| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/2/2007 9:49:12 PM | Maybe your breasts are very big and it causes a disease called "wandering eye" syndrome.
Surgey can reduce this disease.
Or you can learn to live with the fact that you have big breasts.
I'm not sure which is the better, your choice..:P | |
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svansi
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 7:10:41 PM | I have a few ideas I would like to give.
1) The next time a guy talks to your boobs, kneel down to his crotch and answere it.
2) When I was serving tables, I used to put glitter on my eyes, that way whenever I bent over to take the order, the guys would stare at my eyes and not my chest.
Just a few ideas, personally, I have found that #1 is very affective in getting the guy to realize how you feel.  | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 8:48:11 PM | What, Boobs can SEE? (just kidding)
I'm not sure if it is "rude" or not. I think God gave some of us appreciable pulchritudes; and that we should appreciate them. It's a shame women try to predicate them as "mine, not yours". If we weren't to appreciate them, we wouldn't have two genders and something about each gender that appeals to the previous gender.
I really think , though, that it maybe is rude while face-to-face talking to someone.
I do find, though, that many women only imagine guys staring at their boobs. Is it just the "boobs" as a whole thing, or some or any part of them?
I like to notice if a females nipples get stimulated when we chat; much like a Stallion maybe watches to see if she is winking at him. I'm sure if that was oncovered, that we could be the nature beings are, we'd stare there more or entirely, opposed to "boobs".
Why do women imagine everything that is instinctual or natural is something at them personal, or that perhaps they'll change us to be un-natural?
Frankly, when i get accused of staring at "boobs" it's never been close to true. I do like to view underarms, especially when baby-smooth. And, at other times, maybe notice how smooth and open is her neckline, for kissing or nibbling.
You know, a naturally instinctual Stallion could be blind and a mare turned in with him and you'll still see his nose and lip curling as he appreciates the "wind" to find his mark -- and blindness won't keep him from it unless you place un-natural barriers/opinions/emotions between them. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 8:54:04 PM | Why...Cause you do not cover them up!!! If they are covered up we don't notice but if you show cleveage then accept it. You want to show them off then guys will see them. Males are visual females are emotional. Thats just the way it is. Is it right, no but hey your chest is 3D ours is 2D unless you have man boobs. But its not polite for guys to stare though i would agree. Instead of getting upset just cover up or accept that it happens and move on. Thats life and its not fair! | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 8:58:56 PM | try #2 in a vice versa approach --- put glitter on your boobs. He'll either realize you are noticing he is noticing or it will allow him an excuse to say "it's not your"boobs" , what a luscious shade of pink-frost glitter -- Barbie Stunner Shades would really compliment the look.
You know, a girl with glitter around her eyes expresses to me she wants to be noticed, and not just her eyes. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 9:33:15 PM | lol DavesKuntry, thats funny. I like that idea.
Don't get me wrong, I do expect guys to stare when I wear something that shows clevage, I wouldn't wear if I didn't like the attention, and yes you are right, I would wear the glitter to be noticed, but my eyes are my best feature, so I do perfer my eyes to be noticed more then anything else.
I'm a female, what can I say, I accept the fact that men are gonna look whether I want them to or not, but I don't care if a guy looks, just don't touch unless I give you permission.
Now, if it is a guy that I have been dealing with (friends, employee, employer, ex, a friends boyfriend, or a client) and everytime I talked to them or even seen them, and all they did was stare at my chest and talk to my boobs, you better believe the first thing I'm gonna do is bend over and talk to their penis. I mean its only fair, especially if you have said something before and they continue to do it | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 8/31/2007 11:12:40 PM | Why do we stare at boobs? Because we like them. They're close to your face and sometimes we're afraid to make direct eye contact.
I think if a man's penis were any farther up on his body, you women would be staring at it too. As it is, women cannot easily deceive themselves into thinking that the guy can't see if she looks at his pants. And the woman is afraid of what the man will think of her if he catches her looking. So she doesn't look. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/1/2007 2:39:52 PM | | Honey, let's be honest. If you honestly did not want men to look and appreciate what you have, you would wear more modest clothing. Why is it women wear tops that enhance and reveal cleavage, get tatoos just above their butt crack, wear thongs that show when they bend over, and then try to shame the men that are noticing such things? Men are pigs, deal with it. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/1/2007 3:15:35 PM | Men gaze at my chest when they speak to me, too. And I don't have breasts.
If you really watch when people talk, you will notice that only the listener focuses on the speaker's eyes. The speaker looks away, unless he is trying to emphasize a point. That is because a locking gaze is a primitive threat signal, and actually quite unnerving. The exception is for new lovers, who enjoy staring into each others eyes. That eventually wears off, though.
So when men talk, while they are speaking they look away from the listeners' eyes, but aren't really looking at anything at all. The eyes are open, but the brain is not processing the information. When it comes time to listen, the gaze reverts to concentrating on the speaker's eyes. Lowering of the gaze reduces the sense of aggression, as opposed to looking away at some object, which would make the listener feel like his presence is unwanted.
So when a man's eyes are directed towards your chest, he is not necessarily staring at your boobs. He is just not staring into your eyes while he speaks, and probably not "looking" at anything at all. I don't know about women's abilities, but as a man I find it takes an effort to concentrate on looking at something and concentrate on what I am saying at the same time.
I'll have to observe women speaking more closely. From what I recall, women tend to look entirely away from the listener, which men find rude and interpret as avoidance or a desire to get rid of us. But female listeners seem to have no problem with it.
And it is not just the boobs that we are not supposed to look at. Lips, hair, and practically any part of the body we are supposed to avoid with our eyes while speaking to women. It is sometimes hard to try to treat all people equally when there are exactly divergent protocols for the genders such as in this case.
Maybe with understanding, you will learn to overcome being so self-conscious about your boobs. And with practice, we men can learn to treat women differently from men (while pretending that we don't). | |
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SNK1
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Joined: 8/13/2007
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AlexSB
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Joined: 6/29/2006
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/1/2007 7:02:27 PM | Hey, take it as a compliment. If the guy doesnt even like looking at your big chest do you really think there will be a 2nd date?
Also why so touchy? Guys dont get pissed when chicks look at our biceps or our car. So dont get pissed when we check out your assets. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/1/2007 7:40:40 PM | Because they have powerful eye magnets in them and it’s impossible not to look. It’s part of attraction and normal for a man to look.. don’t tell me you don’t check out a mans buns from time to time.. ah?
It’s like an alcoholic in a liquor store
A food addict in a bakery
A woman in a shoe store with a empty charge card and a sale going on..
You just know it’s going to happen..
Also if you display them like a booby buffet or two loafs of bread coming out of the oven .. Don’t be surprised if men look..
if i get caught i just say .. oh i thought that was the plumber working on something.. with that crack in all. LOL | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/4/2007 5:13:34 PM | well, if a lady is showing any cleaveage at all, then she probably is trying to draw attention to what she may feel is one of her "more appealing assets" and expects
men to stare. Myself, I prefer to avoid staring at all costs, especially if I get the feeling that the woman is trying to get looks by showing a lot of cleavage, which, in the case of some very insecure women, often causes them to try even harder to get me to look.
And in some rare cases I have managed to piss off the woman because I refuse to even glance at her chest!!
Shomesomethin | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/4/2007 6:15:23 PM | | I was sitting at a desk, talking with the female supervisor of my job. I am 2 feet away from her. She was very attractive, nicely endowed, and showing a lot of cleavage. It was like she was daring me to look. It became almost unnatural in our 10 minute conversation while I either looked at her face, looked up to the ceiling, looked to the left or the right. I remembered the Seinfeld episode where he said that looking at cleavage was like looking at the sun. I will discretely look at the sun when it is out, but there was absolutely no way to do that in the situation I was in. I did increase and strengthen my peripheral vision. | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/4/2007 6:34:21 PM | to anser the subject line... its like a train wreck, we can't help but to look! and most of us don't care if you notice...
through millions of years of genetic coding we have been programed to be attracted to that area...
anyone else agree? | |
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| Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 9/11/2007 4:30:23 PM | sweety pie23 --- hey! go for it. all I can say is I hope i'm wearing my kilt and t-shirt that says BLOW MY BAGPIPE! so people might understand, then, what is going on.
whoa! you had me going for a moment, I had a long reply started and then realized i was talking too much -- send me a note to my INBOX if youwant to know.
you do have nice eyes, but not necessarily your best feature.
I've a poem I wrote on analagizing the females impression of her own "best feature" you might like it, if you read poetry; but you'll have to send a note to my INBOX.
have a nice day --
dave. | |
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