| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 11:48:00 AM | It's interesting that the OP has got internet pics displaying her cleavage then complains when guys notice them.
No offense to large breasted ladies, but you ladies shouldn't wear revealing and/or tight tops if you don't like to receive that attention.
I'd think most ladies love receiving that attention. It doesn't make sense to complain about this.
When I see a big breasted lady showing off her assets, I deliberately ignore them, look her in the eye. I mastered this practice at work where a lady with the biggest hooters imaginable worked the reception area. She layed those taters right on her desktop, with blouse opened to show them off; her desk was on a sunken part of the floor so you couldn't really help but feast your eyes on those mams. I deliberately had staring contests with her to prove that I would check out those ta-tas!
But you damn bet you I'm going to sneak a peak when she ain't looking!  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 12:31:06 PM | If a woman is wearing a push up bra, a low cut top, and one of those necklaces that run halfway down their clevage, then I suspect they are wanting guys to stare at their boobs. It may not be a conscious decision on the part of the women, but instinctually, wearing those kinds of clothes they know what they are getting themselves into. And instinctually, guys will peak.
But like Seinfeld says, boobs are like the sun: You don't stare! You take a quick look, then turn away. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/6/2006 12:39:04 PM | "Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch?"
Well, if I was wearing a speedo and had a tight butt and large package, should I be surprised that she was staring? What would you think of me if I went into a business meeting wearing a speedo, showing off my hypotheticly tight butt and large package? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/8/2006 12:04:51 PM | I deliberately had staring contests with her to prove that I would check out those ta-tas!
lol ..bike man ..even just thinking about them has muddled your motor skills.....didn't ya mean you wanted to prove that you WOULDN'T check out those tatas!
you men are so cute...even when ya don't want to be..  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/8/2006 12:10:10 PM | | dr.strangelove: "It may not be a conscious decision on the part of the women, but instinctually, wearing those kinds of clothes they know what they are getting themselves into. And instinctually, guys will peak."
Yes...guys will peek....and then they will peak...tis your nature, no?
What would you think of me if I went into a business meeting wearing a speedo, showing off my hypotheticly tight butt and large package?
I would most definitely be listening with my eyes and hope that sometime during your presentation you would "peak".
just teasin. of course we get your peak. I mean point. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/8/2006 12:16:34 PM | Well, blame the testostrone.
I can somewhat relate to Bike's story. A long time ago, in an office where I worked, we had a young Italian woman ( quite cute) that had a habit of undoing about four buttons on her blouse, and not wearing a bra. She was not Dolly Parton (thank god) , but what she was given by God was still quite nice, perky...and often visible.
She used to make the coffee in the office occasionally and , in the process of doing that, attracted quite a crowd of males interested in....coffee.  As she would bend over to get everything ready, the assembled masses in front of her could be heard drawing a deep collective breath.
The best part is that she thought they were all there for her coffeemaking skills. 
Worst part ? I used to be a tea drinker before I worked with her... 
In my defense, I was young and single at the time, and she WAS quite attractive (even if not the brightest bulb on the tree...)
And no...I didn't stare...but my peripheral vision improved 1000 percent. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:20:40 AM | Why do men stare at boobs?
There is a scientific/medical reason if one cares to know.
Women's have better peripheral vision while a man's is narrower. Hence, the reason a woman will find stuff and a man usually has to be directed to look around a bit. However, if it's in his DIRECT line of path he's usually better at seeing it.
So, since boobs are in a DIRECT line, man is inclined to look there automatically and has to learn some method of control to not be obivious. Yeh, right.
Well....enuf said? And don't beat me up on this. These apply generally. So not ALL men will be ogres in staring and not All women can see a kid reaching for the cookies without cranking a turn. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:27:50 AM | I'm the master of sneak peeking. I'll look the ladies in the eye and the moment they're certain I'm not "one of those pigs" my eyes wander south, ever wary of her own suspicious orbs. We're men ... this is what we do. I don't think the ladies would actually like it if we stopped looking because we suddenly became collectively disinterested in their boobies.
To answer the question in the header though, well sure, I know you know I'm looking at what god gave you. Sometimes you'll even catch me doing it. I have yet to hear a woman in real life complain about that though. Hmmm.... | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:35:48 AM | You've got it backwards me dear.
Men DONT talk to women boobs. The average man stand a head higher then the average woman. So when hes talking to her face her boobs are also in line too.
Women THINK that these guys are talking to thier boobs. because women are so totally obsessed by their boobs, that if they lose one, to breast cancer, they are geuinely unable to function, as normal humans, until it's been rebuilt. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:37:53 AM | "Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch?"
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Actually Strangelove. I wouldn't even notice. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:42:36 AM | | Then again, there are the women who are constantly thinking men are looking at their boobs when they really aren't. I had an ex-girlfriend who accused me of this all the damn time. I would finally ask her, "Why would I have to sneak a peek at the boobs of my own girlfriend?" | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 8:57:52 AM |
lol ..bike man ..even just thinking about them has muddled your motor skills.....didn't ya mean you wanted to prove that you WOULDN'T check out those tatas!
hi gypsy, i'm misunderstood here; staring contest means i looked into her eyes only while talking to her, didn't move my eyes off hers for a moment. you remember how you had staring contests with friends, to see who would look away first? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 9:13:39 PM | I'm a 5ft 6 1/2, 156pds female with 38D breasts, it's not because i wear revealing clothing that men stare. It doesn't bother me that they do hell women stare as well. I've just chopped it up as God has blessed me with a nice ass and chest and he has blessed others with eyes to see.
I don't wear revealing clothing to receive attention, I wear clothing that compliments my body type and when both women and men stare I'm flattered.
If I were to challenge a man it would be to see if they could guess what size my "puppies" are.
Besides everyone stares, hell most of us base our attraction on the physical attributes and that's fine.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 9:24:02 PM | Silky3511 on 7/4/2006 5 52 PM
Subject: Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Message: Men have two brains!! and which one is used the most!
yes, its true, tow brains, but only enough blood to operate one at a time.
when there is a great looking cleavage visible, thats where the attention goes
men are shallow horndogs
no other way to view it,, show me your tips please | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 9:36:01 PM | this is my personal view in regards to my values. please don't try and ARGUE
i think control of the senses is important.
to have some control.
do a few meditation courses and you won't feel the desire to give in to temptations for sensual pleasures.
and to have some respect would be nice.
they may be erotic zones, and areas which are sexual feel good ares for men visually but they are not there to be looked at/gleered at/stared at/said hi to/
they do not look at you. you can make as many excuses as you like.
it is respectful to keep your need for visual sensual desires and pleasures to yourself when speaking to women, and to look them in the eye. when you look them in the eye you are looking at THEM, when you look at their body you are looking at a body, not them.
some eyes are very intrusive. men don't necessarily know what a woman feels when they look at her breasts, and whether she likes men looking at them, and whether she feels comfortable with the, looking at her breasts. men do not ask permission, they just look, and i find this quite dishonourable and disrepectful.
Unless of course, it's a woman who has them all out on display for that purpose.
Some men should have some control or save it for home when they can look at all their play boy magazines as much as they like.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 9:45:30 PM | Personally, I don't pay much attention to chests or the size. It's not my thing really. It does tick me off that it seems like men think they should feel like crap or like a rapist for just noticing a woman's attractive features, though. This thread shouldn't exist. The very title alone is stating that there is some kind of shame in noticing another human being's body.
Yet at the same time most women seem to be very concerned about the size and presentation of breasts. Very hypocritical and just another way to try and make men feel like
they are less than human. Yet another tool in the extreme feminist juggernaut I guess. Maybe someday we can all grow up and put this garbage aside. | |
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