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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 7/20/2007 9:23:31 PM | Respect the woman - look in the eyes.
But if they are like another appendage and take on a life of their own (intentionally or unintentionally)- sometimes you can't ignore the 800 pound gorilla in the room with you. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 7/20/2007 9:40:51 PM | Some of this ... gets overboard.
I was talking - a few words here and there to about 3 gals in a bar one time. It was not really any kind of conversation - just a few word here and there.
I am 6’2” - I am usually looking down at females. At that moment I was thinking about something else - not thinking about ANY of those three gals standing near by. One of them said “Ron - I am up here”. It was total crap - I was not looking at her bOObs. My mind was a million miles away (don’t even remember what I was thinking about) and sure as heck not focused on her chest.
She was (still is for all I know) a pretty good gal but that was a total “full of herself” statement.
Girls .....
- ALL guys are not trying to get into your pants - ALL guys are not staring at your hOOters | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 7/20/2007 10:21:53 PM | Why do I stare at a woman's boobs?
Well, gee, that's easy! I'm attracted to women! Duhhhhhh.... If she's got a really attractive set of boobs, I'm going to look! If she doesn't like me looking at her rack, no problem! She doesn't have to talk to me/date me/ whatever, she can merely pass me by and lump me into the "pig" catagory. I'll go on my happy way having seen a good looking woman with a nice rack that isn't interested in a man that finds her good looking. Why is this such a hard concept for a chick to grasp? It's not rocket science or brain surgery. It's human sexuality! Don't want me looking at your boobs, wear PLATE MAIL! Show me a man that doesn't admire a lovely set of sweater puppies, and I'll call him what he is, GAY! | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 7/21/2007 12:35:02 PM | A good friend of mine, he's sort of into new-age stuff, he's got a theory about this.
He says, men who do that aren't centered. They're too busy playing chess with themselves and living inside their heads, they need to become more focused on the moment, and by doing that, they become real men, instead of sycophantic female-admirers. I love the theory, I want to live that. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 7/21/2007 1:03:57 PM | | Quite the "theory" your friend has. Does he always read so much into something as basic as simple physical attraction? Sounds pretty pompous, uptight and full of s**t if you ask me. While I'm not one to stare at women a lot, I'm pretty sure if someone does, it doesn't mean that they're not real men. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/1/2007 9:43:32 AM | Maybe that's all that's on their mind when they pretend to be talking to you!! Just for kicks why don't you try showing these same idiots an excessive amount of cleavage, while asking them something that requires serious contemplation to answer you, just to where their mind really is!! Shomesomethin | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/1/2007 11:03:40 AM | HI
If someone were to glance... thats ok. Everyone glances for whatever reason. Be it cloths... face... whatever. Its when a person stares/glares that it becomes uncomfortable for most women. I just get to the level that they are looking at.. and wave my hand and say 'Hi!' lol
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/1/2007 1:12:11 PM | Well, why do women with with big boobs think men shouldn't notice?! And come to think of it, why would some women all but hang'em out, and then get offended when they're, ummm, "noticed"?!
I admit that there isn't much class in looking at a woman's "endowments" while you're talking to her, but speaking as a bashful kinda guy it really does takes alot of effort to NOT look sometimes. And the bigger they are in comparison to average, the more effort it takes for the same reasons (plus) we stare at anything out of the ordinary
It's just one of those guy things... that not all guys do, but every guy seems to be able to relate too.
I'm pretty sure we all know you women notice. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/2/2007 4:40:24 AM | I don't think it is intentional and I dont think every time it happens it is because the guy is an A$$. I personally am more into the butt than the chest. Its not a big deal for me, yet I have found myself not being able to control my looking sometimes if they have a shirt that shows cleavage and wear a necklace with a charm hanging between them. I cant explain WHY I look because they might not even be attractive, but sometimes it happens. I am usually very polite and conscious of these things, but there are times when it is really hard not to look !! Its like when you drive down the freeway and you see a car rolled over. You really shouldn't stare at someones demise, but you do anyway !! I guarantee if men walked around with part of their stuff showing, you would catch yourself glancing down more often too. I cant believe how many MEN here say a guy is a jerk if he looks at you there......come on now, lets be real, I know for a fact that some women sometimes dress to lure that kind of look. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/2/2007 7:40:41 AM | see this one can be debated both ways... fine.. we look.. we probably shouldn't but we do. I think 90% of men will say its just a reflex cause it really is. don't get me wrong.. I CAN look away though but they eyes see boobs and they look. can't help it.
same token though.. what's a woman to expect when she's got a low [ probably VERY low ] cut shirt or she's busty and is wearing something that accentuates that. no I'm not saying you can't wear what you want... but just... if you show it expect it to be looked at.
granted I'm not in a chicks face and just all into her boobs.. I can look at her face [ especially if she's cute as hell ] but I won't deny that the boobs get looked at every so often.
dammit they're boobs!
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