| | How Do Men Feel About Dating Virgins?Page 10 of 11 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11) | there ya go again, claiming im judging. Sorry i never once said i was morally superior than u or anyone else. It seems like u like playing with peoples words to make it seem like they are against u or juding you. In life buddy you have to take a stand at some point, anyone can go witha trend. You got to stand for something or u will fall fo ranything. Sorry again im not saying im better than anyone.
Your problem buddy is that you feel that man can live according to any law he defines as good by himself, when in reality, throughout history it has been proven to be 100% incorrect. Please spare me the nitpicking of every single word being twisted the wrong way. Being very good with words doesnt mean that they carry great weight behind them.
I got a more serious question for you. How do you know if a condom is strong enough to take it during sex loooooooooooooooooooooooooooool, i think thats more down your alley | |
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Posted: 8/7/2007 1:36:15 PM | there ya go again. Speaking about a true hypocratic and judgmental statement.
You have just judged all canadien women. Hmmm me thinks that people living in glass houses shouldnt throw stonesssssssssssss . So tell us why u feel canadien women are so dumb? I happen to feel that they are some of teh most intelligent women i have ever met. You may now insert shoe from mouth please lol
God bless
"I'm a virgin... oh no i let the cat out the bag woops X.X lol its not a big deal. Like a lot of the guys here have said most girls who are still virgins haven't met the person they feel comfortable with to take that next step. I love my body and I'm confident that my partner would love it too haha I just haven't met "the one" yet, whose to say if we'll even get married lol, it's not about that anyways its about the way I feel and I know I haven't felt comfortable with any guy, or girl for that matter, yet to go that far. But on the other hand I don't feel obligated to have sex because there is so much more that can be done haha, why limit yourself to one action? Oh well, my two cents :)
Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying I think virginity is a bad thing, and I'd never suggest anyone do something that they didn't want to do - I just don't understand these people who think that because they take a stance on an issue, we all have to fall in line...
"Another intelligent post from a Canadian woman. Tell me, what are your immigration terms over there?"
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Posted: 8/7/2007 11:44:36 PM | After this post I'm going to stop feeding the troll, but just to close off...
there ya go again. Speaking about a true hypocratic and judgmental statement.
You have just judged all canadien women. Hmmm me thinks that people living in glass houses shouldnt throw stonesssssssssssss . So tell us why u feel canadien women are so dumb? I happen to feel that they are some of teh most intelligent women i have ever met. You may now insert shoe from mouth please lol
God bless
Oh-My-God...
No. Read it again. I *complimented* Canadian women. Asking about their immigration terms is a reference to the fact that I've found Canadian women to be very attractive people, and suggests I would like to get into Canada.
Find a better bridge to troll under.
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Posted: 8/8/2007 12:33:16 AM | Man u really believe that canadien women are that dumb. Now ur trying to backpedal and trying to make your statement seem more vague than it really is. Sounds like we found out who the truely judgmental person is here havent we.
I wonder what excuse u will find to sqirm your way out of that one lol. I dont need to find a bridge to troll under, unlike u i mean exactly what i say. I never backpedal and try to change my story.
When i say to someone " use extra strong condoms" I mean "use extra strong condom"
and the winner by tko without even breaking a sweat: Virginpower40 roarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
Now please man leave those sweet cute canadien women alone and if u think they are dumb, i will gladly talk to them because they truely arent backpeddling buffoons lol
This conversation is over, and not much of a challenge it was while it lasted.
Im gonna surf online and find out the correlation between guile and virginity and
the correlation between double condom users and being vague and backpeddling on ur words looooooooooooooool
With all due respect i want to keep canada intelligent not backward. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2007 4:57:47 PM | | Personally I don't like the idea of sex with a virgin. I'd rather have an expereinced partner anyday. I'm not interested in teaching but rather interested in getting down to business. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2007 8:02:52 PM | | goodbye anti-canadien. Please next time show class when ur putting downa whole country, and double up on those condoms lol | |
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Posted: 8/8/2007 10:59:39 PM | mahogony he said it in a very coy way to save himself just in case someone noticed it.
Doesnt matter, this place just isnt my style, It is very biased and in one way, have fun people and remember to triple up on the condoms and have lots of affairs lol | |
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Posted: 8/9/2007 3:28:30 PM | well i think you're wrong Wallstreeter, He didn't say anything my country, as a matter a fact he indicating he wants to come over to Canada.
I would like to point out that holding on to one's virginity is a matter of morals or religious conviction only in some cases. In others, it's a matter of unattractiveness (physical and/or personality-wise), fear, brainwashing, lack of sexual desire, unrealistic expectations about sex, or psychological damage.
there are many people out there who do not have sex because they were indoctrinated by their parents to believe "sex is dirty." Sex is dirty only if you let it be that way: no people who are selective about their partners and have loving relationships will ever tell you sex is dirty. Anyone who thinks sex is dirty, virgin or non-virgin, is mentally unstable. So please, be more discriminating when assigning holiness on the sole basis of virginity. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2007 9:21:31 PM | mahogany_rush said what I was getting at a whole lot better.... It's not about morality so much as what is right for any given individual. For me, it hasn't felt right yet which is why I still have my v-card... am I waiting to lose it as you suggest? Not really. If it happens, it happens- though I don't forsee it happening in the near future.
Other people may be cool with it and that's for them to decide. when I said you were trying to force your beliefs on others, it's in your saying that being a virgin is the only way to go if you're a moral person- it judges all non-virgins as immoral, and that's what I find offensive. If being a virgin is what you want to do, I say go for it... but it's for G-d to judge what's moral or immoral, not you. | |
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Posted: 9/23/2007 1:31:48 PM | i love reading these because you get some insight and most the time a good laugh. If i really listened to what most people said, I would be a miserable person. I am waiting until I am married. Is it difficult? One of the most difficult aspects of my life but it'll be well worth it.
"i would never date a virgin or think anything about getting serious with a virgin... you end up with a girl tht has no imagination and drive and a wet noodle on the bed " this is what someone earlier posted. Hmm, i think that is generalizing too much. There are those of us out there that are well educated and have a very healthy outlook on sex and don't see it as gross. If i didn't think it was something worth waiting for, I would not be doing it.
to each is own i suppose | |
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Posted: 9/28/2007 11:58:40 PM | well, i personally am a virgin, though if i was slim, i would still be one, since i am a old fashioned guy, i believe in romance and love and stuff like that, but since i am overweight all the women are too shallow to even get in the mood for it.
I honestly ain't put off by virgins, they just ain't sexually experienced, nothing more, nothing less. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 9:30:41 AM | | I am a virgin male, 32 years old, and would love to date a virgin female. As long as she wants marital sex to be more than occasional, we should be fine in that area, at least. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 10:18:55 AM | OP, if there is any post here makes you think you should give it up, DON"T GIVE UP.
Keep what you have been doing and it's not anyone else' business. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 11:03:49 AM |
1. im raising my kids catholic and to stay virgins till marriage. If she is gonna be with me we better both believe in this or she wont be with me.
I was born and raised in a strict Catholic family and I just want to say. WOW! Catholic girls where some of the biggest sluts I knew. it was amazing how they would be the ones to initiate sex.
2. For 2 people to be married they need to be walking hand -in-hand in every fascet of life, especially for me.
I see you do not even have a profile nor a picture so what you are saying is worth nothing.
You talk about morals and you pretend to be all high and mighty but you hide behind a wall.
I could not see you with a woman very long, I could see you making a woman change her view on diviorce.
I also see you fighting said divorce because you know if you land one woman you will not likely get a chance to get another. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 12:30:04 PM | There was a girl that called in on the Lex & Terry show friday who claimed to be a 24 yr old virgin...they offererd to send Taint to her and "De-virginize" her. Taint has spent time with professionals like "Bunny Love" and I feel that he may not have the proper age/experience or respoect level to handle a deflowering properly.
There's nothing wrong with dating a virgin. When she's ready to take the next step she will. Unfortunately like in the above case they sometimes let their hormones do the talking and just get so frustrated that they do the first idiot that comes along...just so they can be over & done with it. Now taint (God what a nickname) might be able to be a caring considerate individual and he MIGHT have the experience neccesary to help er make a smooth transition into normal sexual relations...but I've got my doubts.
When taking the next step with a virgin one has to act with care & consideration...and be comfortable with the situation. Sex is FUN, but that first time one wants to do things in the proper way and in the proper manner...you just can't toss her on the bed & slamfawk her...it's just not nice. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2008 3:46:59 PM | People are weird...
Not that I'm one to offer an informed opinion, but from what I've heard, sex is fun, but the first time is usually horrible. If it's going to be horrible, wouldn't it be better to be horrible with someone you trust than some random guy/girl? | |
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Posted: 3/2/2008 7:51:23 PM | The first time is usually horrible because virgins quite often mate with other virgins...and at best even if they care deeply for each other, they still don't have a dang clue as to what they are doing.
Now...a virgin has several options...
just get it over with as fast as possible with a random person (not a good idea)...
find a friend who is somewhat experienced that will help them through the transition GENTLY...
wait until they are married and give it up to their hubby/wife (would you buy a car without a test drive?)
find a VERY experienced individual to resolve the virginity in such a manner as to help the virgin to understand how totally Enjoyable sex is...
Become a Nun/Monk and say to heck with it. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2008 10:47:10 PM | I don't see why it matters.
Isn't virginity just a social construct, really? I'd be more concerned with the way a person relates to me. Of course, I am concerned with how a person relates to me physically, but a person that's had multiple partners can be closed off to me just as much as someone with no experience. The converse holds true too; the less experienced can be as open and loving as anyone else in the world. I won't know until it happens.
So why does it matter? Insofar as a person's history matters, yes it's important. But that's neither positive or negative. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2008 6:33:23 AM | This has possibly been said already but here I go again. I think that there is a double standard. For women its kind of okay to be a virgin and it is often very desireable from a male point of view.
If you are a man however, and still a virgin at the age of 30 like I am, you are seen as damaged goods and are the butt of jokes within society or your enclave of friends and family. People say to you that you should be shagging the birds out of the trees, instead of waiting (which is not me. I am not waiting for marrige).
The bottom line is the double standard is there and we are not going to kill it in our life time. I couldn't tell you what I as a male think about dating a virgin because I am one. | |
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