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 Henry L. Moon

Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 626
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/11/2008 10:59:04 AM
Large breasts hypnotize a man and make us do weird stuff ..often we are forced to call large breasts Master, and it is impolite not to look at breasts while they are speaking.....it's just all about having good manners.
 baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:23:42 PM
It's all magnetic.

Hold two magnets close together, but try not to let them touch. Sooner or later, you'll fail and they'll meet.

It's the same deal with male eyes and female boobs. If you'd prefer, we could look away every two seconds to check the score on the hockey game =P
 Beaugrand®™©

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:00:28 AM
When I stare at boobs, I do try to be discrete, and make every effort to keep my tongue from dragging on the floor. I have no delusion that my attention isn't noticed, as I am sure any woman with stare-worthy breasts is aware she has them and understands they are noticed.

I am also cursed with the ability to detect stare-worthy breasts even under saggy, baggy clothing, so what can I do but try to keep my eyeballs from popping out?

In fact, I would prefer to have just one set to focus my attention on, especially if they adorn the body of a smart woman with some depth to her personality (which are, judging from many- not all- responses here, both very rare characteristics).
 luvsflowers68

Joined: 7/14/2008
Msg: 629
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:16:14 AM
What can I say, What man does not look at a woman's breasts!!!!!! The bigger they are the more they drool and have to pick there jaw off the floor....as far as I can see men do there own thing, while we woman either look at the mens tight butts or beautiful eyes...I for one look at whats on the inside rather than the outside!....
 Henry L. Moon

Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 630
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/12/2008 10:21:14 AM
luvsflowers Darlin'....you gonna look at my tight butt and my beautiful eyes from the inside??????.....Not that I'd be close minded on this....but I would like to know the procedure first please........
 Thanks From CT

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 631
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/12/2008 1:35:24 PM

PLS LET ME KNOW WHY U THINK IT'S OK TO TALK 2 TITS INSTEAD OF SOMEONES FACE?? TITS DON'T TALK BACK


Um, well for me when I am talking to someone I look them in the eyes (yes the whole time).

Now if I’m staring at a woman’s boobs I won’t be talking, drooling maybe but not talking, and I should expect that she’d notice!

If I am staring at boobs it’s because the woman is obviously trying to draw my attention to them and in that case I may say something like ”nice tassels!”

You may be on to something though, I’ve yet to find boobs that can have a conversation with me - although I keep trying!
 Katir

Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 632
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Posted: 8/12/2008 1:44:11 PM
Have you ever considered that they don't realize they are?

I was in CPR class for nursing school and a girl was wearing a low tank top tee-shirt.

She was pressing on the dummy, up and down, and then a friend in class noticed my eyes from accross the room, "hey, behave yourself!"

Lol, I didn't even realize I was staring I wasn't even there, thinking nothing, just watching.

Lol, then the girl gaving CPR laughed, and I turned blood red.

But nursing is kind of different... we're a strange breed. Whether guy or girl we're more accepting of what we all are as men/women. I know she didn't take offence, and they got a big laugh from it from making me blush... again.

Human nature just is what it is sometimes, nothing more, nothing less.
 Sapphireeyes

Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:09:57 PM
I wonder how the poster would feel if no man ever again looked at her tits! Becareful what ya wish for
 sweetjemgirl

Joined: 4/11/2008
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:39:20 PM
Lol, then the girl gaving CPR laughed, and I turned blood red.

But nursing is kind of different... we're a strange breed. Whether guy or girl we're more accepting of what we all are as men/women. I know she didn't take offence, and they got a big laugh from it from making me blush... again.

Human nature just is what it is sometimes, nothing more, nothing less

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I would have laughed to AND took great enjoyment out of you blushing.

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Loving all the replies on here!!!

You bunch of cavemen!!!

I refuse to wear a nun's garb so to deter men staring at my chest, but I am not walking around in a see-though top with the sister's popping out either.

And unless the guy is creepy and making me feel really uncomfortable, I don't get offended, I laugh and might remind them "Hey they don't talk!!" It's fun to see the blushes!




 OneLifeTwoLive

Joined: 5/26/2008
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Posted: 8/15/2008 3:04:27 PM
How come nobody responded to my stupid posts? I thought it was quite funny. Sorry, for dull humour.

Anyway, I wish I had something on my body that could hypnotize the opposite sex. What's the problem with talking boobs anyway?
 YourAngel_a

Joined: 3/5/2008
Msg: 636
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Posted: 8/15/2008 3:26:54 PM
On this subject I tend to stick up for the men on the most part. I don't understand how women can get so offended when a guy looks when they've CLEARLY put them out there to be seen... Mixed messages anyone?

If I put em out there I don't mind if a guy looks in passing, I take it as a compliment : ) But when we talk I would appreciate a little effort at eye contact hehe

 bk0x45

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 8/15/2008 4:44:17 PM
This really is just an automatic response among guys. I'm definitely not a 'tit' guy... and even so, every so often a pair of breasts will draw my eyes like a moth to a flame. It's really not a conscious decision. If it was, I'd be checking out the legs and never move the eyes above the waist. Uh... except when looking into her eyes, that is.
 looone_ranger

Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 638
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/15/2008 7:21:33 PM
we don't, we just try to do it while you're not looking. we look and we know you know we look. just as you look at our arms, our crotch, and eventually check out our behind the minute we turn around to go grab a drink at the bar. most women would understand men who look are probably finding that quite attractive, but you think it's disrespectful. try to have fun with it instead and say something like: "hey, let me know when you're done looking a my chest so that we can continue our conversation". that would probably be a good deterrent. if he's looking, he probably wants you, more power to you, you get to call the shots.
 UAnimosity

Joined: 11/26/2006
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Posted: 8/16/2008 9:34:11 AM
I would stare at your boobs to your face, and if you tried to "call me on it" i would tell you that since you decided to show them off to everyone, you have no right to complain. It's kinda like buying a NSX and hating it for people telling you it looks awesome.

If you don't want guys staring at you, don't advertise. Or you could take it as a compliment like most women since people being attracted to you isn't negative; unless you like playing that game, in which case you're wasting everyone's time.
 FredHH

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Posted: 8/16/2008 11:00:04 AM
Guess I'll just have to get that T-shirt made:

Boob Inspector
Do not disturb
survey in progress



Then I can lok all I want


Oh... wait... I can already look all I want.


Nevermind.
 bluezzz

Joined: 6/22/2008
Msg: 641
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/16/2008 11:05:11 AM
I know I shouldn't stare at breasts.... It's rude, sexist and disrespectful.

But something deep down inside me can't help but stare and wonder what it would be like to put my face in between them and go

wabbawabbawabba

Other than that, I'm looking deeply into their eyes.



Bluezzz
 bardoll37

Joined: 8/9/2008
Msg: 642
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Posted: 8/16/2008 11:12:45 AM
Um....cover up eh?

Well....let me tell ya, being a woman of the well endowed up top persuasion, I have to disagree....

You see, no matter how much you cover up, men still LOOK....

I mean my goodness, a well endowed woman covering up is like a well endowed erect man...well, you know...

....and to a certain extent, they are going to, I mean I get ALOT of attention because of my breasts and bless your hearts, alot of you really try not to look, but I also realize (in balance) that if they peek, I tend not to get mad....but GAWKING....oh, hell no, you are out of control and need to check yourself....

(the only exception to this is married men for me...they need to try even harder)
 Smuggler1

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 643
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Posted: 8/16/2008 12:38:14 PM

wabbawabbawabba


I believe they call that 'motor boatin'

LOL.....




Who wants to bet the women that are complaining the most, are the very ones that dont get dates.... ??
 The harper

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Posted: 8/16/2008 1:19:39 PM
lol, this is hilarious, cause us guys know that when you girls were like 12, 13 the girl that got her boobs first was the most popular with the boys...and all of the flat chests were jealous.

i notice a girls boobs, if she is advertising them, i look at them...you know the girls that wear tight shirts, or low cut shirts, i look....even a few times I've been caught...lol
this girl was like....why don't you take a picture....i said no thanks I've seen better, she called me rude...so I asked her
why she would wear that and not expect to be checked out....
and walked away.
 veritasthrice

Joined: 7/18/2008
Msg: 645
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Posted: 8/16/2008 5:22:34 PM
I've been complemented on looking women in the eyes when talking to them, but there are times where you don't realize you do it. It's human nature to scope out prospective mates, its just the way we are. There have been times I was talking to a woman and realized I ninja glanced down and had to concentrate to look her in the eyes after.

If you want to be prissy about guys checking you out, don't wear things that attract male attention.
 ducboi

Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 8/16/2008 10:14:14 PM
The primary reason women have breasts is to attract men. Every other species does not have swollen breasts unless they are nursing, except humans. Men are genetically programmed to notice womens breasts. Can't help it I'm afraid. What I have always wonder is why women wear clothing that accentuates their breasts, and then get all in a huff when men look at them.
 nobrumski

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Posted: 8/17/2008 12:19:33 AM
I do my best not to look if I am talking to the owner, but glances sometimes can't be helped. You can only resist the pull for so long. At the same time I have been asked for my opinion which gets confusing.

One of the girls I work with one day pulled me aside one time and asked me if her boobs looked bigger that day. I was of course confused and at the same time asking her why she was asking me especially since she was married. Her reply of course was I am a guy and I notice these things. I forget how I answered her.

I guess part of me feels if women put them out there than it is ok to look. At the same time pretty much anything a woman wears is usually putting them out there. I also think that since the pairs I end up catching myself staring at belong to women for the most part who wouldn't give me the time of day I really don't care whether they notice or not.
 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 8/17/2008 7:58:09 AM
I am a little surprised at some of the comments. The original poster said she had a problem with men ogling her boobs at work, and she does not wear seductive clothes at work to get this type of attention.
When I am at work I am in nursing scrubs, and yes, I do get offended if a man stares at my chest. I know guys look, and most of them can't help it, but there is something called discretion. A quick look, maybe, but that should be it.
On the other hand, if I am out to a club, and I am wearing a tight shirt, or cleavage showing, then I should not be offended if a man looks.
I am not small chested, so I am aware of the reaction I cause with certain clothes, but again, I am a professional at work, and deserve to be treated like that.
 Baked.Sushi

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 8/17/2008 8:36:08 AM
Do you Reeally think that they think 'we' don't notice?? lmao

What I would like to know is Why men stare at my rump and no wait, let me start again.
What I would like to know is That men are staring at my rump. There. :D

Hey! Boobs aren't the Only thing men check out!

A Boob is just a Bob without batteries > Boyfriend Out Of Batteries.

And I do Not check out mens zippers!!! Unless they're down, and then it's just out of polite concern ..

A.S.is
 ducboi

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Posted: 8/17/2008 9:44:44 AM

I am a little surprised at some of the comments. The original poster said she had a problem with men ogling her boobs at work, and she does not wear seductive clothes at work to get this type of attention.
When I am at work I am in nursing scrubs, and yes, I do get offended if a man stares at my chest. I know guys look, and most of them can't help it, but there is something called discretion. A quick look, maybe, but that should be it.
On the other hand, if I am out to a club, and I am wearing a tight shirt, or cleavage showing, then I should not be offended if a man looks.
I am not small chested, so I am aware of the reaction I cause with certain clothes, but again, I am a professional at work, and deserve to be treated like that.


Angelnurse, you just have to accept there is not some sort of magic that eliminates all our human instincts when we go from clubs to work. The fact is, it is not really possible to shut of our sexuality. I actually find women sexier in some professional outfits then clubwear. And a nurse outfit....lord help me. lol.
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