.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/3/2008 5:57:21 PM | As a man let me just say, boobs are wonderful, the best, I cant get enough. It would seem unfair that the ladies have this power over most men as for some reason boobs dont apply to the laws of phyics. Nice boobs automatically get attention, thats a fact, like a black hole sucking in anything it comes near we men feel the pull, some of us get to be close enough to feel the event horizon, for those men, high five. Women should feel lucky us men crave for you, boobs is the tip of the iceburg (parden the pun) from there you are able to find out what kind of man your dealing with, he has felt the pull. So use your boobs as a tool in finding a man, remember, we like alot of things about women, and we cant ignore boobs like we see them every day, its built into us, and we cant get it out. Women have the boobs, they win!
That being said oggling and overdoing it just means your boobs have revealed more boobs, men can be boobs. As for me? Ive been around boobs a long time, all the ladies I have checked out havent said anything, ither because they wanted me looking, or I was sneaky enough to catch a glance, and at one time or another, just a little nip!
Cant talk about boobs anymore cuz I am a man and shouldnt spend anymore time thinking about boobs as I prolly spend way too much time thinking of them anyway. I hope my boob advice is good, as your boobs show you which men dont look (I dont know how this is possible when its nice boobs) men who sneak a glance (very tactfully of course) and the men who are boobs, dont care if you can see them oggle you. Your choice of man, the kitchen will never close, we are talking about boobs.
I love boobs, not my fault, didnt put that desire in me when I came off the assembly line, lets just say Im happy to be cursed.
I will continue to use my cunning just to get a peek again, no Im not a perv, but I would just as soon stop eating then stop appriciating whats right in front of me, when its appropriate.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/4/2008 12:33:23 AM | | You know, I kind of hate to say this, because of how lame this sounds, but sometimes I'm completely lost in thought, thinking about my Term paper or something. Then, all of a sudden, I realize where my eyes happen to be resting, often on an attractive girl's behind or midsection. While that was not my intent, I'm kind of oblivious when I'm lost in thought, so it's not unusual for me to be staring in any direction that might be considered impolite. Rest assured, however, that I always observe the "half- second glance" rule for anytime that I'm aware of my actions. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/4/2008 12:48:27 AM | Thats why you should wear sunglasses!!!!
Im kidding.....
I went on a date once with a girl with serious cleavage and she was all into me after I spent the whole date and never looked down. My eyes were locked on hers the whole date. This is a classic test that women throw at men and its amazing how many fools fail it.
Gentlemen.....
Keep your eyes locked on hers and dont venture south. Not only do they notice but they give you points too.
Havent some of you guys learned that women have eyes in the back of their head?
What makes some guys think they wont notice something with the eyes in front?
Chalk another one up to clueless men. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:02:24 AM | | I dont know why maybe its hard wired into our heads. I agree its really is rude to stare but what constitutes as staring? Personally i've dealt with women who wore attire that so obviously flaunted their assets. As hard as I try keeping eye contact i'll admit my eyes have wandered down a little longer then they should have. Sometimes I feel so flustered about it I dont know where to look and sometimes I just dont care. Its not something I do as a habit though but it does happen. But if we men all walked around with enourmous bulges in our pants, i'm sure you'd stare a little. Now imagine that being close to eye level. We're all visual people now the question is have you ever had someone of the same sex stare there? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:30:59 AM |
This is a classic test that women throw at men and its amazing how many fools fail it.
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Chalk another one up to clueless men.
I think I'd gladly fail this test in exchange for a one-shot extended free ogling session.
Who needs such abuse when they're real nice to you at Hooters? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/4/2008 7:40:55 AM | apple computers announced today the development of a chip that can be implanted into into a womans breast and play music . its called the i-tit. it costs £599 and is regarded as a major breakthrough as women are allways moaning that men just stare at their breasts and never listen to them.
anyway ladies big breasts or small do give me a call | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/5/2008 10:15:06 PM | As a 36 D, it's a rare day that my breasts don't render a glance or two. I work with all men and they are pretty good at maintaining eye contact with me. Other than the one single guy close to my age who stares blatantly at my chest... then at my face almost defiantly... which is actually kind of hot...
At the end of the day, I am not one of those women who believes men and women were created equal. I believe we were created to complement each other with our differences.
My breasts are symbolic of my femininity. Pulling this disrespect crap just sets women back and validates that general "neurotic and crazy" perception of women. It's right up there with "let's re-write the union handbook to have all references of 'he' taken out of it." Kind of a silly argument. I have bigger things to worry about. Stare away. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/5/2008 11:23:52 PM | well, if women didnt want there breasts stared at.......they shouldnt wear such tight clothing or low cut tops.......believe me ,yyou all want to be stared at ...otherwise there wouldnt be so many women getting boob jobs......and remember most of were breastfed....... .............. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/6/2008 1:16:43 AM | Let them know that you're displeased. You might be surprised.
They may apologize profusely, or politely let you know that it was not actually your boobs they were looking at.
In any case, sometimes it helps to change one's attitude about somethings that one can't change-- at least not right away: "So I have big boobs and many men like to look at them.
There are worse things in life." ;) | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/7/2008 2:34:52 AM | At the end of the day, I am not one of those women who believes men and women were created equal. I believe we were created to complement each other with our differences.
My breasts are symbolic of my femininity. Pulling this disrespect crap just sets women back and validates that general "neurotic and crazy" perception of women. It's right up there with "let's re-write the union handbook to have all references of 'he' taken out of it." Kind of a silly argument. I have bigger things to worry about. Stare away.
I find this completely healthy. And you're right, "signs of femininity" are attractive. This attitude makes me feel really comfortable and happy. May you spread your message of peace and lovable differences.
Personally, I just switched to "Can't help it. Uncomfortable and boring not to, don't mind me, nothing to read into it." Not looking is like saying "Don't think of the pink elephant" I AM capable of not thinking of the pink elephant, but it's really not fun or rewarding to "control" myself like that. Yes, I could control myself with force, but....something feels really WRONG to deny myself. For what? "Respecting" her? Believe me, I'm already respecting her. And no matter how piggish she wants to paint me with that statement, I truly feel she's doing herself a disservice. Because I was GENUINELY admiring her. And to tell me to stop because it's disrespectful?
The idea confuses and frustrates me. "Stop being entranced by that thing of beauty! It's disrespectful to the owner." I just can't wrap my mind around it.
Yet, they want to be respected for other things, that do not register instinctually as "feminine". And I can only question why they would want to present those things. Those are people traits, not woman traits. I don't want people, there's enough of those a-holes around. I want women. They're better than those neutral "people" traits. | |
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