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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 6:50:01 AM | Men are beguiled and transfixed by women and their appendages---it's really quite that simple! As much as you understandably dislike your large chest being a mans main focus I see your photos here are somewhat less than demure and YOU call them "tits"---how does any of that behavior seek to elevate our eyes? Is this a troll post with a slight twist to the one about scantily clad women?
Women know but seldom admit they use whatever sexual allure they have in order to gain attention. It is an intoxicating feeling for some to be "seen" and many of those aren't concerned with the nature of the attention. Leering is the same as admiring in their minds.
Also, we know you notice----at some point we just don't care!! If you show 'em we're going to look---simple as that! Don't want us to look or leer---do what you can to diminish that about you and the problem might also lessen!! | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 8:00:21 AM | With the exception of two or three men, most of the guys posting on this thread are really pissing me off.
1.When any individual is having a conversation with another, it is considered polite to look at the person's face.
2.A woman's breasts are not public property. A woman can wear whatever she wants and expect to be treated like an equal partner in a conversation. Believe it or not, guys, women aren't always thinking of men when they're getting dressed in the morning. Sometimes we choose clothes because they're pretty or because we like the colour or because multiple layers are hot. Are you guys actually suggesting that if I want a man to speak to me I have to hide my breasts??? Which leads me to 3. The breasts are in front - and some women have big breasts with alot of cleavage. I would have to wear a sack tied at the neck if I wanted to camouflage my breasts.
4.Are all you men trying to say that you have such little self-control that the sight of a women's breasts over-rides all considerations of decency and manners? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 8:47:11 AM | Leering or going out of your way for a peek is obviously rude.
But the "car wreck" syndrome sometimes takes place. You know you shouldn't look, but at the same time, there it is and you can't take your eyes off it. Just be glad they're boobs and not a mangled car with the chance of sighting a dead body in there.
Sometimes you don't know that you're staring. You're having a conversation and you think "Holy crap, have I been staring at her boobs the whole time? Did she notice? Did I say that out loud? God I hope not."
And when you shouldn't stare, and keep eye contact, that's the worst. Because they're right there. They're there and now instead of looking at them, you're THINKING about looking at them. "Well stop thinking about them!" you say. No, that's like saying "Don't think of something red." The moment you try not to think about something, the more you are thinking about it.
Lastly, I don't understand the offense. They're boobs. They're there. You have them, we don't....so you're probably VERY used to them, we're not. "I wonder what they look like. Feel like. I want to run physics experiments with them."
Half of the population has them, so you're not special in owning a pair. But, they do come in all types, and some of those types are quite special. Be proud if you're getting looked at....because it won't last forever. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 10:42:24 AM | ok i am gonna lay it out like this, how would you girls feel if no man ever took a peek at your tig bitties,
huh huh huh yeah i thought so...
wonder why padded and push up and gel filled bra's are sold
and adam no disrespect to you personally but that is the biggest crock of shit i have ever heard, your teliing this forum that you have so much respect for women that you never took a peek at a womans breast's not even when its alttle cold out and the nipple's are trying to make an appearance, maybe you werent breast fed, | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:49:11 PM | I don't know why we do it. I think it is a natural thing to look at and appreciate a woman's breast.
I know I continued to do it even when my ex and I were in a argument and it was not a sexual thing my eyes just would gravitate in that direction. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:58:12 PM | Because:
a. We're men.
b. We can.
Just because we stare doesn't mean we want to have sex with you. It's a natural reaction.
I notice beautiful eyes as well, should that mean I shouldn't adore them?
What about legs?
Men are VISUAL creatures. I don't think men should stare to the point of sexual harrassment though. Look then look away.
I try not to stare but if I am going to look at them, I'm going to do it when you're not looking  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 1:20:40 PM | It's strange how some women wear clothing that accentuates their physical endowments--presumably because they want to look attractive to men--and then complain endlessly when the clothing achieves its purpose.
Men like breasts. Why? For the same reason women find tall, muscular men attractive--it's a visible symbol of their sexuality. This is not rocket science here, sweetheart.
I suppose if a man is constantly staring at your cleavage and drooling openly, it is a sign of a lack of discipline or self-awareness on his part, one that might be indicative of a character defect. But for crying out loud, "checking someone out" is part of the attraction/flirting/dating process.
My advice is, if you don't like it go join a convent. Nun's clothing is notably unrevealing, and you won't have to put up with so much annoying attention from the "lads." (sorry, I'm not a Brit.) | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 1:32:09 PM | Take it as a compliment. We stare because they are nice boobs, and I'm not afraid to make it obvious. Its the same way girls check out guys and don't make it obviouse, but just take it as a compliment. Most people dress the way they dress for attention, so enjoy it. I hope this isn't coming out rude cause thats not my intention.
Cheers | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 1:56:16 PM | | two reasons: 1) look at the clothes you wear...if you don't want us to look then dress more conservatively...if a guy wants you to check him out he'll wear a wife beater but if he just wants to be normal he wears a t shirt..if you want me to stare at your boobs wear a low cut shirt if not then wear a t shirt ... 2) and even if you wear a t shirt men might look just because we can and most don't really care what you think... | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 2:33:31 PM | He means a tank-top.
Wife-beater usually implies an undershirt tank-top. Usually accompanied with random stains, gut, beer and a trailer with 3 noisy children. Teeth optional.
vvv A tank-top is something men can wear to show off....if they fill it out in the right places. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 2:47:51 PM | | Well, they are there to look at right?? If a guy checks em out, I dont see a problem, but if he asks how they are and not you...then you have a problem...hell I know girls look at guys just the same as we do to girls...but every guy is different....i dont condone perverted guys, but hey if they look good and u happen to be wearing a shirt to show em off...you asked for it :P | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 3:38:43 PM | | If you want to wear anything you want than by all means go ahead. You cannot expect anyone not to notice cleavage or a women's curves. If you get offended with someone noticing what you are wearing than you have more of an issue than the guys who look at you. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 3:58:20 AM | So what you lovely men are telling me is that because I have big breasts, if I wear a tight t-shirt I am automatically accorded less respect than a man, a flat-chested woman, or a similar shaped woman wearing baggy clothes. That because I happen to have the type of breasts that are considered ideal by society's standards, they have somehow become public property and how I choose to cover them is the business of every male I might come into contact with. And that if I have a problem with this, I'm obviously neurotic. Hmmm...
Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch? What if that female staring at your penis just happened to be standing next to you on the subway, or a customer? What if the person staring at your crotch and obviously not listening to a word you say was a male, homosexual co-worker. Wouldn't make you uncomfortable?
One more thing - the men who stare, comment on, and grab the aforesaid large breasts are much less likely to be issued an invitation to spend quality time with them than the men who show some respect and restraint. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:27:48 AM | C'mon girls, you know there are some women who carry their boobs around like Colt 45s.
I know a few women who go out of their way to make sure everyones looking at them.
It takes a great deal of practice not to look at them, but if a girl goes out of her way to get me to, I'll look.
You welcome, my pleasure. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:34:35 AM | "Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch? What if that female staring at your penis just happened to be standing next to you on the subway, or a customer? What if the person staring at your crotch and obviously not listening to a word you say was a male, homosexual co-worker. Wouldn't make you uncomfortable?"
Wouldn't bother me a bit--I'd see it as a chance to get promoted. You have to take opportunities as they come, after all. (If you knew my boss you'd know how absurd that scenario is--I can't imagine it ever happening).
As for the homosexual, it's happened before. I just ask them if their life insurance is paid up, and if they are an organ donor. It usually works, and after that we get along just fine.
No--unlike you, most men are flattered if a member of the opposite sex finds them attractive. There's nothing abnormal or wrong about it. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 6:02:48 AM | Reading this thread it seems to me there must be a right way and a wrong way to look at big boobs. If so, it might be the duty of the women with big boobs to educate the boob watchers. The point has been made that sometimes women go out of their way to inflate, promote and show off their boobs. In such cases, is it still rude to look at them, or is it then rude to ignore them?
I have never stared at a woman's boobs while talking with her unless it was a conversation about her boobs, which has rarely happened. I have however spent happy time watching boobs when we weren't talking, because they were naked and bouncing against my face. Maybe the rule of thumb should be that if you can see the nipples or if it's during sexual intercourse it is OK to stare, but that if she is dressed and you aren't lovers, it's rude to lock your eyes on her boobs, and no drooling, either.
The problem seems to me that some men are just rude, and staring at big boobs is one of their rude ways. If so, then having big boobs is a blessing because it shows you quickly who is rude and who is not, while women with small titties need to find that out some other way.
If a female boss was staring at my crotch, I would not feel uncomfortable. I would be waiting for the punch line. If a gay co-worker was staring at my crotch, I would stand perfectly still. I learned this from rabbits. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:46:22 AM | Why do you let men talk to your chest? Some men cannot think right with the grey matter in their head and the lizard brain takes control.
I'd suggest you find an intelligent man that prefers looking at your pretty face and keeps it smiling. If all he can see is your breasts, he doesn't care if you're smiling, he only cares about his own gratification. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:42:35 AM |
So what you lovely men are telling me is that because I have big breasts, if I wear a tight t-shirt I am automatically accorded less respect than a man, a flat-chested woman, or a similar shaped woman wearing baggy clothes. That because I happen to have the type of breasts that are considered ideal by society's standards, they have somehow become public property and how I choose to cover them is the business of every male I might come into contact with. And that if I have a problem with this, I'm obviously neurotic. Hmmm...
If you have big boobs and wear a shirt that shows them off, expect men to look at them. I don't think it has anything to do with more or less respect. It's just that they are there.
But seriously, if you are going to flaunt your gifts, expect them to be gawked at. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's NATURAL for men to look at them.
It's like a guy wear tight shorts with a "large" package. He's begging for attention and yes, women are going to gawk.
Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch?
Well, I have the cohonies to say something to her about it. If you have a problem with a guy staring at your boobs, TELL HIM....
What if that female staring at your penis just happened to be standing next to you on the subway, or a customer? What if the person staring at your crotch and obviously not listening to a word you say was a male, homosexual co-worker. Wouldn't make you uncomfortable?
I'd just say "Hey dude, I'm up here..." and leave it at that.
Have a sense of humor, will ya? It makes people like ya more :)
One more thing - the men who stare, comment on, and grab the aforesaid large breasts are much less likely to be issued an invitation to spend quality time with them than the men who show some respect and restraint.
Let me just say:
1. It's ok for men to look, but not stare to the point of making her uncomfortable.
2. It's NOT ok to grab them (unless you're married).
3. It's NOT cool to comment on them.
Men can and will look, but should do it tactfully and with class. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 10:56:17 AM | | I work in retail. The other day I waited on a very attractive ,big breasted black lady. She was wearing a very tight, very low cut top that barely covered up her nipples. This woman was at least in her 40's. I did more than stare. I'm afraid I gawked. But looking back I'm thinking that she wanted to generate that reaction, otherwise why was she dressed like that? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 11:22:18 AM | So what you lovely men are telling me is that because I have big breasts, if I wear a tight t-shirt I am automatically accorded less respect than a man, a flat-chested woman, or a similar shaped woman wearing baggy clothes.
It has absolutely nothing to do with "respect" or who you are as a person. It has everything to do with boobs. (Although that in turn could be a lack of respect.) It has little to do with the owner of said breasts. They are a seperate entity.
Like how a disgusting horrible person can have a nice car. And you can appreciate that car without ever paying attention to the owner of the car. But, if they put a car cover on their car, I'll pay no attention to it because it's out of sight and out of mind. The car does not represent the owner.
Would you like to be represented by your boobs? They don't make you who you are. But some women out there DO represent themselves that way....and they usually receive certain titles. (Slut, bimbo, etc.)
Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch?
This doesn't happen. And if it does happen, it needs to be more obvious, or I need to pay more attention. I for one welcome the attention, because I can't think of a similar situation that men have to deal with.
And if it did happen, I would say "ew" in my head. But, somewhere in there, my ego would be happy and say "Yes! She wants me. I am awesome." And then the rational part of my brain would question why this doesn't happen. And then if it actually happened, I might complain about it. But until then, I welcome that behavior, even from unwelcome people.
Perhaps it's a form of "treat others how you wish to be treated".
Regardless, I've spent way too much time in my life denying my insticts, and I'm happier to let them exist. And therefore, I won't apologize for liking breasts. | |
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