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 craig james

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 501
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 3/26/2008 6:42:29 PM
wait now... isn't that where you eyes are at???lol! and if this bothers you so much, why did you have to tell everyone in your opening line that you have a huge rack??? look if you had a huge nose they would be staring at your big nose???
 craig james

Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 502
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Posted: 3/26/2008 6:43:54 PM
ohhhh and just for the record....anything more than a mouthful is a waste.
 PerfectGentlemanNo.1

Joined: 3/10/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 1:59:53 PM
I dont look at women boobs, I am raised up by my parents to show women respect and dont see them as walking meatsticks!!
 redbeard151

Joined: 3/22/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 2:02:25 PM
Well I only stare at a woman boobs if she has them hanging out of there shirts and then you where obviously looking for attention.
 HDynasty81

Joined: 3/10/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 2:17:42 PM

Don't get upset, next time you look in the mirror, think you have the power. Yes, men are attracted to breast, so they are your power. I kid with my female workers about the way men look at our beast, I grab mine and say, yes these are power and I have the power. I have done this to a couple of guys and it has stopped them from staring . LOL if this was our only complaint.


I know some guys who would keep on staring and tell you to say that again, only slower,lol.
 CliffhangerTX

Joined: 10/15/2006
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Posted: 3/27/2008 2:35:02 PM
Whenever I hear a woman talking about a guy staring at her boobs, I ask her, "Well, what if a guy's package was higher and/or you could see where the shaft meets his balls?" That usually gives a little more insight.
 DakotaRx

Joined: 10/4/2006
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Posted: 3/27/2008 5:08:28 PM
we know you notice just dont care..for real though we dont even notice it..our intention isnt to stare at your boobs it just happens..ur a woman be proud of it stop questioning it..its jsut the way it is..this question is way over asked..
 Namats III

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 5:15:18 PM
*..Anything more than a mouthful is a Waste..*

BOY!! . . Has HE got a Lot to Learn . . !!
...Like, for starters . . The Mouth is like a M*A*S*H . .
. . M O B I L E . . !!!
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 3/27/2008 8:27:01 PM
Jeez ~ Why do women stare at men's asses? DUHHHH !
 Yougotgot

Joined: 3/1/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 10:15:24 PM
Because they are awesome
 garnet73

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Posted: 3/27/2008 10:23:48 PM
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We're With Her

(I wish POF wouldn't hadn't edited the spaces out)
 SlingDad

Joined: 5/28/2007
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Posted: 3/27/2008 11:30:53 PM
'Cause if you didn't want us to look you wouldn't stick them out, ergo subconsciously stating;

"Here, play with them while I'm in my (20's, 30's, 40's, etc) and they're still resilient!"
 VeronicaAllison

Joined: 2/12/2007
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Posted: 3/28/2008 12:00:41 AM
Apparently resiliency is the key to life in more ways than one!
 ypkentacoma

Joined: 11/22/2006
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Posted: 3/28/2008 12:21:13 AM
Well the reason why i stare at womens boobs is so that just maybe you might want to share them with me. After all they are your, I like to share what i have and you don't have to stare, just ask.

Another reason is looking is for free.
 hardcandylick

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 3/28/2008 2:07:31 AM

So your saying a man should be kicked in the groin because he is staring at woman's breasts? Any man who posts stuff like this must have extremely low testosterone level.

And there is a cure for that.




Would that be a kick in the mangina?



Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???


Who said anything about you women not noticing that we're staring, googling, fantasizing, drooling, mastur.......uhhh......well.......never too early in the morning to start the day off right!
 Ruffy Tuffy Womble Basher

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 516
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Posted: 3/28/2008 5:01:30 AM
Looking at puppies gives a man an indication as to the health of a prospective mate. There is nothing sordid about it.

Other indicators include lip colour, Hair, the white of the eye, skin tone, figure etc.

Why do you think companies produce so many products to give the impression of health (Lipstick, shampoo/conditioner/serum/gel etc, optrexy stuff (for tired eyes), make-up, clothing/diet aids etc.. Oh and of course.......Bras. (to keep the puppies restrained and perky..)

Ruffy
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 3/28/2008 7:58:08 AM
Is that why complete strangers keep offering me B12 jabs?


H.x
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 518
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Posted: 3/28/2008 8:59:32 AM
Hmmmm...let's see...

Men stare at your boobs and you notice. Yet men keep staring...maybe men don't care if you notice or not?
 hardcandylick

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Posted: 3/28/2008 12:57:21 PM

What if we don't have 'big bangers' (lovely turn of phrase), don't wear low cut tops, and still get gawped at?


I could make all kinds of jokes about this, but let me be serious for a moment. I knew this woman named "Liz," who didn't have big breasts; probably a very small A cup. Sometimes she even went without a bra. Did I sometimes take a look, even when she wasn't wearing something semi-revealing? Yep, sure did. Why? Because she was attractive and when it was cold or she got a chill (she was very sensitive to temperature changes) her nipples got erect and poked out her shirt. Not to mention the fact that she had a nice butt, but I digress that's off the subject. She wasn't the only one. There was this woman from NY, who will remain nameless, who was also a small A cup. I remember her tying her shoes while sitting in a chair and meanwhile asking me a question. I turned to her to answer and was greeted with her blouse doing the "swing low sweet chariot" and I still have warm, fuzzy thoughts aboout her freckled cleavage and nearly exposed breats. Her white, cotton laced bra softly covering her nipples as they gingerly swayed as she moved about. I was left dumbfounded as if some great mystery of the world was revealed to me. But it was just her breasts and mostly cleavage brought on by the miracle of gravity. All that took about two seconds, but it's etched in my mind to this day.

Did it matter that they were small breasted? Not in the slightest! They were determined, strong willed friends that happened to be quite attractive. I always respected them immensely and regret the fact that we lost contact over the years. Is that solely because of thier breats? Hardly. But I would be lying to not admit that a part of me still wonders what it would've been like to have touched them (both were attached to other men), to carress them and to taste them. Why is that seen as a bad thing by some? Why is it so bad to fantasize about something like that? Why should anyone endure yelling for a "thought?" Ridiculous. I hear about women getting wonder bras , implants and breast augmentations for appearance sakes and all the while, the complaint stills come in one form or the other: men stare, men are pigs, why do you guys look, why do you guys stare, I'm more than a set of tits, why are big tits better, why are small tits better, blah, blah, blah. Do me a favor. Next time you buy a dress, blouse, shirt, or whatever kind of top, don't try it on. In fact, don't even hold it up to yourself and look at your profile with the shirt pressed to you in a mirror. Just buy it and make sure it's two sizes too big. Guess what will happen? Guys will still look to figure out the mystery. Small breasted, big breasted, perky, floppy, orange shaped, pear shaped, it doesn't really matter. You're a woman and most men will always look. Can it be unflattering some times? Sure it can. But admit it, if we all looked like Pitt or Clooney, I doubt threads like this would ever get started. It'd be more like:

"He looked at my breasts today! Think we'll get married?
 mmalueg

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2008 1:01:26 PM
Women whine about this all the time. But if they are not getting all the little "looks" and "peeks" and such from guys, well then they freak out about that even more? WTF!
 JadeMuse

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Posted: 3/28/2008 1:49:19 PM
^^^^Bravo, hardcandylick!
That is the best I have ever heard that explained from the male POV.

I laughed... I cried...
I was perched attentively at the edge of my seat,
popcorn gripped just beyond my lips' reach until the surprise finish.

Enjoy your warm, fuzzy thoughts.

Just please know...
If we aren't dating you and/or we are, in fact, in public:
IT IS A NO PARKING ZONE,
and you will be towed at your own expense.
--even if you just happen to be George Clooney.
Thank you.
 thewrongdossier

Joined: 3/21/2008
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Posted: 3/28/2008 4:49:46 PM
depends if you're wearin a low cut top...if you are it is veritably impossible to avoid looking there...get over it...or wear tube tops every day.
 ITSeaBass

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Posted: 4/14/2008 9:54:58 PM
Apple is addressing this with a new product called the iBoob, an iPod breast implant. It is the answer to women's complaints that men stare at their breasts and do not listen to them.
 raphael_adroit_esquire

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Posted: 4/15/2008 1:53:21 AM
Generally, as a rule, I don't ever flat out stare at a woman's tìts unless I have no intention of talking to her. And even then, I don't really stare.

But if I'm talking to her, I'll look her in the eye.

But I'd also like to point out that women who blatantly put their racks on display and then act offended when men look at them are silly and should not complain. They know what they're doing. They're actually more offended if guys don't notice. They want them to look, just not to stare.
 strangebunny

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Posted: 4/15/2008 5:48:46 AM
i have a lot of repect for Muslim women who dress modestly... makes life a lot easier..
i think the problem is fashion.. it confuses me more than it turns me on... there are forteen year olds running around in jeans half way down their arse and just a thong between their cheeks...

i think the bottom line is how much do you value yourself... how much do you really value your job... are the people you work with arseholes or not regardless of where they put their eyes... i suspect that your job and the people that you work with are shit...fullstop.

it sounds to me that you are being bullied.. the most powerful response is not to shout.. but decide for yourself what you really want out of your career.... then you will easily deal with things
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