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 Snarkysmachine
Joined: 7/24/2008
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OMG, we were all born N the nude......while I do agree with ya......this is a perfect example of how Americans R sooooooo uptight and anal about nudity and the human body......OMG, goto Europe, Central or South American.....and see what happens......


No worries. I lived in Europe through most of my teen years and I swear only American men lose their shit when confronted with a pair of tits. Even when I go back to Europe, men are appropriately appreciative of my ample bosom, but not at the level of creepiness displayed by some American guys.
 xeot
Joined: 10/25/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/28/2008 8:30:37 PM

Even when I go back to Europe, men are appropriately appreciative of my ample bosom, but not at the level of creepiness displayed by some American guys.


Hmm... appropriately appreciative... what would that be? I've wondered exactly how that works. I've had women catch me looking and then take it as a compliment, one was the biggest smile I ever got from a woman, ever. Although she was made fun of for being flat chested, so that might have had something to do with it. Most don't seem to even notice or care.
 harliegal
Joined: 8/31/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:21:00 AM
Armondothepb of course I'd enjoy the view. I'd probably call all my girlfriends to come down and check it out too. Then take my cell phone and hopefully get a picture of this monster.

Of course we don't mind if you look. I have to look down occasionally to make sure they aren't jiggling too much. A real boob man I used to date told me about the jiggle. I was in my early 40s and had honestly never heard of that. He said although he loved big boobs, he loved the jiggle more. If you got a good jiggle you knew they were real.
 staffycrackers
Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 604
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:38:04 AM
Tell your tits to stop staring at my face!!! It's SOOOOO rude and offensive!!!! sheesh!
 antonioIII
Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 605
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 10:41:58 AM
if you don't like the attention wear a sweater.
 annabanana1980
Joined: 3/26/2008
Msg: 606
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 11:02:50 AM
its very funny how they think that we havent seen them do it
 clambroth
Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 607
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 6:44:37 PM
How's this. If I answer this post can everyone out there promise not to post another answer so this fricking thread will die. 7/4/06 and its still here. Yaaaaaaaaaaaa
 NeelanJ
Joined: 7/6/2008
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Posted: 7/31/2008 6:49:09 PM
It is actually a game. We like to time how long we can do it, without the girl getting offended.

Judging from your reaction, I am guessing you didn't realize it was a secret 'man game'.

Guys Im sorry, dont get mad at me for revealing our secret.
 Snarkysmachine
Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 609
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Posted: 7/31/2008 6:50:27 PM
^^^^^Can we say a few words about what a good and loving thread this was and how it brought joy into the lives of everyone it touched?
 Lambchop65
Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 610
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/31/2008 6:54:52 PM
Yes, a man will notice.
Yes, they're yours, they're real, and they're fabulous.
so what?

Truthfully, this is the topic of many debates tween my men friends and me.

In the end, women prevail....we have the goods.

This is not to be disrespectful, but acknowledging the fact that men are men and they can't help it. This conclusion is from polling my men and women friends from all income and education levels.

The deciding factor is RESPECT. If a man is a gentleman and truly wants to be with you he will be respectful and willing to wait for the moment of "unveiling'.

Until then, if you're experiencing anything less than the respect you want and deserve, don't waste your time and energy on someone. A true man worth his salt will understand and it will be worth it.
 Stacy_1983
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 611
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/5/2008 12:54:51 AM
i hate when men say that. I don't wear things that intentionally show cleavage. Practically all the clothes out there are cut low and it is unlikely that large breasts were meant to go in them. I'll stand in the mirror and check everything before i go out and there's no problem. It's only when i'm sitting and chatting do i realize that it's there. Glances, ok i can understand, but practically all the attention i get is in that department. It just gets old. Men should be expected to be held to a higher standard instead of blaming us for underdressing
 staffycrackers
Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 612
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Posted: 8/5/2008 7:10:32 AM
You know what's really annoying? When women wear low cut tops that show lots of cleavage. Then when they catch you looking they get offended. That's just plain "ignunt!"
 prissypants58
Joined: 4/9/2008
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Posted: 8/5/2008 11:47:18 AM
well I think it is a Man thing for sure I am not offended by it. I would probably be more offended if they didn't look
 DietCoke┬«Guy
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 614
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Posted: 8/5/2008 6:04:39 PM

if you don't like the attention wear a sweater.

Mmmmmm...sweater boobs...
 TravelingMel
Joined: 7/23/2008
Msg: 615
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Posted: 8/5/2008 6:11:54 PM

TITS DON'T TALK BACK

Yes they do. They say "Play with me."

Actually, the polite thing to do is look at your eyes.
 STH III
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Posted: 8/10/2008 6:50:04 PM
I actually like small breasted women. We all look hon but try not to be noticed. It is biological.
 zeeba
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 617
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/10/2008 7:23:59 PM
I love this thread! It's a hoot (pun intended!)

OK, this is going to be terribly incorrect politically. For a number of reasons...I didn't develop a halfway decent "chest" until just a few years ago. (No, it wasn't plastic surgery or anything close to that! More along the lines of taking care of myself physically and getting into shape.)

It sort of blew my mind when I realized that guys were finally looking at two certain parts of moi. The truth? I still get a kick out of it! Why not?
 Zentimes
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/10/2008 8:27:12 PM
We actually only gaze slightly at the neckline.

Now -- could you explain to us why females always check out men's butts - - -
ALL THE TIME?
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/10/2008 9:49:47 PM

Did it occur to you that we don't care what you think? From the way you talk your rack is the only thing you have going for you so.


Why on earth would you think that?
 OneLifeTwoLive
Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2008 10:14:41 PM
Hmmmm...... I don't stare at boobs. I stare at your lovely heart shaped butt.
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2008 10:48:45 PM
Women have always had this power over men. If you have the slightest hint of an exposed cleavage, our eyes will be inexorably drawn to it. From world leaders to the lowliest of farmers eking out an existence in the desert... We are attracted to you!
Really, anything... calves, thighs... bare arms... The female body has been the number one subject of artists over the ages!
It's just nature.
 OneLifeTwoLive
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Posted: 8/11/2008 9:42:25 AM
That's why I like milk so much. I drink 6 cups a day. Wow, boobs and milk.
 AlwaysAgain
Joined: 3/20/2008
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:24:13 AM
Maybe you should dress more conservatively. Do you wear a tight push-up bra holding your chest out on a plate?
 PretaPorter
Joined: 3/1/2008
Msg: 624
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/11/2008 10:41:32 AM
Men stare at breasts because they like them and they don't have them. OP and others - Stop whining. Either wear a very baggy top or just take it as a compliment.
 Henry L. Moon
Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 625
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Posted: 8/11/2008 10:59:04 AM
Large breasts hypnotize a man and make us do weird stuff ..often we are forced to call large breasts Master, and it is impolite not to look at breasts while they are speaking.....it's just all about having good manners.
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