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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/10/2006 5:40:30 PM | Well, well everybody!!! Yes I agree with most. Once a freak always afreak, even though you may go thru a dry spell until u find your next freak. They do always recongize each other and and when u do, it's always a pleasure when u connect. The only opinion I don't agree with is that u can't turn a dud into a freak, at most they will be scared of u or become worried that u are doing everybody. They will never have confidence because they feel they can't live up to your expectations! KEEP THE RESPONSES COMING!! I.m having a ball with this thread! Thanks!! | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/11/2006 7:05:58 AM | *chuckling at The Wiz* Well, come on man, you can't say everyone should 'fess up to the -kind- of freak they are and then not follow your own example! Let's hear it!
sweetness-one, Well I think what is -too- freaky is up to individual preference - which is why as people have already stated you have to be willing to talk to your partner about it. Just try not to be judgemental of anything you might hear. I've definitely said, "Good heavens, NO!" before because what was suggested to me was just wayyyyyyyy off the freaky scale in my opinion. Didn't make me dump him though. I think that's the main reason people are so afraid to talk honestly about sex sometimes. They're afraid of the "consequences". | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/14/2006 8:33:26 AM | | tberry49, I have to disagree with you. Looking for "signs" in people is no substitute for communicating. Besides a lot of freaks don't really like to give themselves away in public. Either because they are professionals or maybe they just don't want their sexuality to be an open book and sometimes, I won't talk about it even if asked. If I'm pretty sure I'll never be sleeping with the person asking me, then there is no reason for them to know. | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/15/2006 12:08:53 AM | There is no certain look or style ..... you just have to communicate and find out. If they feel comfortable with you, they will open up their kinky side to share.
I know one lady in particular that seemed the opposite of what you would believe to be the wild and kinky type. She was very sweet, very thin, always dressed very conservatively and nice, but not flamboyant at all.She was very thin, but had a pretty face. She came across as the nice and demure girl and would never swear for any reason..wouldn't even say $hit...too dirty a word to utter. But my goodness ...... I've never seen anyone that kink minded and wild in the bedroom. She is just a friend ....... but what a friendly eye opener she was. She did things............ well ..... she was wild.
Oh......the handcuffs from the rearview mirror are not a giveaway...... a female minister I know has that in her car, but she used to be a police officer.......its just something she does. Her husband thinks its funny. God help anyone that takes it the wrong way....and I do mean God help them! | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/15/2006 4:25:34 AM | The good kind?
You ask.
Granted, you'll have to ask with a little subtlely. Asking "So, do you like to be flogged by someone who's wearing a schoolgirl outfit?" right after exchanging names and pleasantries might not be the best way to go about doing it.
it also would behoove us to define "Freaky in bed". for some people, that might mean leaving the lights on when they have sex, or a position other than missionary. For others, it might mean oral, anal, toys, BDSM, and beyond in the sexual gamut of freakiness.
Sex with a new partner is a learning experience to begin with, just make that part of the learning experience. say, "I like this... it's kind of off the beaten path in my opinion, but have you any interest in it as well?" you'd be surprised how kinky some pretty normal-looking people can be. And there's always the possibility that they've never thought about whatever you ask about, and you're just the person they need to show them "the ropes", so to speak. | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/15/2006 4:33:42 AM | And no, I don't think that there's subtle signs people throw out. At least I don't, and I'm pretty freaky. Maybe some people do, but I couldn't imagine what those "signs" would be other than a lot of innuendo.
Ask, communicate. It's an interest, just like music or movies or sports or any other interest. | |
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