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 TravelingMel

Joined: 7/23/2008
Msg: 673
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/22/2008 1:41:44 PM

Every day, women wake up, go through a lot of trouble to look attractive, and then get pissed off when guys look at them. If you don't want men to look at you, wear a tent. And even then, there's no guarantee; some guys will want to go camping.

This is too funny.

My ex-wife was completely honest about this subject. She said women maintain their appearance and dress provactively because they want a man to look at them.

It's simple. If you don't want a guy to look at you then ugly up, fatten up and get a ****y attitude.
 nice_catch77

Joined: 3/28/2007
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Posted: 8/22/2008 1:46:52 PM
I'm just being devil's advocate.

I was a pizza delivery guy for a long time and trust me I was uncomfortable with women staring at my junk and making lewd comments while I was trying to give them change or there pizza. I've also worked in places that are 98% female and seen and watched how they reacted to a UPS or FEDEX guy that they thought was hot.

Best of luck to everyone
 Triumvirat

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 8/22/2008 3:52:22 PM
Women always get upset when a man they don't find attractive gives them any attention beyond being invisible
 artistic-serenity*

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 676
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/22/2008 7:28:29 PM
LOL is a magnetic pull thing lol...


 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 9:01:29 AM
nice catch. I actually work at an air force base, so I see men in uniform, and flight suits all day long, and yes, some of them are very hot, but I don't ogle them. That would be disrespectful.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Posted: 8/24/2008 9:08:13 AM
debstar I also have a decent chest and men are always looking.............LOL It's never really bothered me because I like my breasts, so be proud and stand tall.............Cheers.
 Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008
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Posted: 8/24/2008 10:55:28 AM
It's simple. If you don't want a guy to look at you then ugly up, fatten up and get a ****y attitude.
Well, now...THAT tactic didn't work very well, now did it?

Next parallel question: Why do women stab each other in the back to have sole access to a very desirable man/future mate, and don't think that men don't notice?
 LemonVision

Joined: 5/2/2008
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Posted: 8/24/2008 11:34:05 AM
Just a side effect of being attractive I suppose. Let it go; avoid those guys if you want to. I'm afraid that in evolutionary terms, the form of the female breast developed precisely for this reason.
 c130herc

Joined: 6/16/2008
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Posted: 8/24/2008 3:09:04 PM
Why do women with large breasts wear low cut sweaters and v neck shirts... You know you want us to look and when we do ... Then we are pigs....
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 6:59:36 PM

I am from London and I have a big chest, I have just meet this guy as a mate and when he is talking to me he is constantly staring at my chest, which I find very rude plus I work in a very male dominated enviorment and my manager does it, and all the other men in the office do it. I just wanna shout out at them

YOU THINK I DON'T KNOW WOT UR DOING U MUGS

PLS LET ME KNOW WHY U THINK IT'S OK TO TALK 2 TITS INSTEAD OF SOMEONES FACE?? TITS DON'T TALK BACK


Being it that you don't have a pic and you say all the guys are staring I'll assume you have an exceptionally large chest.

With that in mind.......

........of course they're gonna look!! If my penis was hanging out of my pant leg you think women wouldn't notice?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 7:04:03 PM
Something else to keep in mind.........

Us guys are usually taller than the women we talk to (at least I am) so we are already looking downwards anyways.......

........and if we're shorter than we are already looking straight at them.......
 artistic-serenity*

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 684
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Posted: 8/24/2008 7:29:07 PM
LOL

As for large chested and low cut shirt… Hey, I tend to believe that if you’ve got it, love it… (((hell I could wear a turtle neck and still show cleavage lol…)))

(((I Do think some women get tooo uptight about this... am sure it makes it hard on guys when SOME women pull the "look at me but how dare you look there BS"... ((no pun intended)) ...lol tooo funny...

By the way... Trekker ummm what was that about "If my penis was hanging out of my pant leg you think women wouldn't notice?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?"???? ....... sorry was distracted LOL

:angel:
:devil:
 Angelnurse10

Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 7:44:21 PM
Trekker. I would have to agree with you on the penis comment. I would probably take a quick glance if it was large enough to show under your pants also, BUT, I would not stare. I think women are better than men when it comes to that.
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 8:44:24 PM

(((hell I could wear a turtle neck and still show cleavage lol…)))


You just wrote that so guys would look at your profile........

.......it worked


(((I Do think some women get tooo uptight about this... am sure it makes it hard on guys when SOME women pull the "look at me but how dare you look there BS"... ((no pun intended)) ...lol tooo funny...


But if they WANT me to look and I don't then of course I'd be gay.......


By the way... Trekker ummm what was that about "If my penis was hanging out of my pant leg you think women wouldn't notice?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?"???? ....... sorry was distracted LOL


Ah ha! Caught ya lookin'.........

.......... bad girl........
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/24/2008 8:57:26 PM

Trekker. I would have to agree with you on the penis comment. I would probably take a quick glance if it was large enough to show under your pants also, BUT, I would not stare. I think women are better than men when it comes to that.


I can understand that but at the same time keep in mind that most women's breasts DO show underneath what they wear and most of us guys do manage to keep it to a quick glance and not stare.

But now if a real sexy lady were wearing, say, a tight white top that starts at her left shoulder and ends up cutting all the way down to her right breast...... I could still look her in the eye and discuss quantum physics or whatever.......

....... but every now and then you might get a "I'm sorry. What was that?" while we're talking
 jrbickers123

Joined: 6/9/2008
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Posted: 8/24/2008 9:07:41 PM
women are more attracted to the entire body, so they dont have any particular spot that they will be caught staring at. or if they do its not something overly sexual, afterall no woman is gonna stare at a man's groin unless he is naked, you cant see anything when he is wearing pants.

women have a lot more points of interest to look at, and due to todays views on sex you are going to find that there is a LOT of interest on women's bodies compared to mens.

factor in men are usually hornier than women, and you are going to see that men will be caught gawking a LOT more often than women. and they will be gawking at areas you cant make an excuse for.


no we arent all pigs, we dont spend every hour of the day thinking of your D cups. we dont all stare when we see them. But if my gaze ever turns across a beautiful woman's chest and i linger, and she sees then confronts me with "ARE YOU STARING AT MY BOOBS?" what is the first thing the guy will say? chances are hes gonna deny it because hes embarrased.
 David3634955

Joined: 12/3/2007
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Posted: 8/25/2008 1:06:00 AM
I just don't like looking at breasts unless they are on private display specifically for me. It seems like that's not all that illogical, but that's just me.

Then again, I open doors for women even if they're unattractive and with their boyfriends, and otherwise try to act decent no matter what the circumstances, so what're you gonna do, right?

~ David
 samstyles

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 690
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Posted: 8/25/2008 7:34:00 AM
I know that this isn't something that all men do, and to be honest if it isn't overdone, when I notice someone looking at me appreciatively it can make me smile and put a spring in my step/wiggle in my walk, even if they're totally not my type.
There are how ever some blokes that do this in such a way as it is quite disturbing and insulting, and I dont understand it.
The most prevalent example I can think of is a man I work with on average 1 or 2 days in 5. He's happily married, very loving towards his wife even in her absence, and yet he's such an ogler! If I didn't take evasive action I swear there are times he'd end up drooling down inside my tops!
In every other way he's a nice enough bloke, and his attentions are no more aimed at me than any other woman, he's just an ogler!
I believe he'd never want to do anything about it and would never do more than look and I believe he feels faithful to his wife and wouldn't want to be any other way. In the past I've accepted lifts from him, including to a hotel we were both staying at on business where we ate together and as I was conservatively dressed I felt totally ok about it.

Every now and again, I guess most people have their heads turned occasionally, no matter how much they are in love and want to be exclusive with their SOs, but regular and very open ogling just seems different to me and I dont understand it.

I sometimes wonder if its partly a case of 'if its on display, then the owner wants it to be looked at', but there is such a difference between looking and ogling, and in the work place?...
Yuck!

I'm just that bit more careful about neck and hem lines when I think it likely I'll be around someone like that. At work, I guess I'm less likely to make a scene as I want to be able to work well with everyone, but in other circumstances I might not handle it so patiently!

Should it ever be followed up with a suggestive comment or bodily contact, I'd make it VERY clear it wasn't welcome and if he persisted he should expect damaged equipment either way!
 jacksonguitars

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 691
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Posted: 8/25/2008 8:11:08 AM
Well I am shy so a woman would never have to worry about it if I was still on the dating seen because I would be looking at the ground or my shoes lol. Now my g/f I know guys can't help because well she has a very large chest (G is a big letter guys lol) so it doesn't bother me if guys look because I also know she and they are coming home with me. Not the guy who walking down the street just stared at her chest as we walked past.
 jacksonguitars

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 692
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Posted: 8/25/2008 8:14:00 AM

It's never really bothered me because I like my breasts, so be proud and stand tall.............Cheers.


Not every woman's stands tall though lol
 manfishy

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Posted: 8/25/2008 12:30:55 PM
Do you dress to expose, or modestly cover your breasts?
He may be assuming you are dressing just so he WILL look, and take it from there.

I see many women dress seductively, and wonder why men look.
This really baffles me. Do women realize men are turned on sexually, by sight?
 carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 8/25/2008 2:54:44 PM
Why do women have their boobs hanging out of their blouse and then ask why men look at them ?

So men like looking at boobs !
Get over it !

Women look at mens backsides in tight pants so whats the difference ?
 Mikezt

Joined: 7/6/2008
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Posted: 8/25/2008 4:07:15 PM

When a guy starts looking at my chest instead of my face, I just say, "You must be really tired, your eyes are sliding down." I consider it a mark of a gentleman if he can maintain eye contact throughout an entire conversation, and yes, I have known a few!


One of the best lines I heard in college was "They won't answer"
 sunnybunny60

Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 8/25/2008 4:07:57 PM
I think because they don't have such beautiful things hanging from their bodies
 superbadzzz

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Posted: 8/25/2008 4:39:38 PM
i'm very sorry but i decided that writing you a politically correct response wasn't as fun as thinking about staring at your knockers.
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