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 GentleCanuck

Joined: 7/27/2006
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 1:54:38 AM

How many sexual partners is enough for you to run and hide when your partner tells you their number???


1,425,648.

Any more sexual partners than that and I am so gone! I have standards!

Seriously, it is what a lady is like that impresses me, not the number of sexual partners she has had.
 peachesncreme

Joined: 7/27/2007
Msg: 102
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 2:02:14 AM
no number, so long as they have a clean bill of health....

so long as that is the case, why would it matter?
 twisted kitten

Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 103
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 4:59:33 AM
I missed that question on the application I think. I think it's much better to simply get to know a person's character a bit before jumping into sex.
 Gotmail?

Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 104
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 6:02:35 AM
I think it bothered me more that the guy I was seeing had been in a relationship for 4 years and they had sex every day! (Made me jealous..............)
 Tysta

Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 105
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 6:49:03 AM
I really don't care how many he's been with before me, as long as he learned lots and applies great technique.


C~
 *DisneyMom*

Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 106
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 2:59:48 PM

How many sexual partners is enough for you to run and hide when your partner tells you their number???

I highly doubt anyone is truely honest with this answer.

Personally, I wont answer it, nor will I ask the other.

Its the past and it stays there.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 107
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 3:09:21 PM

Personally, I have saved myself for the right man, so I would expect him to be a virgin as well.


Now, that is the one number that would scare me away.
 melo365

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 108
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 3:23:41 PM
DEONDS ON WHAT JOB DID SHE HAVE WHEN WE MEET.IF SHE WAS A PORN STAR BY ALL MEANS,WHO'S COUNT. LMFAO
 Roadkingn06

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 109
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 4:27:41 PM
You mean I was supposed to keep count????
 echo*

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 110
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 6:05:28 PM
I can't be bothered worrying about stuff like this. If he's with me now and he knows what he's doing I'm a happy camper. If I make him happy he should just shut up about numbers. It's stupid.
 akuzed4thingz

Joined: 8/24/2006
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/11/2007 7:03:22 PM
SEX. Do you like it? Is he good? Wheres the problem? If the person that you are with is bad in bed just think... maybe they had a bad teacher. So many people get caught up on things like numbers, trying to orgasm, trying to be the perfect person in bed, that we forget why we are there in the first place.... TO HAVE FUN! So RELAX, get naked and HAVE FUN!
 wodehousefan2

Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 112
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/18/2007 4:47:04 PM
No number bothers me. If I am getting into a committed relationship I want her to stop being with other men once she starts being with me...so it is her future, not her past, which concerns me. If we have an open relationship/FWB, I don't care about her other guys...past, or current, as long as they are disease free.
 mikkisue

Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 113
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 3:56:04 PM
I don't have a number, but then that's one question I just don't ask. If he asks or volunteers, I 'd have to wonder why.

I also don't ask or answer, "When was the last time?"

Both these questions are quicksand.
 GrnEyedQT

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 114
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Posted: 9/24/2007 4:02:02 PM
This is one of those questions that for some men no matter what your number is it's going to be wrong for them.

The other two questions... When was the last time you did the deed? and Have you ever had an FWB?

No matter what the answers are some guys are going to run the opposite direction.
 jadedgreen

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 115
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 4:40:30 PM
As long as your partner was safe with everyone they had been with in the past...numbers shouldn't be an issue. I don't think it is anyone's business. It shouldn't be asked by either side nor should it be discussed because someone is always gonna get ticked off by the others answers...when in the whole scheme of things it isn't a big deal.
 Chivo_diablo

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 116
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Posted: 9/24/2007 4:55:40 PM
who even asks that kind of question? I wouldn't ask, but I don't care what the number is. None of my bussiness, nor is my number any of hers.
 carolann0308

Joined: 12/9/2006
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:04:48 PM
I do not want to know. The past is the past and as long as someone is healthy and in love with you it should not be an issue.
 Bosscat

Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 118
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:50:41 PM
When she has seem more ceilings them Michaelango, I'd be getting worried.
 davidgeorge

Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 119
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:53:38 PM
Mmmmmmmmm a topic that alway's pop's up! To me the number is not important at all, as it is all history! what would concern me is does she still love/fancy any of them and why!!
Weird i know, it also show's an insecure side to me i guess! but hey thats life
 gemflux

Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 120
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 6:44:00 PM
the number of times should not be a judgement call that should scare a person, in or out of relationship but how a person fells and sex and love and what s healthy for them or un heathly i guess its about how one feels about intimancy issues and trust, in a rlationship thats my thoughts thanks gemflux
 coolestname

Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 121
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 7:08:44 PM
It's not so much the quantity that bothers me... it's the who. If I know a woman has made extremely poor choices, I am less likely to be interested. However if she has had sex with 1000 "decent guys" ....who cares.
 gemflux

Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 122
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/24/2007 8:47:36 PM
the number of times should not be a judgement call that should scare a person, in or out of relationship but how a person fells and sex and love and what s healthy for them or un heathly i guess its about how one feels about intimancy issues and trust, in a rlationship thats my thoughts thanks gemflux
 ~SMILIN~

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 123
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/25/2007 5:38:39 AM
the most dreaded question for me.....i try to avoid....its really none of her business, specially if i am playing safe, and get checked regularly. my doc thinks i`m a ho though lol
 SWeeT_MaMi

Joined: 9/3/2007
Msg: 124
What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:01:10 AM
men simply lie about this lol.. whatever they tell you, divide it by 3 haha

my good friend has only been with one girl (his gf since he was 15 n he's 22 now) but he said 'when guys ask, i tell them 8 or 9.' that's just how they roll lol

as for girls, multiply by 3 lol
i've never felt the need to lie about it cuz my number's not bad.. but if it starts getting up there, i'm definately not admitting unless i trust that the guy understands
 mikkisue

Joined: 11/25/2006
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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD?
Posted: 9/26/2007 10:42:17 AM
First of all, DavidGeorge, I think that's a perfectly logical thing to worry about. More so than the number. If she's not over him/them, then where can your relationship go? Doesn't sound insecure to me.

Secondly, Smilin', I heard that from ladies across the nation, lol...
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