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 jimtash71

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 4/15/2008 8:31:13 AM
Honestly, I could care less if a woman notices me looking. That's what most men do, so get over it. It's not putting anybody down and if some of the bigger chested women here are offended at the looks, get a breast reduction.
 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 4/15/2008 8:52:30 AM
This post is like the energizer bunny keeps going and going and going.

But I still have the same opinion don't stare (unless your at a strip club ) and look in there eyes. An occasional glance is all good both sexes do it men and women, I'm even talking about breasts. Men want them women are jealous of other women. Oh well it's what makes the world go around. lol.
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
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Posted: 5/23/2008 8:25:08 AM
if you want them to stop cover them up.if there covered up wear a bigger shirt atleast you have men looking.
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:56:17 AM
I noticed a huge pair of boobs staring right at me yesterday...it was all I could do to avert my eyes from certain enticement.
 dknickerbocker

Joined: 4/29/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 5/23/2008 12:42:11 PM
Honestly I don't even think men care if a woman notices him staring at her... beyond the fact that the women may kick them in the groin.....

Men are visual... they are drawn to a woman's body.... Expecting a man not to look at a woman's chest is like expecting a dog not to lick his

doesn't mean its ok for men to stare at them for a length of time.... But condemning them for a glance or a double take is not right either...

This is why I'm glad I'm a butt man.... women can't see you staring at their a$$ !!!
 Blargal

Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2008 1:50:38 PM
GAH WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!?! Ok kinda kiddin a bit but seriously? I work at a gas station and see all the time women coming in with low cut shirts on (and some practicly naked but those were the drunken ones in the early morning lol) I try to be a gentleman and do the right thing and of course not look, but if they are practicly hanging out there for all to see i'm going to take a quick glance like any other straight man will!

However when you do come up to me and i'm taking care of you I will only look you in the eyes which oddly enough seems to make some women mad that i'm not taking a knowtice to their chest lol. Really its the men who make rude gestures or comments that piss me off, i'm there taking care of a rather cute woman and all is well with the world when suddenly a man walks up and goes "hey baby if only I were younger i'd so be in your pants right now!" thats only one of many things i've heard from some guys...I mean come on...right in front of her and even if she wasn't there and they said something after she left i'd still find him a pig I guess I was just raised diffrently I guess heh.
 SheKnowsWhatSheNeeds

Joined: 4/21/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:06:15 PM
You know what? They're boobs, just some skin, fat and muscle seated on your chest.
Alot of men are attracted to tits, so really, it's time to get over it. Move on, who cares if they stare. Why not stare back? I'm sure they're quickly remember themselves when they find you staring at them.
These threads are kind of getting old. Boobs are boobs, they've been around forever and will be here forever. The problem is just as old. it's time to quit ****ing about it.
 FredHH

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Posted: 5/23/2008 2:24:17 PM
If women don't want men to look at thier boobs...

Then why do they get implants... or use artifical devices (falsies, stuffing the bra...etc ) to make the boobs more obvious?

If you don't want us to look...

then tape em down... don't build em up.
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 6/5/2008 4:04:38 PM
and why do women stare at men's butts when we turn around? DUHHH
 Schadenfreudian

Joined: 7/5/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 6/5/2008 4:30:01 PM
Let me ask for clarification: are you noticing men staring at YOUR boobs or some other woman's boobs? Whichever annoys you more, that's what we're required to do, according to IAMLM*.

*International Association of Mammary-Lovin' Men
 sweetjemgirl

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Posted: 6/5/2008 4:59:11 PM
Funny post. Of course we notice, and usually it's after we have checked out the guys nice tight end!!!

Funny thing is women check out womens chest as well, just don't stop like a deer caught in headlights, and that has nothing to do with being bisexual etc. The human form is beautiful period. I do not have a huge rack but it's not small at all either, I often will say "Hey they don't talk!!" But it's no big thing, it's a compliment. And yes, if my shirt's tight or revealing at all it happens way more. If they weren't attractive to men then there'd be no barely dressed models trying to sell beer while sitting on a hot muscle car now would there.

Women check men out just as much, we just aren't quite as obvious as men, well in general we're not. LOL
 Kazot

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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:22:43 PM
Every body loves BOOBS!

Even gay guys love boobs.

Quit your bi@tchin if a lot of guys had boobs of their own they would never leave the house.

Hell not only will I stare I may even complement you.
"Nice rack ya got there."
"May I say, you have some mighty fine tits."
"Holy mother of gawd, those are nice!" (OK that one is rather rare.)
 Namats III

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2008 11:28:19 PM
Okay...Fight BACK !!
[I might Stare...at a Distance...but I make Supreme Efforts to concentrate
on her EYES...at close-range!!]
When he stares a t your Chest...Stare at his Crotch...[make HIM uncomfortable!]
Then...*Giggle* or *Chortle*...and say...:
'What can you Impress ME with...??!!'
~ nuff-said ~
 MrMan999

Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 539
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 6/6/2008 12:04:37 PM
I wonder--because I tend to get lost in the mystery at times myself--if simply owning up and begging pardon when I'm caught out would cast what's happening in the proper light?

I mean, with me it's not like I'm going to grab, or attack, or make snide remarks. I just find a woman's charms to be beautiful. The sight of them gives me a pleasure that I am extremely grateful to experience.

Guys aren't often rewarded for expressing gratitude. So when I'm overcome it can feel quite awkward. I just don't know what to say. When is a smile not a leer? When are doe eyes not "google-eyes?"

Sometimes I think that the fear of giving offense leads to offense.

Yes, I can will myself to look only above the neckline, but that effort shows and also makes things awkward.

So, how can a guy say "thanks for showing up in such a beautiful form" without it coming across as crass?
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 6:26:19 PM
Men dont! Simple as that.

women are sh hung up about thier boobs that is men are even glancing in their general direction the women are convinced that the guys are looking at their boobs.
 43v3RSW33T

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Posted: 6/6/2008 9:04:55 PM
Personally, I try not to look at womens boobs, but if they're right out there, the eyes just lock right on them for a brief moment without thinking twice.
 cw35

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Posted: 6/8/2008 12:10:53 AM
I think a lot of men will stare more when they're obvious and unattractive, so women shouldn't always think that they're attractive because men stare. A lot of times it can mean the opposite. As human beings we have a tendancy to stare at things that repulse us or find strange more than things that we like.
 Chuck65201

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Posted: 6/8/2008 10:24:39 AM
Yes we men stare at women's breasts it is only natural just as women stare at men's crotches or butts and just as any animal in the world is drawn to others either by body movements or posture,scent or whatever it is just how things are in nature.

I have been caught many times in the act of "looking" and at the same time have had women "straighten up" a little bit to actually give me a better view (oh he is looking and it makes me feel so good so I'll stand a little straighter to give him a better look) so who is the more guilty of the sin the one looking or the one straightening it up?

Maybe it is because some men were "never weened" or maybe it is because they first noticed that woman at the same time she noticed him and her nipples got hard, but tell me the truth here what guy is not going to look in that situation unless he is stone cold dead.

Oh well great subject but yes us men should be more conscientious and look more into a woman's eyes instead of at her breasts but that is just the nature of the beast.
 Deed_elvis

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Posted: 6/8/2008 11:24:25 AM
Speaking as someone who has a BIIIIG thing for the chestier female (and if their lucky, they may get to use it!!)

I don't care whether you notice or not, it's one of the few pleasures we still have in life, please don't take "them" away from us!!
 borntoski683

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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:53:17 PM
I wouldn't know, I'm too busy looking at their ass.
 Fishologist

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Posted: 6/14/2008 9:59:36 PM
Like alot of other posters say, it's not OK. You look when you know your not going to get caught , just like you girls look at whatever you like when you know you won't get caught. If you end up being with each other, look away :)
 esperanto67

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Posted: 6/14/2008 11:52:19 PM
Yeah...If you have cleavage and wear those low cut tops that SHOW the cleavage... what the hell? I can speak to a woman, and if I concentrate (yes, thats right) I can keep my eyes up. I swear there is something subconcious there though, and if I get into our convo, I can lose track and catch myself looking strait at 'em like a hungry baby!
Thats the honest truth.
Why do women dress a certain way and complain about being checked out? I respect a woman that dresses conservatively if she doesn't want to be drooled over publically.
But if your clothes are skin tight, revealing or otherwise accentuate your" hotness" don't blame me for looking and don't tell me you just wear that because you want to "feel" pretty... b***sh**!
Being the father of teenage girls I also know that what is "in" has a lot to do with what is available in the clothing stores. One year it was practically impossible to find anything that WASN'T low low cut! It really pissed me off cuz what dad wants to see his daughter's cleavage?
 LukeNineteen80

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Posted: 6/15/2008 12:06:22 AM

I am from London and I have a big chest, I have just meet this guy as a mate and when he is talking to me he is constantly staring at my chest, which I find very rude plus I work in a very male dominated enviorment and my manager does it, and all the other men in the office do it. I just wanna shout out at them

YOU THINK I DON'T KNOW WOT UR DOING U MUGS

PLS LET ME KNOW WHY U THINK IT'S OK TO TALK 2 TITS INSTEAD OF SOMEONES FACE?? TITS DON'T TALK BACK


well something has to make it worth talking to you...=p

on a more serious note, women actually have much better peripheral vision than men, its much easier for your gender to scan things at the sides and bottom and your field of vision than it is for men. Your aren't as great at focusing on one object right in front of you, and you don't have as good depth perception as the tradeoff for this ability. Which is why women aren't as good at aiming a football and parrellel parking, generally speaking. But you can look at things out of the bottom of your eye without others noticing if they aren't paying careful attention.

Men, have what women would consider tunnel vision if they actually could look through our eyes. It's more useful for stuff like hunting, chucking a speer at an animal 20 yards away, throwing a baseball, but it's pretty obvious when we are staring at your tits. Women check out men's packages as well, they are just less obvious about it because their field of vision is larger. And you all do it, don't lie.
 rockinchris

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Posted: 6/15/2008 2:11:50 PM
I doubt they think you don't notice, but probably suspect you won't do anything about it. Please don't hold us all accountable for the jerks and retards though ;)
 gav-isaac

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Posted: 6/15/2008 3:56:16 PM
ueah and if no one looked you'd be on here askin what was wrong with you
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