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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/14/2006 10:51:01 AM | I can keep my eyes at a respectable height. If I am talking to a lady, then I am talking to her. Not her boobs.
On the other hand. If you've taken the trouble to wear a low cut shirt and are showing off your cleavage. I will notice. I do not lear, I do not smirk or drool. I notice. How can you notice without taking a peek? You can't. A quick discreet glance or two. If you notice my eyes dip, please consider it a compliment. They won't be staying down there.
I don't drink too often but this one office party I was at, I got a little more than tipsy. I was sitting across from a pretty lady that liked to flirt with guys. My eyes kept on dipping and eventually they got stuck. She tilted her head down in line with my gaze and didn't say a word. My eyes behaved themselves after that. I'm very happy that she was so classy about it and didn't take offense. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/14/2006 11:26:17 AM | I have a black t-shirt that reads: "Bodyguard or..." across the chest and "Bouncer! You choose!" across the back.
Does this help? lol
I like the looks on peoples faces when they read it.....
You can look if you want. I don't mind the looks, I find the mouth open drooling to be some what irritating though. | |
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exxess
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:15:37 PM | | Funny thing happened the other day. Since reading this forum I've been a little concientious of looking at womens breast so I try to keep my head a certain level while passing a woman. Particularly busty women. Yesterday, I walked pasted Erin( a very voluptous woman) and my co worker Joanne said " Hey are you look like your staring out into space ". Which, what I was actually trying to do was not look at Erin. So it seems like being a man your damn if you look at them and damned if you don't. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:40:39 PM | | Exxess. your post reminded me of a former co-worker who had taken a few days off while getting breast reduction surgery. The day she came back, we were talking and she had to stop mid-sentence to tell me "It's ok, you can look". I guess she noticed how hard I was struggling to maintain eye contact. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 1:35:44 PM | | I used to work at a jewery store. Women would come in and bend over the counter all the time to look at the jewery. Obviously when a woman does this, her boobs often go on display. I simply instinctively looked. It was great when the woman was young and attractive, but often she was old, wrinkled, liver spotted, and droopy. Those were the times I cringed inside. So the answer is. . .we can't help it. If you don't want to have them looked at, put them away. I can never understand it when a woman wears a top that is cut where even a few inches of cleavage is showing, and then becomes offended if you glance at the girls. Try as I may, I just got to look. Probably in my casket, when the women bend over and look in to say their last good byes, I'll glace up and think, "nice tits". LOL | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 1:58:12 PM |
So what you lovely men are telling me is that because I have big breasts, if I wear a tight t-shirt I am automatically accorded less respect than a man, a flat-chested woman, or a similar shaped woman wearing baggy clothes. That because I happen to have the type of breasts that are considered ideal by society's standards, they have somehow become public property and how I choose to cover them is the business of every male I might come into contact with. And that if I have a problem with this, I'm obviously neurotic. Hmmm...
No, we're saying as men, we're going to look. Period.
If you can get women to stop pulling the "I have a vagina, so I have the right to be a neurotic mess" card, then I'll see what I can do about guys looking at boobs.
Here's a question for all of you enlightened men - if you are having a conversation with an older, married, unattractive female co-worker, or your female boss, it wouldn't bother you if she spent the entire time gazing at your crotch? What if that female staring at your penis just happened to be standing next to you on the subway, or a customer?
I would probably ask if they were enjoying the view, and hope in the back of my head that they wanted a taste
What if the person staring at your crotch and obviously not listening to a word you say was a male, homosexual co-worker. Wouldn't make you uncomfortable?
Absolutely. But I'm not gay either. Would a lesbian staring at your ass make you uncomfortable?
One more thing - the men who stare, comment on, and grab the aforesaid large breasts are much less likely to be issued an invitation to spend quality time with them than the men who show some respect and restraint.
If you have the incourtesy to stare, comment on, or grab a girl's tits, uninvited, then you deserve to be slapped. I'm condoning the glance, not any of that other crap. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 2:58:18 PM | debstar on 7/4/2006 10 34 PM
Subject: Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Message: I am from London and I have a big chest, I have just meet this guy as a mate and when he is talking to me he is constantly staring at my chest, which I find very rude plus I work in a very male dominated enviorment and my manager does it, and all the other men in the office do it. I just wanna shout out at them
LOL go up to them real close and say " hey boy.. you peckish " and watch em run a mile ,
Bless ya though you can't hide them at all can you.... they are rather large, | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 3:38:45 PM | Just ignor him when he says something, when he realizes you are totaly ignoring his words he will look you in the "eyes" and ask why you are ignoring him... thats when you ask him if its ok if you stare at his****while you talk to him since its got more brains then he does. If that doesn't work, tell him you will file sexual harassment charge against him if he doesn't stop it. Of course then he'll never talk to you again.
Problem solved.
I met a girl last summer and we were talking about men doing that, and she said something about noticing me not doing it... So I told her its not because I don't like hers... I certainly do, so from now on I talk to your boobs and thats exactly what I do 
I only do it occasionally because she said something about it once, she laughs about it, if she seemed angry or told me to stop I would. I would have asked her out for a date a long time ago, but she's barely over that 15 year limit I try putting on myself so I won't ask her out, now if she asked me out... I'd have to say yes cause she's beautiful, and has an awesome personality, plus a nice rack as a bonus. Anyways... I got sidetracked... lol
Yes men love boobs, so do many women, and women love mens chest muscles... I'm sure you look at them when you see a man with his shirt off... even if you won't admit it. Normally, I talk while looking in a womans eyes.
Unless you directly tell them its making you uncomfortable, they assume you don't care if they look. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 3:51:08 PM | I don't know, but it's annoying. I don't have a "big chest"..C cup, but I was at a job interview once and the man preparing to interview me looked me in the eye when I reached out to shake his hand, then just literally talked to my tits.
At first I tried to answer his mundane questions without getting to nervous/annoyed and I crossed my arms, but it only made my cleavage obvious....
"blah, blah, blah can you start on Monday?" I said "Well, let me ask the girls....Sherry (my left breast) would you be free on Monday? Ok, and Mary (my right breast...don't make fun of Mary, she's slightly smaller than her sister) would you be free to start on Monday? Monday's NOT good for either of you?" then I just walked out of the office. He never said a word. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 4:08:31 PM | I know it's been said before, but look at the amount of cleavage you display on your profile. If women are going to show off their girlie parts in public, men are going to look. If that wasn't your object in wearing the hoochie shirt, then cover those titties before you leave the house, woman!
Idiotic arbitrary double-standards - WTF?! | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 4:13:25 PM | Also I'd like to point out that just because a man is looking downward doesn't mean he's looking at your chest. I, personally, don't look at a person's eyes the entire time I'm talking to them. I look around while I'm thinking, I look away, I look down, I look up.
So depending on the person's habits while chatting with somebody, there's always the possibility that the looking down may be misconstrued as chest glancing, when it's just searching for words. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 4:14:12 PM | LMAO... this thread is humorous.
I have a friend that has a shirt that says "I'll be using these to my advantage" just where it needs to be. Needless to say, it works like a charm. HA HA!!
But in all seriousness, if you are putting it out there, men are going to look.
I dress conversatively at the office and have told a few men~ "they don't talk back, you are talking to ME" and that usually ends all that happy horse shit. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/20/2007 4:21:37 PM | | You can't fight nature. Men will look. Of course we can all control our urges but deep down inside we all look and it's an instinct. You just can't fight mother nature and the way we were wired to be in order to procreate. | |
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