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 Smuggler1

Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 651
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 11:17:02 AM

I actually find women sexier in some professional outfits then clubwear. And a nurse outfit....lord help me. lol.


And some women should be happy they have that going for them....
 sometimes-miss

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 4:14:24 PM
Every day, women wake up, go through a lot of trouble to look attractive, and then get pissed off when guys look at them. If you don't want men to look at you, wear a tent. And even then, there's no guarantee; some guys will want to go camping.
 ItsMargo

Joined: 4/24/2007
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Posted: 8/17/2008 4:37:38 PM
Many, many years ago a gay friend/colleague took me to his neighborhood bar to meet his new boyfriend. It was absolutely the strangest sensation... walking through a bar full of men without any notice of me at all... completely devoid of the "checking you out" energy. A vacuum.

yuck. I haven't complained - not even once - since then about men sneaking a peek.
 Baked.Sushi

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Posted: 8/17/2008 5:04:59 PM
I also thought I should add that .. just in case y'all haven't noticed = I do look when you walk away
Gawd I like a nice butt on a man

I do not spend Any time on primping, I just own a really nice pair of jeans

We're sposed ta check each other out! sheesh And I agree with the guys, theres' lots of us chicklets with a whole lot more cleavage than these little puppies can account for! lol .. I mean lets face it, if a guy streaks across the field - I'm Lookin!
mmmmm man parts lmao

A.S.is
just makin the best of the life that's left on my hardrive .. sigh . ..
 Street_Rat

Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 655
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 5:15:13 PM
Either deal with it or get a breast reduction.A lot of guys stare at women's breasts.Nothing is going to change the fact that a large chest gets male attention from a portion of males.So like I said your options are A) Deal with it or B) Stop having large breasts.Its as simple as that.
 j417

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 656
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 5:54:28 PM
Ahhhh….the mysteries of the female mind. Will anyone ever understand them?
If it bothers you, then wear clothing that covers them up. Has this never occurred to you? I know this is possible because I have known women that wore clothes that concealed their big boobs so well that you would never know they were really big boobs. You hardly never see women doing that anymore, because they all want the attention. They love the attention.
It's like the guy above said, why do women wear tops with their boobs hanging out & get upset when we look at their boobs hanging out?
Another mystery of the female mind that will never be solved.
 dyna_guy37

Joined: 10/24/2007
Msg: 657
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 9:26:39 PM
for the most part we're idiots... :P
 TheDirtyBen

Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 658
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2008 9:39:30 PM
If there is a fly buzzing around your face while you are talking to someone, do you totally ignore the fly? Or do you swat at it and shew it away?

My point? They are a distraction! And as hard as some of my male counterparts may try to ignore it, they may find it impossible.

Try tossing it back to them. Stare at their chest too. If they notice, they will probably think they have some food on them and ask. Then, nonchalantly say that you can't keep youe eyes off of their "man-boobs".
I'm sure that a few will become self-concious!
 nosmo-king

Joined: 4/14/2008
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Posted: 8/18/2008 5:23:59 AM
of course u notice it, but how many women do u see walking down the street with coats or jackets wide open and showing their tits till some man looks then they close the coats, its the same with thode slit 2 the waist skirts, u hold them closed as u walk along so why choose 2 wear that style in the 1st place.
 FredHH

Joined: 1/24/2007
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Posted: 8/18/2008 10:54:29 AM
Posted By: nosmo-king
of course u notice it, but how many women do u see walking down the street with coats or jackets wide open and showing their tits till some man looks then they close the coats, its the same with thode slit 2 the waist skirts, u hold them closed as u walk along so why choose 2 wear that style in the 1st place.


some women aren't happy unless they have something to complain about... So they wear stuff that will guarantee "unwanted" attention so they will have something to yell about.

And yes... some men have figured it out.
 luvsflowers68

Joined: 7/14/2008
Msg: 661
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Posted: 8/18/2008 11:12:01 AM
Lmao Henry, you read that last part wrong, I said I look at whats on the inside rather the outside! don't necessary mean I go inside the body rotflmao...omg! I look at a man's personality, their tenderness, there love for life, etc! your too funny!
 chrisvm31

Joined: 8/20/2006
Msg: 662
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/18/2008 11:12:31 AM
A very smart man once said "Staring at cleavage is like staring at the sun. If you do it for too long, you'll get burned!"

I don't think there is anything wrong with appreciating a woman's beauty and "checking her out", but while talking to her, it's important to remember that nipples are not eyes.
 TheDirtyBen

Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 663
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/18/2008 11:33:11 AM
Yeah, but most guys don't desire to suck on eyes!!!
 bk0x45

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 8/18/2008 11:48:36 AM
Fred&Nosmo:You both missed the point. Women want attention... but only from the guys they want attention from and not necessarily anyone else. And they believe that a)those guys they want attention from should know they are in that group, just as those who aren't should know and b)those guys they don't want attention from should just ignore the display.
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/20/2008 11:26:48 AM
I am also here to participate in this brand new and enlightening discussion.
 MeereKat

Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 666
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/21/2008 10:20:24 AM
....because they're Rude, Stupid, Vulgar Idiots, maybe..??
As self conscious as I am about eye-contact .. I make _special_ efforts
to not let my attention wander too far from her Eyes..!!
Some guys Do have Some manners..!!
... ...
 Frankycadillac

Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 8/21/2008 2:44:51 PM
why talk to tits? exactly why you said...they don't talk back.

I dunno, some girls like it when you stare at them, cause they're proud of em.

at the workplace maybe not so cool...but a nice set of cans are a hard thing to ignore.

and honestly if you liked the guy would you mind? methinks we need some photographic evidence.
 jimmycrowell

Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 668
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Posted: 8/21/2008 2:52:43 PM
I like to see a great lookingg and beautifull woman also that why god made men this way and woman that way
 heyhd

Joined: 6/18/2008
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Posted: 8/21/2008 4:07:09 PM


I am from London and I have a big chest


Captain Redundant! Thank God you came.
 lookinatit

Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 670
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/22/2008 12:11:09 PM
Every woman I was ever with always told me; "you can look but don't stare and don't touch".
 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 8/22/2008 1:31:33 PM
Angelnurse ~
I am a little surprised at some of the comments. The original poster said she had a problem with men ogling her boobs at work, and she does not wear seductive clothes at work to get this type of attention.
When I am at work I am in nursing scrubs, and yes, I do get offended if a man stares at my chest. I know guys look, and most of them can't help it, but there is something called discretion. A quick look, maybe, but that should be it.
On the other hand, if I am out to a club, and I am wearing a tight shirt, or cleavage showing, then I should not be offended if a man looks.
I am not small chested, so I am aware of the reaction I cause with certain clothes, but again, I am a professional at work, and deserve to be treated like that.


Ok I understand what you are saying but what about the guys that are just like some women and "love the uniform" I mean IDK how many times I've heard that from a woman "nothing better than a guy in uniform." So with that in mind who's to stop a guy from doing the same thing.

Just being a little devils advocate on my return to the forums hehe

Best of luck to everyone
 holigolightly

Joined: 5/19/2008
Msg: 672
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Posted: 8/22/2008 1:35:44 PM
It's one thing to love a man in uniform, but it's another thing to stare at his junk for a very indiscreet/uncomfortable amount of time. Just saying -
 TravelingMel

Joined: 7/23/2008
Msg: 673
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/22/2008 1:41:44 PM

Every day, women wake up, go through a lot of trouble to look attractive, and then get pissed off when guys look at them. If you don't want men to look at you, wear a tent. And even then, there's no guarantee; some guys will want to go camping.

This is too funny.

My ex-wife was completely honest about this subject. She said women maintain their appearance and dress provactively because they want a man to look at them.

It's simple. If you don't want a guy to look at you then ugly up, fatten up and get a ****y attitude.
 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 8/22/2008 1:46:52 PM
I'm just being devil's advocate.

I was a pizza delivery guy for a long time and trust me I was uncomfortable with women staring at my junk and making lewd comments while I was trying to give them change or there pizza. I've also worked in places that are 98% female and seen and watched how they reacted to a UPS or FEDEX guy that they thought was hot.

Best of luck to everyone
 Triumvirat

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 8/22/2008 3:52:22 PM
Women always get upset when a man they don't find attractive gives them any attention beyond being invisible
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