| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 10:35:57 PM | Ok, now that is a new one... we should ask permission to look at someone boobies. HAHAHA I think every guy should do that atleast once tomorrow, dear god that would be great. News channels across the world "A record number of men were slapped today for requesting permission to oggle a random womans breats."
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:39:17 PM | Who are YOU talking to buddy???? mr Stitch???? huh???
you wouldn't want to be referring to me. I NEVER said guys should ask for permission, that would be rediculous.
show some respect and don't go telling ME to think before i post.
go to a meditation course, you might come out a little less ignorant and have some more moralistic values. And appreciate women more for their insides rather than a part of a body you can jerk off at from any men's magazines.
maybe you didn't get enough mummy's milk when you were little...still a sucker for more
sorry that was very harsh, but i don't appreciate it. i don't appreciate people telling me to think before they post. in MY PERSONAL opinion, i don't believe men have the full right to STARE at women's breats, permission or not. that is a given with my values. lucky i won't have any of you guys staring at mine.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:47:14 PM | I don't have that problem, so I can't really identify with your frustration in dealing with this. But lets turn the table a little.
A few months back ... probably almost a year ago ... a guy started a thread about what women look at when they look at a guy. Almost overwhelmingly the reply was ... well trying to put it nicely here ... the area directly below his belt. I could not believe how blunt the ladies were about admitting it ... but there it was ... for all the world to read ... ladies openly admitting to it.
So it does not surprise me that men also admit to looking at our breasts ... well not mine ... but ladies with large breasts. It's unfortunate that they are doing it. Will it ever stop? ... not likely.
Keep them covered and enjoy the attention ... if it gets too annoying, take a long look at them ... ummmm ... in that area directly below the belt. That should stop the staring immediately!
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:56:44 PM | | Is it a crime now? I am always respectful of women who I work with (because I know women don't like this) but if its some stranger that I'll just see walkby for 2 seconds, who really cares? It's not like they will notice you. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 12:09:12 AM | in your case Mr Ivan..that is not a problem..2 seconds walking by ..and they don't notice.
but yes, that is interesting about women saying that. i like to look at their eyes when I am talking to them or if they are talking to me :) (and most other times as well...never do i think to look below their waist. so i guess my views might purely be my views.this is ok. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 1:42:11 AM | | I don't have to worry, i look down and admire her toes...either that or i am man enough to look her in the eyes and marvel at her face..i think they get frusterated waiting for me to stare at boobs, but..i am a gentleman.. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:44:13 AM | that is SOOOOOO lovely!!!!
that is sooooooo nice to read a polite gentleman's response!!
very decent man.
with respect.
and to do the RESPECTFUL thing and look women in the EYE is the best and you deserve to be applauded for a lovely response!  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:08:47 PM | No it wasnt harsh, but maybe tone down the anger component. And also, in an discussinon, stick to your AGRUEMENT, directly attacking someone, "attacking the man" moves your discussion which is impersonal onto a personal level. This does not have the result intended, which would be strengthing your position, it actually undermines you and your previous arguements begin to loose credibility.
Just a suggestion though. And for those that are wondering, in university we had an AWESOME class, not for credits just as general interest which was called "The art of argument." probably one of the most fun classes ever.
Anyway back to point I was going to make.
In your statement "men do not ask permission, they just look, and i find this quite dishonourable and disrepectful". One would have to assume that if a man then DID ask permission it would then be seen as honourable and respectful?
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:25:43 PM | | Men stare because it's instinctive...not because we're being pervs. Man is animal, as such we tend to be rather visual in nature. Much like a woman as she glares at his butt or sizes him up body wise. Long stares that are done on purpose are more likely the guys that have no common sense...so that I can understand women getting upset about. But if it's just walking by or a glance your way...it's not meant to be taken a perverted nature. Men were raised by the breasts and find pleasure about the breasts...it's just our human nature. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 4:33:32 PM | Well I have a big chest ...apparently lmao and I even stare at women's chests if they are there I can't help myself and I do apologise sometimes hahaha and even my girlfriends who aren't bi do it to me. It is rather simple really if u have such a problem with the looks get minimiser bras and wear colours and patterns than will make your chest look flatter and tops that show no cleavagealso with necklaces make sure they are short so the pendant doesn't hang between them. From one big gal to another u know u can disguise it if u wanted to lol I am more annoyed tht I find it a mare to get a top or jacket that fits me rather than ppl looking at my chest and the fact that I have to go to department stores or order online as u either have bras that look like they were made for your size 26 granny to parachute with dring the 2nd world war or the cups in a 2 piece in your waist size are still far too small. I spent nearlly a ton on a bikini and had to be sly and put a bigger top on the hanger praying the checkout girl never checked lol
Anyhow I used to get called the walking/dancing chest at work was funny though cos when I got into an arguement with another manager I just pulled the sexual harrassment card haha ;o)
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 7:09:59 PM | | It takes alot of work not to look.....I try to maintain eye contact but those glances are just going to happen....Many times it may not be a sexual look...just part of conversation. I'd say if they are staring thats different.....Woman glance at our lower area...does that mean its sexual??? I'd say not to get to wrapped up into it....men are going to look....You can only control what you do....If it bothers you that much wear bulky clothing. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:15:45 PM | Hey, I stare at my own pec's in the mirror. It's art. But don't worry baby-girl, age
will catch up with you sooner or later, or you may drop some kids at which
time you will start to notice that guys no longer stare at you like you used to.
It all works out in the end. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 9:00:14 PM | Just in the male defence I would like to comment on this subject. Yes some men do stare and gawk at women breasts, but sometimes I find women wear such tops that show so much cleavage. If woman wish to expose your cleavage then you have to expect to recieve attention.
On a opposite note; agreed, some men are pigs and can staring.
Just keep in mind, if you wear something revealling its an invite.
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:18:53 PM | | it's true. i acutally wear low cut shirts on the first date to see if the guy has any respect for me. if he can do it without me noticing all the time i am cool. if not, then i know what's on his mind and i din't bother. i show them off because i want you lo look, but i don't want to be able to straight up catch you. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:22:28 PM | haven't read any of the other posts.
i'm going to assume you didn't mean London, Ontario. either that, or your definition of 'mate' would be the key reason to your problem.
to keep it short and sweet... you're either exposing your attributes, you think that others are always looking at them because you want the attention subconciously, or because you have nice 'attributes'.
gee, i'd hate to be in this girls shoes *rolls eyes*
PLS LET ME KNOW WHY ALL GOOD LOOKING CHICKS STARE AT MY BEST FRIEND WHOS A GUY THAT ALSO MODELS. | |
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